They gained something from it.

That's why people smoke, even though they don't get cancer because it feels good.

I didn't wake up and think that I need to write something mean to someone.

Why why didn't I do that?

Let me think.

It's because Well, when I'm busy, I'm happy.

I don't That doesn't make me happy.

Doing that won't make me happy, and I just don't see the need to do that.

So why did this person feel the need to do that?

So I put myself in their shoes.

Well, clearly, they gained something from this or else people don't do.

And so they're gaining something from putting someone else down, which means they're not happy.

They're not in a happy place.

They're not accomplishing the goals I want accomplish.

Someone writes something on the Internet.

They're not telling your story.

They're telling.

There's telling their story of unhappiness not being where they wanted to be, and I really believe that.

So there's many times where I really hate coming and I go, I'm gonna roast you and I write something, and I really just delete it cause I'm like you have your own issue you're dealing with, and it's gonna be too no benefit to respond.

You can't control the environment you're in.

When you have a really, really bad day, you can't control the other driver that cut you off.

You can't control whoever was mean to You can't control the fact that you missed the elevator.

You can't get you out of those things.

You can only control yourself.

It's about being more proactive.

How do you do that?

Well, okay, if a driver's gonna cut you off place and my good music so in a good mood, leave five minutes earlier.

You know, if you missed the elevator and you relate, wake up earlier.

Anything we do any actually make?

I believe we have many layers as to why we made that decision.

The top is like, Oh, I made this decision at what I would tell everybody else of why I made the decision.

The second layer is what I told myself So say if I took this glass and I broke this glass Hey, what I tell everybody else was like, Oh, it slipped the glass slipped.

Then what?

I tell myself when I dig little deeper is Oh, I thought it would be funny So I like, broke the glass.

OK, but if I did really, really deep look with a real reason I smashes glass, it would be because honestly, I think the segment I was really bad and I want a distraction.

We like to ourselves all the time.

But why we did something, Why we said something.

Sometimes our instincts kick in.

Like if you ask me uncomfortable question, I'll respond right away because it's uncomfortable.

But what I'm saying to you is not true.

If I dig deep where I understand why I acted that way, it's really important.

You need to be re in tune with yourself.

You want to be successful.

I mean, the world gets really uncomfortable, successful, well, uncomfortable sometimes a lot of stress pressure.

If you're not truly in tune with your biggest teammate, which is yourself.

There's no need.

Very good idol is that was doing the rock Johnson and I think he is someone who is so successful.

And the number one thing I've learned from him is how he shares his success in such a humble way that also validates himself.

If you ever wanna scrim, it's wrong place.

That's like this cool stuff is happening and it's very exciting and important to me.

So I'm gonna I'm gonna share it because it means a lot to me.

But this is this doesn't make me better than anybody else.

And nor does it put on a pedestal of any type.

Not because it's gonna alter the way you think, what part of this thing.

And so I think we need to change our association, our relationship with our success.

That way.

Even now when I accomplish something, I don't care how many people come up to me and say Congratulations do really well, just a cool thing.

When I lie down in bed, I literally hug myself like you did really good.

That was a really good thing you did today.