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How many of you have been the opposite, you read something, you get to the end
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of the page, and then you forgot what you just read?
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Look around.
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And you go back and you reread it and you still don't know what you
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just read, right?
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And that's a big problem, right?
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Because you're wasting your most valuable asset which is your time and the reason
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why all the speakers here give 100% is because we know your time is valuable.
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Like, I want to make this session so valuable, when you leave you are like,
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"I would have came and paid just for this one talk."
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You know what I mean?
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Because I know what it's like when I first learned these skills,
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I traveled around the world, I bought every audio program,
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audio cassette...I'm dating myself, but it's like I bought all these programs
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because that's the thing that's going to help me be able to grow the most.
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And so on the right side, the three questions I obsess
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about to get the most out of my reading or listening to a podcast or anything else,
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I asked myself these three questions.
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I ask myself, "How can I use this?"
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Now, it's so basic but I like to make...the things that are going to give
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you the highest return, I want to make them as simple as possible
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so you do it.
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"How can I use this?"
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And this is your creativity.
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You're listening to me as I speak here and all the other speakers and just ask,
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"How can I use this?"
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Because you have a dominant question you ask all the time,
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it's been imprinted on you since you were a child, right?
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And so for me growing up as the boy with a broken brain, I would be very introverted,
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very shy, and I would just...my superpower back then was being invisible, right?
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Because I didn't want to be seen or heard because I didn't feel like I was enough
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and that's just what my reality was.
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But my imagination would kick in all the time because I would watch people and
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observe them and ask, "Why is that person so smart?
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Why do I have to work three times harder to do worse than this person, right?"
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And the question I would ask all the time was, "How can I make this better?"
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Because I was obsessed, and the key to reading comprehension is
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asking more questions.
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If you read a page in a book, get to the end, and not get anything
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out of it, it's because you're not asking questions, because questions
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are the answer.
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You can write that on the left side.
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Questions are the answer because ask and you shall receive.
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And so that's all the thinking is, when you really break down functionally
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what thought and thinking is, when you're in a corner thinking
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to yourself, you're asking questions and then you're answering them.
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And you probably are like, "Is that true?"
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Notice you had to ask a question to be able to think about that, right?
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And so, on the right side, I'm thinking about questions like,
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"How can I use this?"
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and this is like, ""Oh, there's the one way I could use it,
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another way and another way."
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The second question that I obsess about...and I would capture on the
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right side, to be able to when you're taking notes throughout today and the rest
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of your life, on the right side I would say, "Why must I use this?"
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Because here's the thing, the biggest lie in the personal
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development industry is that knowledge is power.
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It is, it's just you feel like you got points because you think signed up for a
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seminar or a webinar, you bought a book and it sits on your
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shelf and it becomes shelf-help instead of self-help because it just
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sits there, right?
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But it doesn't become...the truth is what people don't tell you is all the podcasts,
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coaching, conferences, online programs, none of it works unless you work, right?
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Is that fair to say?
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Like, you can't read a book on doing, like, push-ups and get benefit from that,
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it just doesn't work, right?
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So, you have to do the work.
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So I'm asking myself, "How can I use this?"
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and I come up with all these ideas, that's the creativity part.
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And then I'm asking, "Why must I use this?"
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Because if it's not a must, you're not going to do it because you have
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plenty of other things to do, is that fair?
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Because there's the success formula, you capture on the left side of your page,
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head, heart, hands.
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You could think about things in your mind, set goals in your head and affirmations,
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KPIs, your objectives, but if you're not acting with your hands,
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and you're procrastinating.
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Raise your hand if you ever procrastinated before.
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Right, all of us.
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If there's a gap between your head and your hands, check in with the second H,
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which is your heart, right?
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The emotion, we do things emotionally, we are emotional creatures.
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We're not logical; we're biological.
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Dopamine, oxytocin, serotonin, endorphins, we're this chemical soup and so we want
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to be able to activate that.
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So, head, heart, hands, another way of putting it are the I's.
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Information, that's good, great, but sometimes you can listen to a podcast
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that has lot of information but there's no inspiration to use it.
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Fair?
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But sometimes you can listen to a speaker or learn something and it's inspiring,
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but you don't know what to do, right?
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Is that fair?
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So you have information, you have inspiration,
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and then you have implementation where you're doing it.
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And I feel like when you get all three I's together, you have the most powerful I
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which is integration.
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That's my goal for all of you is that when you read something, you listen
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to something, you know, you learn something,
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it becomes part of who you are.
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It's integrated here, here and, here and then you have an alignment and
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how it performs is it looks like magic to people.
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You know when somebody is aligned and they're in their element,
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it looks like it's effortless?
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You know, these flow states, it's powerful.
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There's three parts to it that I focus on.
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You know, how many of you have ever been in the zone?
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And that's how it is when I'm reading.
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Like, people think that just because our programs called Kwik Brain and Kwik
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Learning and Kwik Reading, it's frantic fast.
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It's not at all, it is a piece to it.
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It's like somebody who's fit and has strategies, if they have to climb
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a mountain, it looks like it's effortless because they've just done the work and
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they have strategy and they have tools to be able to do so and somebody who maybe
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doesn't have those resources, it's more effort, is that fair?
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So actually learning how to do these things, it's easier, like,
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when I read a book...I still read a book a day, it's just part of my practice,
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it's part of my mental hygiene and I feel like it's the number one exercise because
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reading is to your mind like exercise is to your body.
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And some of you are already doing this, I'm preaching to you so I'm going to show
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you how to do it better.
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But those of you who aren't, on the other spectrum,
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reading at all...the average person reads, like, two books a year,
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now if you're reading, like, more than that, that means somebody is
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reading a lot less, right, on the other side but it's the best
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exercise for your brain.
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People ask me all the time, "How do I keep my brain young and how do I
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keep it energetic as I grow older?"
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Reading, reading.
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But the problem is a lot of people don't indulge in it because they're not good
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at it and I wouldn't be playing a lot of golf if I was horrible at it all the time
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but in psychology, they have something called the confidence-competence loop.
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That the more competent you get at something, the more confident you get
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at it and then the confidence will make you do it more and then you get more
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competent and then it cycles through in the positive momentum, right?
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And you have examples of that in your own life.
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So what I'm asking about here, the second part, the inspiration is,
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"Why must I use this?"
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And you know what question I asked a lot of is like, "Who's counting on me
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to win today?"
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You know what I mean?
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Because some of you...and I bring this up because some of you really will do more
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for other people than you will for yourself.
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So knowing that about yourself, self-awareness is a superpower,
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then tap into that.
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You don't have to change it, tap into it, "Who's counting on me to, like,
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be at my best?"
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And then you're more likely to do it.
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And the reason I know this is because when I was driven so much,
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it was really my family who I want to make proud.
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Like, we all have our reasons, right?
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And one of my favorite books, I probably give you 12 of them, you know,
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in this conversation, "Start With Why," it's a must read book
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by Simon Sinek.
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And you want to start with your why because reasons reap results,
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reasons reap results.
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And even remembering people's names, if you don't have a reason to remember
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their name, you don't.
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Like, how many of you have trouble remembering people's names,
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raise your hand.
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See, this is the thing, you don't remember everyone's name but you
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sure as heck don't forget everyone's name either, right?
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So, there's always...genius leaves clues...you can write that down,
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genius leaves clues, there's always a method behind the magic,
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and I bet you the names you remember are people that you have some
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kind of intention.
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You're attracted to that person, they could be good
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for your business, right?
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There's some kind of motivation that's there.
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So, find your motivation in your reading because if you're not motivated,
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you're not going to read very well.
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Is that fair?