Name: Therapists Review Disney Relationships, from 'Frozen' to 'The Little Mermaid' | Vanity Fair
Uploaded: 2020-05-06T18:40:45.000Z
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she is having this interaction with a man,

and I'm rooting for him to be that prince.

This is way more fun, by the way, than couple's therapy.

I'm Laura Heck, I'm a licensed marriage and family therapist

- I am Laura's co-host at Marriage Therapy Radio,

and couple's therapist in private practice in Seattle.

from our home offices and we're gonna be analyzing

on the planet will correct you, it is not Anna.

Anna is a princess whose parents tragically died.

She quickly becomes infatuated with Hans, a prince

Hans proposes to her the same day they meet,

which her older sister, Elsa, does not approve of.

to be a cruel and calculating man in the end,

Not you're awkward, but just because we're, I'm awkward,

- What she nails is, now this is who I am,

I'm not a big deal, my sister's a big deal

and so you're immediately, enamored of her, or I am.

And of course we think he is, and why wouldn't he be?

- In this, it's kind of like, yeah you can be who you are,

you can be fumbly and you can be kind of awkward

and get caught up in your brain sometimes

And I think that I get pulled in quite easily with this.

- Anna, what do you know about true love?

- More than you, all you know is how to shut people out.

- Yeah, so I mean, Elsa's a little bit of a jerk

but she puts her foot down, which I think

is really great boundary setting. [chuckles]

- Yeah, I feel like it's really important

of meeting someone, and they're interested in you

and they're so handsome, it's so easy to get

- Limerence is this idea that kind of the,

- Limerence is like fueled by adrenaline,

and novelty and it's not based on any reality.

that third party that knows you really well,

are not thinking logically at this point,

you're hopped up on all your chemical drugs

I mean, there's a reason why they're so excited

a little bit earlier that was sort of lost on me,

which is that she has spent most of her life alone.

not having a boyfriend but not having friends.

- Yeah, she's talking to pictures on the walls.

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Therapists Review Disney Relationships, from 'Frozen' to 'The Little Mermaid' | Vanity Fair

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