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just because someone axa certain way in a certain context doesn't mean they care
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what people think of them
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so friend of mine recently made a video talking about how you want to put forth
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a more compton near on youtube when he was making a video in which he's trying
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to reach people and i agree with that it's something i've been trying to do as
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well
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because i find that when i a moat too much people often misconstrue my passion
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is anchor and that's not conducive to actually teaching people on the subject
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instead it's more likely to alienate them
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when he made that video
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the main response they got from the bulk of his commenters
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was about how he shouldn't change himself
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how he should be himself
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and if people misunderstand what he's putting forward then that's their
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problem
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and i understand where that's coming from but the same time i'd take issue
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with that because heat is
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being himself
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to say that he's not is like
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we all wear facades we all wear masks in certain situations and circumstances in
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contexts we know that
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everybody understands that you don't
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act the same way around her mother and talk the same way around her
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as you would around her friends
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or your girlfriend
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or when drinking or not
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and things of that nature
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different contexts make it so that you
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act in a different way
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and so
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with that in mind each of these things is just a manifestation of who you all
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are
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that's not cool you really are
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well ok you can make the argument that yes this individual aspect of yourself
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in a specific context is not the totality of who you are
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because
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the totality of who you are as a person
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is the coalescence of all of the of the way the impact
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in all of these different contexts in totality
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obviously but the same time it cannot be denied that while there is that side of
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the coin that you are not also in each of those individual contexts a
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manifestation of who you or azad real person
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obviously all of this completely
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indicating
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being knowingly deceitful
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internet when i i i saw daniel talking about how he wanted to making videos
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in which he is more easily reaching people
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that isn't
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came making exchange in himself
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subject
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you know because because he cares what people think
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or something like that
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the two ideas are not mutually exclusive
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not carrying what people think about you
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and acting a certain way in a certain context
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the two are not mutually exclusive
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beacause
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i don't care what people think about me say as an example of people don't like
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my style when i make my videos
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if they don't like that normally i'd do the jump cut thing
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and that's an aesthetic things that they have that they hold as an opinion but
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they don't like about them that's fine and that's a perfectly reasonable
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critique for them to have a my videos
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at the same time that i understand their critique where comes from i don't really
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care about the fact that day
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don't like it because
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it is my style and i'm going to continue to use it by may take ana
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what they're saying and tryin
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maybe use less jump cuts say as an example in this case
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but that doesn't mean that pipe
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have to change my style just placate to certain people i don't have to change
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myself in order to make other people happy as opposed to simply putting
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myself out there
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my intent is to reach people
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is not
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caring what those people thinks so to speak
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when you are trying to put out a message when you are trying to acting the way
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that is conducive
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to your calling tensions
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and so i don't see it has someone changing themselves
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caring about what other people think
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just because they decide
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act in a certain way in a certain context
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i see it as them being themselves
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not changing themselves
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on base implicit nights
