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  • Thank you.

  • Thank you.

  • Thank you.

  • We're so happy to see you happy and healthy.

  • Oh, I'm happy to be seen.

  • Yeah.

  • I missed you guys.

  • I haven't seen y'all in a while.

  • [CHEERING]

  • It's so funny.

  • I was hugging you, and just because I love you and always

  • hug you the same way.

  • And then I was like, oh, does that hurt?

  • But I've been--

  • You tried to hurt me.

  • I've been-- but I've been watching your workouts.

  • And I think you can handle my hug.

  • You are working out like crazy.

  • I am about 65 to 75% back to my physical self.

  • Workouts are not full.

  • I'm not lifting crazy weights.

  • But I'm back to weighted workouts, agility,

  • mobility, core workouts.

  • I'm a little determined jackass.

  • I see that.

  • Hey, there I go.

  • That's me guys.

  • There I am.

  • There I am.

  • There it is.

  • I watch them all.

  • Yes.

  • There was a time where you couldn't move.

  • I couldn't wipe my ass.

  • Why you choke when I said that?

  • Apparently, I'm choking about a lot of things.

  • But--

  • I'm serious.

  • Like you could not move?

  • You don't realize that your back is connected to everything.

  • So coming out of back surgery, everything

  • changed because you're just--

  • you're kind of helpless.

  • So that's when you get to see what really matters,

  • who really matters.

  • Life kind of hits you in a completely different way.

  • And in that room was me, my wife, my kids, my brother,

  • and my closest friends.

  • My kids didn't want to go to school.

  • They stayed with me.

  • They were like we're just going to stay in the hospital.

  • They slept with me day in day out.

  • My wife was on rotation with my brother.

  • Her mom came in.

  • My mother-in-law was there.

  • And you go wow, this is love.

  • This is what real love in life is.

  • And the things that you think matter you realize don't.

  • Because when you're in that room,

  • it's not about your level of success.

  • It's not about how much money you have.

  • It's about that.

  • It's about those individuals and who you really mean the most to

  • and who mean the most to you.

  • So I've got a completely different look on life now,

  • a much better one.

  • So I think there's something special about any journey.

  • It doesn't matter what the journey is.

  • I think there's an amazing thing about knowing

  • that there's a road that you got to get down.

  • And along that road, are a lot of peaks, hills, valleys.

  • And at the end of it, all of those peaks, hills, and valleys

  • makes so much sense because of the punctuation at the end.

  • I like saying, OK, it's time to rebuild.

  • But we're not rebuilding to get back to the old you.

  • We're rebuilding to be better and become a new you.

  • So it's a thing with me and my mindset that I embrace.

  • And I think from the days in the hospital,

  • when I realized I couldn't do for myself,

  • the first goal was wiping my ass.

  • True story.

  • You're laughing.

  • The first thing was me saying, yo, I

  • don't like the fact, honey, that you got to come in

  • and you got to get me together.

  • My first goal is to get you out of this position.

  • And I learned how to like stretch.

  • And I started to get a little looser and looser.

  • I started showering by myself.

  • I started dressing by myself.

  • And the biggest triumph is when I put my socks on one day.

  • You couldn't tell me nothing.

  • When I put my socks on, it was the biggest thing in the world.

  • I ran around the house.

  • I got my socks on!

  • You ain't had to do it.

  • I did it myself.

  • That was the biggest thing, the biggest thing for me.

  • Yeah, oh, back issues are--

  • It's a different story.

  • My son, me and my son was playing a video game.

  • And this is when you see things come out, so I'm home.

  • I'm just home.

  • I'm spending quality time.

  • I'm in the house.

  • Low key, they're getting sick of me.

  • But they can't say it.

  • Me and my son was playing a video game.

  • And this made me laugh.

  • We're playing DC vs. Marvel.

  • And I played with Superman.

  • And he slams me in the game.

  • And my son goes, I'm going to break your back in the game

  • too.

  • And I was like what the?

  • Oh my God, I said, oh my God, why

  • you talking to me like that?

  • He's like, I'm just playing, dad.

  • Come on play the game.

  • And they were like-- everybody kind of got a little meaner

  • to me around the house.

  • I couldn't say anything because I needed everybody's help.

  • But that's the energy that I was around on a consistent basis.

  • And I will be honest with y'all, it made me so happy, man.

  • Being home for that amount of time made me happy.

  • I was sat down.

  • I felt like God sat me down.

  • Yeah, because you had not stopped working.

  • You had not stopped moving.

  • And I agree.

  • Sometimes it doesn't come in the way that we want it to come.

  • But we are shown a new path.

  • And we are given a gift in different ways,

  • and that was a gift for you.

  • Absolutely, I've never been home more than--

  • I've never been home for more than eight days,

  • eight to 10 days ever.

  • Wow.

  • Ever, never.

  • I have never been home for a consecutive period of 10 days

  • straight.

  • So--

  • And how long were you home for?

  • I've been home for three months, three months.

  • I know because I invited you somewhere.

  • And you're like I still can't.

  • And it was months later.

  • And I was like come to this thing.

  • And you said, I still can't stand for that long.

  • Because you know what it was, it was being--

  • when you go out, you have to deal with--

  • you're going to see people that are happy to see you.

  • And everybody's going to embrace or grab.

  • So nobody knows how fragile you are.

  • So my fear was getting hugs and somebody really squeezing me

  • to the point where I refracture or reinjure

  • and now I'm back at the steps that I've just overcome.

  • So I said I would rather just ground it and be home.

  • I didn't do nothing.

  • I've been home, getting on my wife nerves.

  • That's what I've been doing.

  • Well, I'm glad that you stayed home for that long.

  • And I'm glad to see you that you're happy and healthy.

  • We're going to take a break.

  • More with Kevin after this.

  • Thank you.

Thank you.

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