And welcome back to my channel.

It's been quite well since you've stopped here with me.

How does it feel doing this for the first time as my husband, for sure, that was the change in swinging.

You're such a nervous.

You do.

Did you like a digital?

Still doesn't feel like a bit strange.

Husband and wife.

Yeah.

It makes you feel very old.

Yes.

Well, old.

Yeah, but really used to it.

See?

Yeah, Your terminology.

I find it better than like calling you my fiance.

I found that a mouthful.

It was to make you feel like a twat.

Like, Yeah, yeah, that's the accent.

I do?

Yeah.

I'm gonna see my fuel.

Yeah.

So we had, like, the questions on my video That was kind of like a life update on it was lots questions about wedding.

And we thought this was a really nice way to go about, like, just sharing a bit of information with you about a day because we absolutely loved our wedding.

We had the best day of our lives, and it was just Oh, my God, it was so good.

And it was also, like, quite stressful, like in the run up to it.

So it really did.

It was like such a big payoff when it was so good.

So we thought, We share my experience with you on Dhe, do it in the form of a Q and A about my friends.

I get questions up 13 Go team filming this on my block in camera because it's just easier because we move around so much.

Mr Fidgets here, so it means that we'll be in focus for hopefully the majority of the lighting is not great today.

It's very, very windy on, and the light is just changing so much So I apologize for that.

I have ordered some new little compact lights and they should be here on cheese days at a time.

This video goes out.

I shall have been that.

You really want to say cool story?

Yeah, Yeah, Thank you so much for all of the love on our wedding video as well.

Like that was it was incredible.

And I just keep watching it back on.

We actually put a wedding video.

Oppa's well on DDE that is over on his channels all linked his channel on that video down pillows.

It's been different.

So yes, different.

And you see a little bit more of the day on dhe a little bit more like what we said to each other, stuff like that.

So, yeah, other than that I've linked or down below.

Let's get the questions through this.

So question Number one is from Coco Blaze on it says, Are you planning to go on a honeymoon?

And I have a strange feeling that our answers are gonna be different with this one, because that's your answer.

I think that we will go on a honeymoon at some stage in the first quarter of the year.

I don't know what, like, I literally I don't know why you would ever think that we could go in the first quarter of the year because it used to be close to the wedding.

It's solution isn't exactly.

But we went the prisoners in, stepped on and buy a house.

I don't know where we're gonna get the money to go on A.

We've got four months accumulate a little bit of money for months, but we like we can't talk about this video, but there is not happening in this quarter I don't know why you think that there has been nothing set in stone.

No way it's travel those loads loads on DDE is it would be silly for us to put our money into that at this point in time.

No, I do agree that you just want to go.

I just want to go have a chilled I don't give us.

The older I get that he's So anyway, we're not going on honey mean a question.

Number two is from Paulina End and he says, Um, hey, Lydia, congrats.

My question is, what is the most tedious part of planning on what was the most expensive apart from the venue.

So we both agree that the most tedious part would be the politics off organizing family guest list.

See agree that during the table plan on doing the bed yet.

So it's like the politics.

An organization of humans is definitely the most two years, and it's the hardest.

Yeah, you just you want everyone to be happy and you don't want anyone to feel uncomfortable.

But you also don't know what people feel and how people feel, so you just kind of have to do what you best know.

Yeah.

I mean, we didn't get it right completely.

People moved to rip bedrooms than that spot.

And we just want people to feel happy.

But we just kind of did what we thought was that on the most expensive part was probably the bit that we didn't bank for, because you kind of know that your value is gonna be the most expensive bit overall normally and then you kind of know that food is like, ridiculously expensive.

But what we didn't bank on was how expensive, like lighting and sound is because our lighting and sound ended up costing more than our food, which is it is just ridiculous.

Yeah.

I mean, as a former electrician's, I kind of have a good understanding of what goes into lying, not see much sounds, but definitely delight in aspect.

And I know what the quest for the lighting and I was like, Ouch.

When we saw how they transformed the room that we got married into the room it likes, I couldn't I didn't really think it would be something that we would like what we've seen.

Our venue was lots of light colored lights and way aren't really colored like kind of people on DDE, but when we walked in, it was like, perfect.

Yeah, they got my starkly down.

But there was no regrets.

No.

If the line is out at I did it again, we do it over again.

Yeah.

Yeah, that's a good ambience.

Yeah, you've got, like, the party going and citizen because Charlotte Olivia Hughes has asked, what little touches did you do for your wedding night question?

You'd like morning letters are Your touch is nice.

Like Guests Way did love.

Yeah, because, like with all wedding, it was more about everyone else Way just wanted everyone, all of our family to have the most amazing time for Christmas on.

So we really wanted them to just come away.

That's why we didn't involve them a lot in the planning because we saw it as them know, having anything to do with the actual planning and actually just getting to enjoy the whole thing on.

And so, in their bedrooms, they had personalized Santa Sacks that we got from NC.

Yeah, they had the name phone and we had, like, some orange juice in their cattle chairs.

Paracetamol survival.

Yeah, they have not tissues and things like that s so happy.

Too happy on for their wedding favors.

I loved the wedding favors because they don't like because it was obviously before Christmas, we had Christmas crackers on inside Christmas crackers Waas, little Mini, Jo Malone Candles on.

It was the same fragrance that we have most the time burning in our house.

The big luxury candle that we have is money.

Ni is not the Penis.

No, it was my Basil Amanda.

Yeah, aside candles and also macaroons, which were kind of the star.

Yeah, everyone's just chewy.

Gooey.

Yeah, Sof one.

So we could have one up for a couple of nights.

Said, I think the evening before we gave everyone more.

Why do That was really nice.

Yeah.

Everyone in the festive spirit.

And it was a nice chance as well.

For, like, my family, ladies family to sort of bond get to know each other properly as, like, an entire unit, Obviously our parents of man stuff.

But then our extended family, like our cousins and stuff, have an opportunity to meet people.

Yeah, which was nice.

Yeah, that was really good.

And it took kind of the pressure off the actual day.

Didn't we really like?

And then in the order of service, we had little tissues folded inside the orders, just like Bill and H.

And on the inside, it said happy is not one of those hours.

Yes, Gordon.

Yeah.

There's just a few of the little touches that we did on our day that we just We were so happy that we did.

Even though with the person I sent, we actually had to order two batches because you got the 1st 5 role.

Very big.

Yes.

Everyone got, like, actual Santa thighs.

That's big enough to deliver presents.

So were the kids in the world.

And then they got the little, many ones that we initially wanted twice.

June.

I don't know what the outnumbered on a question number.

Yeah.

Okay, So this question Leo G.

Has asked what other things on a wedding that you think a worth spending money on?

On what things that might be okay to say the little on.

So the one thing that I think that we can say that we saved on that we didn't have our wedding, that I didn't feel like we missed was we didn't have a band.

We had someone sing a couple of songs that was leaked.

Picket, he's the guy, but we just love his music.

So we had something like a couple of songs, but we also had Zoe London deejaying, and she's an amazing deejay.

So we didn't feel like we missed out by not having a band, but yet so many people like you got have a band.

Our party ended up going on until five in the morning, so we felt like we achieved exactly what we set out today.

But in terms of like things that I'm glad we spent money on, aside from everything, Yeah, we don't have any regrets in terms of where we spent money, I think like our main focus on the day was just to ensure that everybody had a good time.

So to make sure that the evening on the reception off our wedding was something that everybody was just gonna like party.

So we wanted the sort like mood and the ambience and everything to come together to create a really nice atmosphere gave me achieve man.

Like we said earlier, it did cost a little bit of money for a lightning sounds, but it was definitely worth it because it definitely create that really nice atmosphere.

So on lots of champagne, lots, champagne.

So, yeah, I think that that was something that I would say is quite important to create a comfortable happy Solveig.

Yeah, the wedding.

And however, that isn't whatever you need to do to invest into making that happen something.

Yeah.

Yeah.

What was the reason that you got married on a cheese day instead of a traditional Friday or Saturday wedding is cheaper?

Yeah.

Jesus Christ, like, obviously, is cheaper, like, Yes.

I mean, I think it was a lot cheaper as well.

Had five figure cheaper.

Yeah, it might be talking about It was it was cheaper.

Yeah, last year was laughter.

And also because it was so close to Christmas, a lot of people actually broken up for work anyway.

Yeah, and so we weren't asking a lot for people to have time off work as such, because a lot of people actually had off anyway.

Yeah, so it was a normal, and also it gets that point that, like, you just kind of be like you almost sometimes other.

Sounds bad, but, like, you wanna make it a little bit difficult.

You don't have you?

Yeah.

Like people that don't want to be there.

You know that.

You know, I mean, because you really want to be there.

You'll take a day off to be that.

Yeah, that was that gets to a point when you were, like, doing the numbers.

And you're like, I really like you, But I don't like you enough to pay £100 for you to eat.

Yeah, that's just me being like, honest.

Like I thought it was a nice colleague.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Tactical, everybody I think we invite.

Yeah.

Next question is, did you choose to have all of the stuffed animals at the venue?

Who are they?

A permanent feature of the venue.

No, we didn't choose to have them there.

They just there You can have it removed.

£5000.

I e create part off the venue.

I mean, you don't want that at your wedding venue.

Don't get married.

Yeah, way.

We're well aware you can't miss them.

When we went to look at the venue.

Yeah, so yeah, they just they they are.

There is a fixture.

I think they do.

So some of them tonight.

But the actual deck or the venue is quite like eclectic.

So it's very central.

Yeah, just It works really well.

And they're all antiques.

So they're not like new things.

They're all like antiques on Dhe.

Yes, it's fast.

It It just kind of It was.

It was part of the VIPs way won't We weren't bothered by them.