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  • When you think about money and your dreams and you're looking at your account, you're like, "My bank account does not align with my dreams."

  • Financial health for a typical American household can be stressful.

  • We know that 46 percent of all Americans would struggle coming up with 400 dollars in the event of an emergency.

  • And 60 percent of all Americans will face that emergency within 12 months or less.

  • When you ask the question, "What does money mean to you," most people will say things like, "I feel anxious."

  • And so the insecurities come.

  • The shame comes.

  • I think we have a fraught relationship with money, because it comes with judgment.

  • When you're not able to pay your bills on time, you can personalize that.

  • I don't want anyone to think that I'm not smart.

  • I don't want anyone to know that I am very insecure with money.

  • I don't want anyone to know that I am super stressed out.

  • So now let's change the narrative.

  • 6 lessons on how to improve our relationship with money.

  • 1: Talk about it.

  • You can't do it alone.

  • And that's when your squad has to come in.

  • It's taboo.

  • We typically don't talk about our stresses when it comes to money.

  • We need to come together as a group of friends, no judgment, no shame.

  • Celebrate the fact that we've made a decision that we want to have a better relationship with money.

  • That is worth applauding or snapping your fingers about.

  • Once you've done that, then you get real.

  • Nothing should be off-limits.

  • Where does this relationship come from?

  • Why am I spending all this money on things that don't align with my goals?

  • What are your fears?

  • What are your hopes?

  • What are your dreams?

  • But then we start to take action.

  • What can we do this week?

  • Or what can we do this month?

  • 2: Understand what money is.

  • Money is not the end-all be-all.

  • It's the mechanism to accomplish whatever your goals are.

  • It does not define you.

  • It's just a mechanism to accomplish what matters to you most.

  • 3: Identify what matters to you.

  • Ask yourself one fundamental question: What are you saving for?

  • If you're saving for a car, if you're saving to pay down your debt, if you're saving for that rainy-day fund, it will include short-term goals, and it will include long-term goals.

  • 4: ...And then really picture it.

  • Visualize what you're really trying to accomplish.

  • A vision board is a visual representation of what you're saving for.

  • So if we break it down, go get a poster board.

  • Get your markers, get your glitter.

  • Take magazine pictures, cut it all out.

  • Have that picture of that great trip.

  • Have the picture of you paying down your student debt.

  • The vision board sounds like, "Oh, how can that really help?"

  • The point is your goals need to align with your behaviors, and the vision board is really a representation of where you wanna go and then how you live your life, and in the meantime are the steps to really get there.

  • 5: It's not what you make, it's what you keep.

  • It's not about what you make, it's about what you keep.

  • It's about understanding do I have the ability with what I'm making to take care of my basic needs?

  • And if not, what adjustments do I need to make?

  • And then we start to break it down and talk about the tools.

  • We start to say, "Do we have our savings account? Auto-save."

  • Set it and forget it, or every day, put a dollar a day.

  • Whatever that rhythm is for you, the goal is the rhythm, not the amount.

  • You can start slow.

  • You can start small, but you have to start now.

  • And then let me give you a trick, we all have impulses.

  • Many times, because the phone is always with us, we start shopping.

  • Go out to any site, shop up, put it in your cart.

  • Just don't hit buy.

  • Wait 24 hours, go back and ask yourself, "Do I really need it?

  • "What about these items map to my goal?"

  • And if it's nothing, hit delete and you got your fix.

  • 6: Be good to yourself.

  • It's also important to know that your self-worth is not determined by your net worth.

  • This is something that we can do better about.

  • You celebrate your wins.

  • And when you make that misstep, no judgment, no shame.

  • Just get back at it.

When you think about money and your dreams and you're looking at your account, you're like, "My bank account does not align with my dreams."

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6 ways to improve your relationship with money | The Way We Work, a TED series

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    Seraya   posted on 2020/03/03
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