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  • First of all.

  • The obvious stuff.

  • This includes stuff like grooming, having a decent hair cut working out not dressing like a little kid smiling and so on.

  • There are tons of videos and articles out there about this, someone will make a video like "3 tips on getting girls" and it's stuff like #1 get a haircut, #2 don't be fat.

  • Well ... DUH!

  • ..... Gee, thanks, I had no idea that if I cut my hair like Justin Bieber's when he was 14, that girls wouldn't like it!

  • I had no idea that if I was 200 pounds overweight girls wouldn't like it!

  • Thanks for telling me!

  • Great advice!

  • So yeah, I'm not gonna waste time talking about stuff like that.

  • I'm gonna assume you're smart enough to know that if you're 5000 percent body fat, you need to get in the gym, and if your hair is 2 feet long , you need to cut it.

  • This video isn't gonna be any generic advice like that that anyone can come up with.

  • This is gonna be SPECIFIC stuff that you can actually start doing right now, and that you may not have thought of before.

  • #1 Grow a beard.

  • Something I've discovered is, if you have a face that is extremely good looking naturally,

  • then you usually look better without a beard, so people can see it.

  • But if you have a face that's average, or below average, then you usually look better WITH a beard, because what it does is helps to hide the imperfections.

  • You may have heard that people find symmetrical faces attractive.

  • Most faces aren't symmetrical, but when you have a beard, it basically covers half your face which means half of that asymmetry is now hidden!

  • So you look twice as symmetrical as you did before!

  • It's called math.

  • Also, it serves to hide your messed up jawline, or your acne, or anything else you may not like about your face.

  • Try it out!

  • #2 Be confident Lucky for you, JUST LAST WEEK I actually posted a video that was basically called "how to be confident" and it had THIRTY tips you can immediately use to start boosting your confidence right off the bat.

  • Yeah, 30 things.

  • It's pretty much the best video on youtube.

  • Check it out.

  • Do it.

  • Because as I'm sure you already know, girls like confidence.

  • They don't want to be around someone who's insecure and desperate.

  • If that's you, then watch the how to be confident video.

  • #3 Be positive In addition to confidence, something that's often overlooked is POSITIVITY.

  • People like to be around positive people.

  • Think about it.

  • You want to be around someone who's always complaining, always being negative about stuff, doing negative things, and all that?

  • ---- no you don't!

  • The problem with guys is a lot of them act negative as ---- around girls!

  • They complain, they grill her about "why don't you like me? why don't you text me back faster?" and they act all emotional.

  • They tell a joke then they look to see if the girl is laughing and they feel bad if she isn't.

  • Cut that out, girls hate it.

  • Even guys hate it.

  • I hate it.

  • Everyone hates it!

  • People like positive people.

  • Because positivity just makes you feel better.

  • Duh!

  • Think about it.

  • Positive people are active, they enjoy doing things, they talk to people because it's fun,

  • not because they want to impress them, they have goals and ambitions and dreams and passions,

  • they don't sweat the small stuff, they don't complain about little things because they don't CARE about little things.

  • They have their own lives and they enjoy living them, they don't latch on to the girl and try to live HER life or try to control HER life.

  • If you're smiling and having fun, you will INSTANTLY be more attractive than you are when you're NOT smiling and having fun.

  • ........ Now keep in mind, this doesn't mean you should FAKE it.

  • People who fake having fun usually just look like tryhards.

  • You should legitimately have fun.

  • Enjoy what you're doing.

  • If you don't enjoy it, why the ---- are you doing it?

  • For example, don't just listen to what a girl says while being bored out of your mind and only listening because you hope to have --- with her later.

  • Be serious, that's usually what you do when you're out on dates, isn't it?

  • Yeah.

  • ---- that.

  • Listen to what she says and take an interest in it, or at least see if there's anything interesting about it,

  • anything you can learn from, questions you can ask that you actually care about the answers to, cool personality traits she has that you can play off, and so on.

  • If you don't give too----- about what she's talking about and you know you never will, then steer the conversation to something you DO care about.

  • #4 Have a pet. Honestly, everyone likes animals, and having a pet just makes you seem like a nicer, more well-rounded guy who isn't a --------- and who is responsible enough to take care of someone.

  • Also, people are very protective of their pets, so if a girl has a dog, and you say you don't like dogs,

  • it doesn't matter if you look like Ryan Reynolds that girl is gonna dock you AT LEAST 2 or 3 points,

  • If you like dogs, but you don't have one, she'll give you +1.

  • If you like dogs, and you also have one, she'll give you +2.

  • So if you like animals, get one!

  • Disclaimer.

  • If you don't like animals, don't get one just to impress a girl if you know you're not gonna take care of it.

  • That's just DUMB.

  • Plus, being irresponsible is a very unattractive trait, so it'll just work against you anyway.

  • #5 Have ---- you care about. Attractive guys aren't just empty shells.

  • They usually have at least one hobby that they're really passionate about.

  • Maybe a sibling or a parent or a pet that they really care about.

  • Dreams that they really want to achieve. And so on.

  • If you're just a generic dude who doesn't care about anything, that's EXTREMELY unattractive,

  • because you're just gonna latch on to that girl and start to insert yourself in HER life, doing things SHE cares about, with HER friends, and it just makes you look stupid.

  • If you don't have any hobbies, get one.

  • If you don't have any dreams, get one.

  • Personally, there is nothing I find less attractive, in a girlfriend or even just in a friend, than someone who has no dreams and who doesn't give a ---- about anything.

  • That's just DUMB.

  • If a girl asks what you're into, and you're like "oooh I don't know, like, partying, and drinking, and, hanging out with friends, and stuff".

  • .... like, wow. Come on dude.

  • Hell, you can be a huge Harry Potter fanboy if you want, just have SOMETHING.

  • #6 Get a cool car. This is an easy one!

  • All you have to do, is drive down to the Lambo dealership, trade in whatever you already drive, and buy one!

  • No big deal, haha.

  • No. But seriously, even an unattractive guy driving a cool car will get a couple free points just for that alone.

  • Why?

  • Because it's cool.

  • It's fun.

  • It makes a great first impression.

  • And it allows her to think she looks cool when she's riding around with you.

  • And you don't even have to be rich.

  • I'm not talking about Lambos and Ferraris and stuff like that.

  • Hell, for the price of a new Camry you can get a used BMW.

  • Or for the price of a new BMW, you can get a used Hellcat or a Corvette, or anything in that range that you like and think would be fun to drive.

  • Plus, driving a cool car is FUN!

  • You don't even have to care about getting girls!

  • #7 Talk less. Don't go on and on talking and talking.

  • Let the girl talk.

  • Don't text her more than she texts you.

  • Don't call her more than she calls you.

  • Don't send her a long text if she's sending you short texts.

  • If she asks you a question and you know your answer is gonna ----, don't sit there trying to defend yourself to her.

  • Less is more.

  • A lot of guys suffer from "over-talking" and it's really unattractive.

  • If she texts you and you're NOT SURE if you should reply or not, the answer is, you shouldn't.

  • When in doubt, just be quiet.

  • There's nothing worse than a guy who talks and talks but doesn't actually have anything worth saying.

  • So those are 7 ways to instantly become more attractive.

  • Try them out for a few days, leave a comment and let me know how they work for you!

  • Want to learn more dating tips and ways to make girls think you're more attractive than you actually are?

  • Then subscribe to my channel right now and check out my new videos every week!

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7 Ways To INSTANTLY Look MORE ATTRACTIVE | How to Look More Attractive

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    Amy.Lin   posted on 2019/11/04
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