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  • Hi you guys, my name is Jonica Jojo Gibbs. 2

  • Jojo Gibbs is a part of history. 3

  • The first show in primetime TV, 4

  • where a queer black woman will be the protagonist. 5

  • Starring in Twenties on BET. 6

  • She is very stylish, or he, 7

  • or maybe that's a they, unclear. 8

  • It wasn't easy for her to get here. 9

  • And it's a far cry from her growing up in South Carolina, 10

  • where she said she had to come out to her mom twice. 11

  • First time I tried to come out to my mom, I was 19. 12

  • And I was on break, and I was at her house. 13

  • And I was watching True Life... 14

  • On MTV, I'm Coming Out. 15

  • And I thought it was a sign from God, 16

  • I was like this must be God telling me to come out. 17

  • 'Cause all the parents on True Life 18

  • was just like seeming chill and cool with it. 19

  • (girl mumbles and cries on TV) 20

  • That was not the case for me. 21

  • I walked up the stairs. 22

  • Interrupted my mom while she was watching First 48, 23

  • and enjoying herself, 24

  • so not the best time to interrupt your mom. 25

  • I honestly couldn't bring myself to straight up say, 26

  • I think I'm X, Y, or Z. 27

  • I was like, "I don't think that I connect with men 28

  • the way I think I should." 29

  • And she was just like, "What?" 30

  • And my mom is 5'11", so she stood up on the bed, 31

  • and I was like, Oh, okay, you gonna get up, you standing up. 32

  • And she muted the TV, and I just remember thinking, 33

  • "It ain't worth it." 34

  • At that time, I had never ever dated a woman, 35

  • or even done that, I just knew I had feelings and... 36

  • I was like, "Girl, abort this mission, it is not the time. 37

  • You ain't even got a girlfriend to call to console you 38

  • after this or nothing. 39

  • You just need to go ahead..." 40

  • Just be alone in the dark. 41

  • Yes, like you're gonna have to deal with this yourself. 42

  • So I ended up being like, "You nevermind, nevermind. 43

  • I'm just gonna go back downstairs." 44

  • And she was like, "Okay." 45

  • And I left, and we just never talked about it again. 46

  • We just kind of swept it under the rug. 47

  • It's like my mom blacked it out, I think. 48

  • And I think I did too a little bit. 49

  • Seven years would pass 50

  • before Jojo mentioned it again, after moving to Los Angeles. 51

  • And I called her, and I was like, 52

  • "Look, this is what it is, this is how I feel." 53

  • And I just kept it real straightforward, 54

  • and it was emotional. 55

  • And eventually she was just like, "All right." 56

  • She was like, "You ain't gonna say nothing 57

  • to your grandma, is you?" 58

  • I'm like, "Girl, the whole point of me telling you, 59

  • is that I ain't gotta hide no more, that's the whole thing." 60

  • She being the amazing, incredible person 61

  • and mother that she is, got through her own hangups 62

  • around it, and was like, "I love you, regardless, 63

  • and I'm here for you and I support you." 64

  • What helped Jojo get through it 65

  • was stand up comedy. 66

  • I ain't no ugly (beep), I could get a man. 67

  • I ain't brought nobody home, come on now. 68

  • (crowd laughs) 69

  • You know what I'm saying? 70

  • It was just one of the many gigs 71

  • Jojo took including teaching and working at Gold's Gym 72

  • on her way to becoming an actress. 73

  • Fact, it was comedy that landed her on Lena Waithe's radar. 74

  • After Jojo and some friends started crowd-funding 75

  • for their comedic series, "No More Comics in LA". 76

  • I didn't have a manager or an agent, so I was like, 77

  • "You just gotta create the opportunity yourself." 78

  • You a baby, stinky baby ♪ 79

  • And we took the rest of the money 80

  • and create these merchandise boxes with merch in them 81

  • and USB drives with our Sizzle, and our trailer, 82

  • and our why video, so people could understand 83

  • why we doing this, and we sent them out. 84

  • Lena got one of them, and liked what she saw. 85

  • She called Jojo and told her about a show 86

  • she wanted her to audition for. 87

  • I'm sick of running errands all day. 88

  • So you a writer on the show? 89

  • Nah, I'm a writer's PA. 90

  • Yeah, I mean, it's nothing but God from there. 91

  • Because they were auditioning not even during pilot season. 92

  • How closely does your real life track? 93

  • Very, very close actually. 94

  • In a lot of regards, I'm similar to Haddie 95

  • because I have those two friends, 96

  • that are like my best friend, Rashanda. 97

  • Jojo landed the lead role on Twenties. 98

  • The show follows Haddie, a writer's production assistant, 99

  • who desperately wants to become a writer on a popular show, 100

  • after she's thrown out of her apartment. 101

  • She definitely, Haddie, my character, 102

  • definitely represents a chapter in my life, for sure. 103

  • What's the worst thing about your 20's? 104

  • Definitely being broke. 105

  • I was broke, broke. 106

  • Like $1.15 sitting in the account broke. 107

  • But I'm gonna go get this hamburger doh, 108

  • and see if this card work. 109

  • That was the scariest part was, 110

  • learning that money is fluid 111

  • and that it comes and it goes 112

  • and that it's not worth stressing about. 113

  • And having to learn that, 114

  • you gotta humble yourself sometimes. 115

  • I very much so had to swallow my pride, multiple times, 116

  • and ask for help. 117

  • For anybody on the verge of being 20, 118

  • or if you're still a teenager, I will say... 119

  • Be malleable and... 120

  • be willing to learn, 121

  • and be willing to... 122

  • Move forward regardless of what the outcome is. 123

  • As that chapter for Jojo closes, 124

  • a new one opens. 125

  • On my way to my destiny, can I make it there? 126

  • Can I make it to my destiny? Okay please stop complaining 127

  • I'm getting you there, I'm-- 128

  • Along with it, more opportunities, 129

  • proving the stars are aligning, 130

  • to possibly produce the next big one. 131

  • For InsideEdition.com, I'm Stephanie Officer. 132

  • (chill jazzy music)

Hi you guys, my name is Jonica Jojo Gibbs. 2

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