But like, bad boys in the sense of just--

I'm not gonna even defend it.

(laughs) It's just bad.

(laughs) Bad.

- Hello. (bell dings)

I am here with Becky. - Hello.

- We're going to take the quiz.

- I'm really excited about this quiz (laughs).

- Which person should you

actually date? - Actually date.

I have always vacillated between two different types.

I either date guys where we're practically

like best friends and people are like,

"Are you guys more like siblings?

"Is that kind of weird?"

Or people who are just like,

most of the time I can't stand them.

And for some reason, I then wanna make out

with them at the end of the night.

It sounds super healthy, doesn't it?

The camera woman is laughing (laughs).

- The camera woman.

- What kind of people do you go for?

- I go for people who are very smart, but maybe not nice.

Because I really value getting into arguments.

- So, let this quiz help us.

- Let's get into it.

- You've just been dumped, and you feel heartbroken,

how do you deal with it?

Throw myself into my career,

use it as a reason to party hard,

wallow and be sad for as long as I need,

and then, emerge stronger, turn it into art.

- There's the things that I would want to do,

and then the things that I actually do.

I always wanted to turn it into art,

or throw myself into my career,

which is, I guess, two in the same.

- I was actually going to say that, for us,

those are like two of the same things you could do, yeah.

- But what I actually do is wallow.

- How honest of you (laughs).

I think that I try to throw it into my career.

But end up turning it into art.

And try to make people think that I'm partying hard.

So, I don't know which one I should go with.

Probably the one I actually do,

which is throw it into my career, yeah.

- What would your ideal career--

Is this your career or their career?

- This is like your career.

- Oh, your ideal career.

- Yeah. - Okay, cool.

So, we have artist, CEO, writer, doctor.

I'm gonna do CEO.

- Yeah, actually I was thinking the same thing.

'Cause if you're a CEO,

then you could be those things on the side.

- Yeah, maybe not a doctor.

- Maybe not a doctor.

That's not saying a lot for the physician community, sorry.

Next one is, which of these things

would be a deal breaker for you?

Not having a sense of humor,

not spending any time with me,

being mean and insensitive, being unambitious and lazy.

These are all horrific.

Being unambitious and lazy is--

- That's a huge deal breaker for me.

- Is depressing to me, would make me sad.

- But mean and insensitive, I don't think.

- Being mean and insensitive.

We wouldn't even be dating.

- Yeah, that's the biggest deal breaker.

- She's judging, she's judging.

This is when your friends judge quietly.

"Okay, you do you."

- I mean, be honest.

- (laughs) Okay, not spending any time with me.

Does that mean like 0.0 time?

- I've been in long distance relationships,

so I can handle being somewhat alone.

- Same, okay, I guess I'd have to say,

being unambitious and lazy.

- Okay, which thing are you most likely

to do to show someone you love them?

Dropping everything to take the time

to listen to them whenever they need me to,

supporting someone financially,

and never asking for anything back

or holding it against them,

spoiling them with gifts, trips,

and other big, romantic gestures.

- I kind of like the one before.

- Practical things, like your laundry,

or cooking for them, cooking them food,

and looking after them in general.

- I can't do too much of the last one.

Or else I'll start to feel like their mom,

and that creeps me out.

I like doing those things.

But if I feel like I'm mothering you too much,

it makes the sexual stuff weird.

Dropping everything and listening to them.

- I think that's what I would do.

We're together on this.

I think it's to really listen,

and spend quality time with them.

When I read this one to you,

I want you to like really visualize and soak this in.

So you can be really honest with yourself, are you ready?

I can be lazy, I can get angry too easily,

I can be insensitive, I can be selfish.

- I already know.

- Which one is for you?

- I get angry too easily.

But then I apologize and I admit to it very soon

'cause I know I have a hot temper.

So, I'll like lose it for like a second,

and be like, "God damn it!"

- Is it weird that I found that cool?

I found that cool about you.

Because you're like so chill, like you're so low key.

- It's all an illusion.

- So the fact that you're like, "I can blow up."

I'm just like--

- It's not healthy though.

I'm learning how to change.

- I think it's good to express yourself.

Maybe to get too angry too easily.

- I think it's better than holding it in.

But I also feel like I should have

a wider barometer of things that make me upset.

- I can be lazy.

- Really, I don't find you lazy.

- 'Cause I'm terrified to be so.

- I feel like you're none of these things.

(gentle music)

- I'm just gonna go with what my gut said,

which was, I can be lazy. - Okay.

Which of these romantic gestures

would be the most meaningful to you?

Cooking dinner for me when they know I'm too tired,

planning a fun and spontaneous date night

for me and surprising me with it.

- I hate surprises.

- Surprising me with a thoughtful gift.

- Hate surprises. - Helping me out

with tasks no one enjoys,

like doing taxes, moving, and cleaning.

- I feel like the last one I would appreciate the most.

But it's supposed to be which one is the most meaningful?

- Meaningful. - The last one.

- Okay, mine would be a fun and spontaneous date night.

- I hate when people are like, "I have a surprise for you."

I'm just like (groans).

- You do? - Oh, I hate it.

- I love it.

- I want to be in control!

- No, some people are like that.

Like, I always try to surprise my girlfriend

with things and she discovers it.

Like, she actively searches out,

tries to find out what the surprise is.

- I get that. - And then, I get mad.

I'm like, "Why won't you let me surprise you?"

- Which works with what you just said (laughs).

Which of these things is a dumpable offense?

"Dumpable." (intense music)

Okay, if they lose their temper and shout at you,

if they take you for granted,

if they care more about their work than you, none of these.

They care more about their work than you,

like all the time? - Yeah.

Then, I like someone that cares about their work.

- I do, I just don't want you to care--

It's like, it can't trump me all the time.

But you also can't be like,

"How dare you care about being fired?"

- I feel like being taken for granted

all the time would feel bad.

Like, honestly, all of these.

If you got shouted at a lot, but like a couple times?

- Yeah, I can deal with a little yelling back.

'Cause I'll just be like, "Yo, let's do it."

- Yeah, I could take it.

None of these, I guess.

- Yeah, I was actually gonna say the same thing.

- What's your zodiac sign? - Aries.

What's yours? - Libra.

- What did you get?

- I got someone sensitive and calm.

- I felt like we had picked similar ones,

and I got a different one.

- It says, "You're an energetic and ambitious person.

"You're also highly emotional and quick to react.

"You need a partner who can listen

"to you empathetically but also,

"mellow out your strong reactions and provide perspective."

- Damn, I think that's pretty spot on.

- Yeah, I agree.

That is definitely what I need.

- Okay, you need someone organized and pragmatic.

"You are creative and fun but sometimes,

"your head is way too in the clouds

"to deal with all the day to day stuff.

"Teaming up with a partner who relishes

"in organization and pragmatism

"would make you an unstoppable force."

- That sounds right.

- This is so spot on, it's eerie.

I am going to actively look into who made this quiz.

- And be like, "Date me."

- And say, either, "Date me."

Or just, "Fix my life."

- Do you feel like you've ever dated someone like that?

- (sighs) Oh, my God, this is huge, no.

- Yeah. - But I think I need to.

This is real, this is happening right now.

I'm really realizing this (laughs).

But I think I'm scared to date someone like this

because it threatens me to need someone like this so much.

Whoa, that was--

- That was deep.

- Stuff's happening right now.

But that's true though 'cause you fully admit

that you need someone to help you with that side.

- My ex was sensitive and calm.

And it was almost a little too--

- Too much. - Too much.

Because I don't know.

I feel like if you're both willing

to meet in the middle somehow, that's good.

'Cause like I like a good debate.

And I like a good back and forth.

But when you do that for too long,

then you turn it into an actual fight.

I actually have gone for the sensitive and calm.

Because I'm so over the top.

Things like nicely balance out.

I would just dominate.

- Yeah, you can't have it too opposite.

Like, need a little--

See, this is why love is so funny.

Because on paper, there's one thing.

And then, there's just the reality

of where your heart actually goes.

- Right, anyways. - Yeah.

- We learned a lot about ourselves.

- We learned so much right now (laughs).

- We're gonna put this quiz in the description.

- Take it, take it seriously.

- Tell us your answers.

- I would love for people to give their opinion

on if you date people who seem

to be opposite of what this quiz said,

why do you think that is?