Name: Back in Japan & Responding to my Quick Engagement
Uploaded: 2020-07-31T19:20:20.000Z
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I have some clothes here, all sorts of things.

I'm trying to get back into a routine because I just got back, like, almost a week ago, almost, and I'm still recovering because I went to Osaka like right away.

I just haven't had a chance to sit down since the last video to explore, to talk about my long distance engagement.

I am engaged now, and my boyfriend or my fiance now I should say, is not here when he's living in L.

A right now, and I'm going to talk a little bit about it while I do my makeup, because today I'm having a small little get together with some of my girlfriends to celebrate the engagement and yeah, so I'm, like, really excited about it.

Now that I have engaged, a lot of you guys probably have questions like, Well, that's super super fast.

First of all, I'm just gonna say I'm not an idiot.

Like I would never get engaged to someone if we weren't.

We had no plans of ever getting together at all.

He's moving to Japan, So we're not married yet and we have to do that here.

We didn't want to get married in the States, obviously, because we're not going to be living there.

And I heard that if you get married in Japan, you are automatically married in the United States.

I feel like when you meet the right person, you just know.

And if it were true for any of my past relationships, they would have been married to them now.

And I'm glad that I didn't I feel that way about the past relationships that I had, and I'm glad that I'm old enough to have experienced a law and to know what I want.

Same for him, because we're not like inner teens anymore.

We're not in her early twenties anymore, so really happy to have somebody that really has similar goals as me and loves me and is excited to travel with me and to do things with me and just motivates me.

But when he comes back, he's going to be visiting his family, Um, first, because he hasn't seen them in a really long time.

He's been living in a life for like eight years, so almost around the same time that I've been living in Japan, which is kind of interesting, But yeah, our engagement.

Israel and I honestly feel like this is the right time in the right one, and he's been nothing but supportive, and we just feel like we've known each other forever, and there's so many people that get engaged and stay engaged for about a year and 1/2 and then they get married and then they're married for three years, and then they get divorced.

So its timing, honestly is not anything is not everything.

And especially when you're older, I feel like it's not everything.

If I were younger, I think it would be a little bit fast because I haven't experienced a lot.

But honestly, like I was at the time that I met him, I was on those dating APs like dating around and meeting new people.

And I did not expect to meet somebody on Instagram, and I did not expect another friend of mine to know him.

So, like, it's kind of nice to have that connection, like we both have our creative instagrams.

And, um, we have met somebody that has been a part of our lives at some point and is this really interesting?

And I did not expect to meet him or anything.

This is the time that I I was dating for fun, and I felt really good about myself, and I accepted myself and I told myself that I would if I never met anybody, I'd be so happy still because I'd be focusing on my own goals and I'd be trying to start my own brand and my own business and I'd be happy doing that.

I've I learned a lot from all of these things, and I just felt really comfortable than and I was over my past relationship and it just was easy.

Everything was easy at that point, and it was a good it was good timing to meet him, then think that we worked really well, long distance.

And we worked really well together knowing that now it just felt right, like everything feels right and being engaged to him feels completely right.

And yeah, we're both very mature, I think.

And we're both for both, Very in tune with our emotions and comfortable with ourselves, and I just I'm very, very happy.

And I'm excited Teoh continue my life with him and travel with him.

And yeah, it's gonna be a big transition for him.

Know that he's going to struggle when he moves here because he hasn't lived here in a really long time.

So I think the transition is gonna be very difficult, and I just need to remember to be there and to support him and to make sure that he is comfortable and it's going to take some time It's probably going to take a year before we're really completely settled in a new routine.

It's gonna be a big transition and a big part of my life.

Honestly, I'm really happy with all the support that I have been getting from you guys.

I haven't gotten many negative, um, messages from anybody, which has been really awesome.

Honestly, like you can't predict the future, you can't say like, Oh, it's not gonna work out based on your experiences in your life like everybody's life and relationships are different.

I have a friend that knew her husband, current husband.

They got married here in Japan and they've been traveling and living together, and they've been married for about two years now.

And I think that's such an incredible story, because it's hard to find that kind of love.

And it's hard to find, you know, something like that and somebody that brings you up and is willing to help you and support you, and that's the most important thing.

Not sure how long this video is going to be It's probably gonna be a short one since I talked a lot in the beginning.

Um and I'm going to be meeting some new YouTubers.

Er I love meeting new people who are creative and know who they are and just own it.

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