Name: 7 Signs Someone is Obsessed With You, Not Love
Uploaded: 2020-08-24T02:23:20.000Z
Duration: 5 min 8 s
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In the beginning, obsession and love look a lot alike.  But as your relationship grows,

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obsession may rear its ugly head and tear your relationship apart.

So how can you tell with your partner or someone you're interested in, is truly in love or just obsessed with you?

Here are seven signs someone is obsessed with you, and it's not love:

Whether you call, text, or video chat, it's normal for couples to communicate on a regular basis.

However, obsessive people want to monitor their partners 24/7.

For example, if a phone call goes to voicemail, an obsessive partner would immediately assume something is wrong.

If you don't respond within minutes, they'll get angry or accuse you of breaking their trust.

In a loving relationship, your partner should respect your time and trust you when they're not around.

On the other hand, when a relationship becomes obsessive,

According to a 2013 study by Ahmadi and others, obsession goes by another name:

Immature love is egocentric, unforgiving and irresponsible.

It stems from deep-rooted insecurities, which signify a general lack of trust.

Since love and emotional maturity are tightly woven together, many young relationships tow the line between love and obsession.

What are the core components of a loving relationship?

In a 1983 study, Curtis explains that there are four pieces of a healthy romantic relationship.

Two of those pieces are "giving" and "needing."

In other words, loving partners should give as much as they take and take as much as they give.

When either of these pieces falls out of place, love can quickly turn into an obsession.

That's why obsessive partners favor one or the other.

Others take everything from you, almost like they own you.

Whether your partner is impossibly giving or incredibly demanding, your partner isn't loving you in a healthy way.

Love should be a balance, and should impact you and your partner equally.

Does your partner exaggerate your relationship?

Many obsessive partners crave a love that doesn't exist.

They want the kind of romance that exists in stories and fantasies,

so they romanticize their own relationships.

An obsessive partner may talk about marriage in the first month, or call you their soulmate after the first date.

If your partner doesn't see a relationship for what it really is, they may be more obsessive than loving.

Do they make you feel bad about spending time with friends or family?

They're only satisfied when they're the center of your attention.

Love is giving your partner their space to live their own lives, not restricting their choices.

If your partner controls you with guilt, you're not dealing with love; you're dealing with obsession.

Is your partner obsessed with your reputation or status?

Sometimes, people fall in love with wealth, authority, or social power.

According to a 2006 study by Jordan and others, this condition is called "erotomania".

Erotomania creates a delusion that someone of higher status is in love with you.

This false belief begins an obsessive, usually one-sided, relationship,

If your partner only cares about your status, they're not in love with you. They're obsessed.

How often does your partner break their promises?

Does your partner swear they're gonna change, but never do?

If so, your partner may not be in love with you.

When you love someone, you make promises because you intend to keep them.

You're willing to sacrifice your time and effort to improve your partnership.

On the other hand, if your partner is obsessive, they don't want to improve anything.

They're only making promises to gain more control.

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