Subtitles section Play video Print subtitles Leaning on books to fall asleep at night Missing this distant person in the middle of the night good night Welcome to the READ AT NIGHT For the convenience of everyone We registered the FACEBOOK now Point this way,you can find our Facebook If you have any doubts about your life, please leave a message. Make our lives better by reading Someone lonely but kind It doesn't matter if you have friends. Make yourself comfortable Are you such a person who is very kind to everyone but enjoy lonely Never conflict with people Good relationship with everyone Like to be alone Enjoy a person's time If you say yes, you are such a friendly loner. Friendliness is a kind of cultivation One person action is characte There not conflict Action by one person does not mean that you are not good at socializing. You are very good at changing the way you do things. It's just that you are not interested in performing in front of people who don't care. You are usually friendly and understand others But not blindly following Don't want to join in the fun and don't want to create an event You are so gentle, but not showing it. Of course, not everyone can see your gentleness. So you choose to be gentle to a few people Be polite to others Identity is the basic needs of people Identify your status and achievements Most people need to show themselves through socializing This is actually a performance that is not strong enough inside. For those who are strong inside, they don't need to get a sense of identity from the people around them. What they need more is their own recognition of themselves. So they pursue themselves rather than outside Keeping loneliness is the performance of one's self-seeking internal improvement One person's action is not to say that it is lonely On the contrary, it is more conducive to our exercise Similarly, mixing in a lively crowd does not mean that you are being recognized for loneliness. That is just an illusion There is an old saying: loneliness is a person's carnival Carnival is a person's loneliness There is another kind of person who is very lonely on the surface. When they are crowded, they are sociable Make everyone very happy Full of self and positive attitude When you are alone, you will become more sentimental They like quiet when they are alone. But it won't show up when there are many people. they won't talk to other people about this topic. They are hiding their inner loneliness with a happy externality. Making yourself look very comfortable is actually making your heart feel better. But this is not useless. Only the inner strength is the real way We must realize Human sociality is changing In the past, social time constraints were received. Everyone's social is someone close to themselves. Such as colleagues, peers, classmates, relatives With the development of the Internet, these restrictions do not exist. Those with common hobbies are more and more likely to get together Those who share common interests are attracted to each other and no longer subject to space constraints. So we often see people playing mobile phones while eating. But turn a blind eye to the people facing This can't blame the phone, but he is not interested in the people in front of him. So one person's action does not mean that he has no friends. It's just that you are not his friend. Although you are very close, you are not a person of the world. With the development of society, people's independence has become stronger. People are less dependent on each other. An ancient Chinese once said Next door neighbor, but may never communicate I don't know what to mean when I was young I thought it was because the neighbors had quarreled. This sentence is at the highest level of human civilization. Humans can politely understand each other instead of imposing their own cognition on others. Respecting the opinions of others is a kind of cultivation I hope everyone can be strong inside and have good friends. Friends don't care much, the key is whether there is a common hobby Today's sharing is here. If you like our content, please click on the subscription and share, or leave a message to express your opinion. Make our lives higher by reading Thank you for watching, we will see you next time.