Name: Do we need to rethink addiction? | BBC Ideas
Uploaded: 2020-09-10T19:10:47.000Z
Duration: 3 min 39 s
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My mantra on addiction is, "Not why the addiction, but why the pain."

If you want to look at what causes addiction, you have to look at

People say, typically, "it gave me pain relief", "escape from stress",

"it gave me a sense of connection", "a sense of belonging."

The addiction met some essential human need that otherwise

So all of these states of lacking connection or being isolated

of having pain or having too much stress in your life,

And when you look populations of addicts, what you find is that

the more adversity in childhood, exponentially the greater

Which doesn't mean that every person traumatised will become an addict,

but it does mean that every addict was traumatised.

In my opinion addiction is manifested in any behaviour that a person finds

temporary pleasure or relief in, but suffers negative consequences

as a result of, and does not give up or cannot give up,

Tobacco, alcohol, substances of all kinds.

It could also be related to sex, gambling, shopping, eating, work.

Virtually any area of human activity can become addictive

depending on the person's relationship to it.

One was to work, and I also had an addiction to shopping,

It doesn't matter how many sets of a particular composer's symphonies

you already have, you have to get the next one and the next one.

In the grip of this shopping fever, I once left a patient in labour

and actually went downtown to get the disc and I missed the delivery.

Now you may think that's laughable, "How could you compare your addiction

to those of your heroin-addicted patients?"

My own addicted patients, when I told them about my addictions

they didn't laugh or they shook their heads and they said,

"Yeah Doc, we get it. You're just like the rest of us."

Well the point is that we're all just like the rest of us.

The greatest myths on addiction, number one, is that it's genetic.

It does run in families, but why does it run in families?

If I'm an alcoholic, and if I yell and scream at my kids

and then they grew up to soothe themselves with alcohol,

did I pass it on to them genetically? Or is that a behaviour they

developed because I recreated the same conditions that I grew up in.

Now there might be genetic predispositions, but a predisposition

The other myth around addiction is that it's a choice that people make.

And the whole legal system is based on the idea that people are choosing

to be addicts, lets punish them for it so as to deter others.

The other myth is that addiction is restricted to the substance user

It's rife and rampant through our culture.

You would think that, with the utter failure of most treatment modalities

when it comes to addiction, we would wake up and ask ourselves,

"Do we really understand this condition?"

But that doesn't seem to happen. We're not looking at its real nature

as a response to human suffering because we're not helping people

So we keep saying, "What's wrong with you?"

Instead of asking, "What happened to you?"

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