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“You all look the same.” “Let me guess, your name is Singh?”
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“I like you hat.” Er, if you don't mind, it's a turban.
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“Oi, go back home.” What to South East London mate?
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Um, yeah?
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“I like your hat.” “Rag-head or like egg head.”
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“Have you had an accident? It looks like you have a bandage on.”
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It's a turban, and it comes in different styles, it comes in different colours.
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“What's under you turban?” Thinking that it's something magical under
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there, like I've got an extra brain or something. If you see someone with a turban you instantly
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know he's a Sikh, like there's no denying it.
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Well you can't buy one of these, for starters. It's practice.
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People just think you get it and just put it on your head.
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And there's an actual...there's a finesse, there's a process, there's an art.
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There's an art to tying the turban. It's basically like a piece of cloth that's
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on this table, and it's a bit longer, it wraps around my head three times.
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I have many different types of turban underneath this. It's like Russian Dolls, when you
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take one out there's another one, you take one out there is another one.
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It's a symbol, it's my crown, it's my identity.
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Repping. Repping the paag anyway.
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Repping my tradition. I look good in it anyway.
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Exactly. Don't worry about it.
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“Can you sing, Singh?” Yeah, ama-Singh-ly.
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The middle name Singh was given by the 10th Guru to all the guys.
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I'm a female Sikh, so I'm a Kaur. Because I've not got Kaur in my name, they're
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like, “But you're not really Sikh then.” Every white guy has an Indian friend and they
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get really excited when they meet you, be like, “Oh I know an Indian guy. His name
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is so and so, you must know him.” “Do you know Jagpal? Do you know Jagpal?”
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Yeah we go back in like Africa. No we don't. No we don't.
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You'd always wait for your name on the register and you'd just wait for that teacher to
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pronounce it wrong. They'll be like, “John?” Yeah, “James?”
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Yeah, “Patrick?” Yeah. And then Am… You can see them struggling, they're like,
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“Karamvir” , genuinely trying to, they're really trying as well.
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It's the commitment to get it out. I was like, oh I signed my name, you know
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Poonam. And she was like, by the end of walking me around, she was like, “It was really
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great to meet you Susan.” And I was thinking, “Who the fuck is Susan?”
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“Are you Muslim?” I get this a lot.
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“Are you though? Are you Muslim?” No.
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They don't understand that there are different types of brown people.
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Yeah. When you do tell them, “I'm Muslim, I'm
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not Sikh.” They're like, “Oh ok,” Like they get sort of relieved, like “Oh
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thank God you're not a Muslim.” That is, I find that really offensive.
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Because there are similarities in both religions, but obviously there is a big difference in
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how we live our lives to a certain extent. Everything post, you know, all those events,
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we've also taken that on, because people presume we're Muslim, we get that abuse
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as well as Muslim people. But then I think when it comes to that point,
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is when people start saying, “Are you Muslim?” I say no. They say, “Are you sure?”
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And I'm a bit like, “Erm… I don't know last time I checked.” At home, my Mum
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told me this morning, “You're Sikh, have a good day.”
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“You all look the same.” Well clearly not, because, because you know…
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We don't. I've had other Sikhs telling me we all look
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the same. And it's when people use it as a way of
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you know like, apologising as a get out. So if they've said, “Oh I thought you were
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Muslim. Oh no sorry, it's just because you all look the same.”
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People always say to me, “Oh you really look like that girl from 'Goodness Gracious
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Me'.” It doesn't matter who you are or where you're
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from, you want to be like you, you don't want to be like, your cousin, your brother,
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or like someone else that wears a turban and a beard, it's like no.
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Not every Sikh looks like that, you get girls obviously that have long hair, short hair.
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The whole idea of having a turban and a beard and having this kind of identity was to look
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different was to stand out the crowd. I think that's my favourite thing about
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Sikhism, it doesn't matter what gender you are, or what kind of background you're from,
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everyone is equal. So My family has never differentiated me,
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if i ever get into a fight, they're not like, “Don't you're a girl.” My grandad
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was like, “Did you smack him in the face or not?” and I was like, “Yes I did.”
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Good on you.
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“You smell like curry.” Yeah and what? And what?
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I eat that. You eat it don't you?
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You don't always smell like curry. Obviously you're going to smell like what you cook
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in your house. You know what, it's really funny, growing
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up, you were always aware, When your Mum is making a dish at home and there's a strong
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smell and you had to go out. And you're like spraying everything on you, because you
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don't want to be a stink. And you know when you smell it on the train
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and you think, “Oh that's me! Is that me? No that's not me.” I smell like Gucci
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Guilty or something, it's the person over there.
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And actually curry is great. Yeah, it's like Britain's number one dish
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for take away. Yeah.
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I think curry smells like. I mean I like a good curry, I don't go to
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a curry house or whatever. No you can't beat traditional cooked Indian
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food. I think if you walk passed a chippy it smells
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great, or whatever food it is. Yeah.
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But it's definitely the smell of our culture and of our heritage.
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And we're proud of it!
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But I was born here, so this is my country. I don't know how many other ways we can
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say this, I'm from Birmingham, born and raised, this is my county.
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You take it for granted, they do mean, “Go back to India.” It;s just like…
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I don't want to. Yeah I want to stay here.
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I don't want to, I'm alright here thanks. I love this country.
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So people will come up to me and they'll say, “Oh where are you from?”
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And I'll say, “Oh, from the midlands.” “Yeah, but where are you actually from?
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Where are you really from?” “No, no, no, no, where are you from?”
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Birmingham, England. And it's such a beautiful culture, the food,
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the clothes, you know, there's so much to be proud of to be Asian in Britain today.
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Also another thing that I love is our history. It's so deep and it's so rich and it's
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beautiful. And as a woman, it is so empowering to know,
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that even 200-250 years back, they were preaching men and women being completely equal.
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You know, it's just another thing I love about that, being proud to rep that.
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Rep that. I love that word in the end. Rep that!
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Rep that!