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  • - Show me your friends, and I will show you your future.

  • You see, on my YouTube channel,

  • I talk a lot about motivation, success, sales,

  • entrepreneurship, wealth creation.

  • And one of the things I say again and again,

  • and that is don't hang around with poor people.

  • And some people take it the wrong way.

  • Oh, Dan, you're saying you only judge people's character

  • by how much money they have?

  • That's not what I'm saying.

  • Because people without money, that's just one form of poor.

  • There are many, many forms of poor.

  • Today I'm going to share with you the seven mentalities

  • that keep most people poor.

  • You see, I've been broke.

  • I was in debt.

  • I started with nothing.

  • I wasn't born with a silver spoon in my mouth,

  • and I created all this from scratch,

  • so I knew what it's like not to have money.

  • So, as I teach you these seven mentalities

  • that keep most people broke and poor,

  • I want you to comment below how many of these do you have?

  • How many of these do people around you have?

  • And what are you going to do about it?

  • Number one: poor in spirit.

  • Do you know people who walk around all day,

  • they just look defeated, right?

  • They are saying to you, you know, why bother trying?

  • They have lost hope.

  • Maybe they've been burned before.

  • They have failed before.

  • They've made mistakes before, but now they've all given up.

  • They're saying to you all the time, "Oh, it can't be done.

  • "It's impossible.

  • "Hey, don't even try that.

  • "I tried that before."

  • You see, just because they can't do something,

  • now they're selling you, they're telling you why you cannot do it either.

  • They are poor in spirit.

  • (inspirational music)

  • Number two: poor in love.

  • You see, most of us, I believe, don't love ourselves enough.

  • Now, I don't mean arrogance, self-arrogance.

  • I'm talking about self-love.

  • Because growing up,

  • we don't get enough love from other people.

  • For most of us, for most of us,

  • there's a guy I used to know who had experience,

  • multiple breakups, and to a point where now,

  • he doesn't trust relationships anymore,

  • doesn't trust women anymore,

  • because he doesn't want to get hurt.

  • And I believe hurt people hurt people.

  • And you can see on his face when I look at him,

  • he doesn't smile.

  • There's no joy.

  • There's no life, right?

  • Think about it.

  • If you have given a choice, if you could have $1 million

  • for the rest of your life.

  • You have $1 million, but in exchange,

  • you could no longer have intimacy,

  • you can no longer have relationship with anybody else,

  • you can no longer love in exchange $1 million.

  • Would you take it?

  • Comment below.

  • You wouldn't, because life without love

  • means very, very little.

  • And how could you give love?

  • You cannot give something that you don't have,

  • so how can you give love if you don't have love yourself?

  • How can you love others if you don't love yourself?

  • (inspirational music)

  • Number three: poor in wisdom.

  • There are people who are dumb.

  • There are people who know they're dumb.

  • There are people who are dumb, thinking they're smart.

  • And there are people who are smart playing dumb.

  • You want to be the fourth type.

  • When I'm talking about wisdom,

  • I'm not just talking about knowledge

  • because knowledge does not equal wisdom.

  • I don't mean just school smart, being academic intelligent,

  • I'm talking about way more than that

  • because as a human being, if you're talking to people

  • that they're not growing, they're not learning,

  • they're not becoming better every single day,

  • when you talk to them, do you know what I'm talking about?

  • Comment below.

  • That it lacks depth.

  • They're talking about the weather,

  • they're chit-chatting about their problem,

  • they're talking about their jobs.

  • It's very tasteless.

  • You don't want to do that.

  • Wisdom is very different from knowledge.

  • Knowledge is knowing what you can do.

  • Wisdom is knowing when not to do it.

  • Knowledge is daily increase, and wisdom is daily decrease.

  • (inspirational music)

  • Number four: poor in character.

  • They lie, cheat, and steal.

  • They lack integrity.

  • They promise you to do something, and they don't do it.

  • Basic character, right?

  • And these people are people that you could never count on.

  • You can't trust them.

  • You can't rely on them.

  • They say that they'll back you up.

  • They never back you up.

  • Basic, basic integrity.

  • Poor in character.

  • Number five: poor in habits.

  • They are lazy.

  • They procrastinate.

  • They value comfort instead of freedom and success.

  • They take drugs.

  • They smoke.

  • They drink.

  • Stay away from those people.

  • You see, you are a product of your environment.

  • You cannot help but be influenced by people around you.

  • Successful people, they just simply have better habits.

  • That is it.

  • So stay away from those people.

  • Number six: poor in attitude.

  • You see, what is most contagious is not a positive attitude.

  • It is a negative attitude.

  • These are the energy drainers.

  • They drain the life out of you.

  • They suck the energy out of you.

  • Whenever you have a conversation with them,

  • after the conversation, you feel like you need

  • to take a shower because all their bullshit and negativity.

  • Number seven: poor in finance.

  • They don't like money.

  • They don't want to talk about money.

  • They don't like to talk about money.

  • They don't know anything about money.

  • They don't know how to make money.

  • They don't know how to save money.

  • They don't know how to invest money.

  • They don't know how to create more money,

  • and therefore they have no money.

  • Poor in finance.

  • So, comment below how many of these poor people

  • do you have in your life?

  • How many of these poor people do you know

  • beyond than just money?

  • Comment below.

  • See, the next question you might have is well, Dan,

  • how do I fix this?

  • If I have some of these poor mentalities,

  • what do I need to do?

  • I'm going to give you a challenge.

  • I call that the 100 Video Challenge.

  • We've got over a thousand videos on my YouTube channel.

  • Watch 100 of my videos in the next seven days.

  • And see if that doesn't improve your mentality,

  • your mindset, your attitude, your habits.

  • Do that for seven days.

  • 100 Video Challenge.

  • If you accept this challenge, comment below,

  • and come back to this video and tell me

  • how that has improved your life.

- Show me your friends, and I will show you your future.

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