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  • Hey, it’s Marie Forleo, and you are watching MarieTV, the place to be to create a business

  • and life you love. Today I wanna talk about something very important. You know, one of

  • the biggest questions I get asked is from viewers who want to make a difference, and

  • here’s the question: Marie, how do I make a difference, how do I do something bigger

  • than myself, if I don’t have that much time and I don’t have that much money? Well,

  • today I have your answer.

  • I wanna talk about what I believe to be the moral, economic, and humanitarian issue of

  • our time: the empowerment of women and girls. Back in 2009 I read a book called Half the

  • Sky by Nicholas Kristof and Sheryl WuDunn and I still believe that this is one of the

  • most important books I’ve ever read in my life. A few months ago I learned that theyve

  • taken this book and turned it into a documentary film, and I was fortunate enough to get an

  • advanced screening and it is spectacular. It’s a film that I believe every single

  • human being on the planet needs to watch. Have a look.

  • The challenge that women and girls face around the world is not an easy topic to talk about,

  • but we really think it is the moral challenge of this century.

  • These problems exist because weve created them, so it’s up to us to fix them.

  • The way that Nick and Sheryl use stories to break through the indifference that still

  • exists when you talk about women and girls is exactly the right way to go about it.

  • You understand the story always. This is how people get engaged.

  • Nick and I wanted to galvanize people into action, because we know it takes a world to

  • bring about this change. Were utilizing every tool and platform available to get the

  • message across.

  • Were gonna be going on a journey to some of the places in the world where the oppression

  • of women and girls is truly at its most extreme.

  • I read Half the Sky and I thought, “That’s really what I want to do. I wanna go and see

  • things for myself.”

  • You had the traffickers hold a gun to your head?

  • Youre going to take their money. The girl is their money. Of course theyre not happy

  • with you.

  • It still does seem as if something is wrong if thousands of... thousands of girls are

  • getting raped and in all of Freetown only one rapist is prosecuted.

  • You know what lasts longer than beauty? Being smart lasts a lot longer than being pretty.

  • This little hospital, built on a garbage dump, has reduced maternal mortality rate of the

  • women who come here to one quarter of the national average.

  • We need to be able to have our voices heard.

  • Our biggest challenge here is to create opportunities. Convince the mothers every single day of our

  • existence that your doctor does not have to be bound by fate. She needs to be allowed

  • the power to create her own fate.

  • Pretty powerful, huh? Here’s the reason I am so passionate about this work: studies

  • show that when women are economically empowered, everyone wins. Families are healthier, more

  • kids go to school, there’s more idea capital in innovation, and economies flourish. Here’s

  • the thing, I’m all for you achieving everything that you want, but there’s gotta be more

  • to your life than just achievement. Youve gotta have fulfillment. And fulfillment comes

  • when you contribute to others, when you give something of yourself to something beyond

  • yourself.

  • Here are 3 different ways that you can make a difference starting right now:

  • 1. Start with you. One way of giving to the world is fulfilling your own potential and

  • taking advantage of the opportunities that you have available to you right now. You know,

  • one of the best things about seeing a film like Half the Sky is that it shines a light

  • on all the incredible opportunities you have in this very moment. So if you have access

  • to education, if you have a safe place to sleep every night, if you live in a place

  • that you have the freedom to speak your mind, you have opportunities that others would,

  • and do, die for. Ask yourself what opportunities do you have around you right now and how can

  • you let that inspire you to fulfill your own potential? Living a great life creates a ripple

  • effect around you, and when you become more, you have more to give. You inspire more people

  • just by being a living example of possibility. Now, I know starting with yourself may not

  • seem like a way to give back, but it really is. Because when you change your life, you

  • change the world.

  • 2. Use your voice. Ok, so this one is easy. Go watch the film. Watch it on PBS, if you

  • can’t watch it on PBS you can see clips on YouTube or HalfTheSkyMovement.org. Were

  • gonna have links below to help you out. Then, use your voice to spread the word. Choose

  • just one person in your life and make a direct call, whether it’s your mother or your brother

  • or your sister or your girlfriend or your aunt or your grandmother, call one person

  • and make them watch this film. If you like social media, you can get the word out that

  • way. You can Tweet, you can Facebook, anything you want. Once again, were gonna help you

  • out with links below. You have a voice, and if youre watching this video right now,

  • you have the freedom and the resources to share it. So use your voice and spread the

  • word.

  • 3. Get engaged. Do something. Choose an organization that you learn about in Half the Sky and get

  • engaged. Whether you donate money or you donate time or just help by spreading awareness,

  • do something. Don’t think you won’t make a difference doing one small thing. Think

  • about it, there are thousands of people watching this MarieTV episode right now. Now, imagine

  • if each of us chooses to do just one thing. That’s thousands of small actions added

  • up together. There’s no way that’s not gonna make a difference. As Margaret Mead

  • once said, “Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change

  • the world. Indeed, it is the only thing that ever has.”

  • So there you have it, three really doable ways to start making a difference right now.

  • So here’s my challenge to you: Choose at least one of these ways and commit to taking

  • action today. You can do more if you want, but I want you to commit to at least one and

  • tell me about it in the comments below.

  • As always, the best discussions happen after the episode at MarieForleo.com, so go there

  • and leave a comment now. Did you like this video? If so, subscribe to my channel and

  • share it with your friends. This is such an important issue, I want you to share it all

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  • Stay on your game and keep going for your dreams. The world needs that special gift

  • that only you have. Thank you so much for watching and I will see you next time on MarieTV.

Hey, it’s Marie Forleo, and you are watching MarieTV, the place to be to create a business

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