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this video I'm gonna be sharing with you how to have emotional mastery I'm gonna
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share ways that you can feel any emotion that you want right now so that you can
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start to create what you want in a very powerful way welcome back to another
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video my name is Erin and I hope people expand their consciousness now in this
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video I'm gonna be sharing with you powerful ways to embody the emotions
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that you want right now in the present moment so why is this so important it
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will understand first off that when it comes to vibrational resonance which I
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noticed some people is kind of a weird word but vibrational resonance really
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has to do with understanding that what physics shows us is that everything is
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vibration everything is just vibrating at different frequencies so in our life
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we experience a reflection of who we are being and we experience a direct
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reflection of our resonant vibration now part of our vibration has to do with the
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emotions that we are feeling and one of the purposes of life is to go through
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and have an emotional type experience like we're meant to embody our emotions
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or meant to learn as much as we can about emotions and that's part of the
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purposes of life so let's first off start with emotion and vibration are
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very interlinked and when we start to see emotion more as vibration it gets
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much easier for us to see what kind of emotions
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we must feel in order to vibrate at the reality that we want now what do I mean
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by at the reality that we want well what we must do is a maddened imagine the
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best version of us and how we would be acting in the ideal reality so me for
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example I have a certain body language in my ideal reality and I have a certain
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way I present myself I am traveling the world in my visualization I am speaking
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in front of large groups of people I am doing and traveling and meeting with
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different types of people networking I'm going to great restaurants I'm doing all
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of these things and with that success that I see within
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myself I carry myself in a certain way and there is also certain emotions that
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I am feeling emotions like feeling just grateful for where I am I feel like I'm
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on my purpose so I feel very passionate about what I'm talking about what I'm
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speaking about I can see it in my gestures I can see it in the way that I
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interact with other people I feel very connected I feel very excited those are
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different emotions that add up to the vibration of that version of me so what
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we can begin to do is first off see what emotions we are consistently feeling and
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then what commotions we are feeling in the ideal reality that we have we may
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see that there's a little bit of a variance we may see in right now I'm
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feeling emotions such as jealousy or I'm feeling emotions such as just like I'm
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not good enough or I'm not already there so I'm feeling this emotion of lack or
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this emotion like I really desire it because I don't already have it and then
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we look at the reality that we prefer to be in the one of the best version of
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ourselves and we're like well no that version of us doesn't lack anything that
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version of us is just already happened doesn't get jealous because that version
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of us is already doing very well so you see this is where we start to develop
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emotional mastery over being able to see where we are to where we want to be so
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that's the first part of the process is becoming aware of that gap of where you
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are to where you want to be and paying attention to then how we can start to
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wire in new emotions new vibrations and then let go of older vibrations or
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vibrations that no longer serve the identity of the person that we prefer to
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be now an important foundation of this process is first off understanding our
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emotions in general now here's the cool thing our beliefs create our reality and
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we do not have an emotion without first giving a meaning to different things
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that happen into our life so let me give you an example of this this is the most
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common one easy one to understand if there is a rainy day the idea of a rainy
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day is absolutely neutral there's no built-in meaning there's no one that
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says has to mean this it has to mean that the
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day's gonna be great or it has to mean that the days not going to be great
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it's absolutely neutral but the meaning that we give it is what determines the
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effect we get out of it now first off we may just have a neutral meaning I don't
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care if it is if it is rainy or not that makes no difference to me then it's
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still a neutral meaning sometimes people might be like oh it's raining that is
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awesome because I live in Vegas and I love it when it rains it doesn't rain
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very often so then we give it positive meaning we feel good because we can kind
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of in a way put up our blinds look outside and feel good with it and if we
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give it a negative meaning we're like oh there's going to be traffic there's
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going to be this all those negative connotations then we feel negative
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emotion well that little analogy right there is actually with almost everything
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in our life so sometimes we may be in a certain situation let's say you're in a
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relationship and you break up with someone or someone breaks up with you
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and you feel negative emotion now from a certain point am i saying that that is a
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neutral idea and that we're in a my lying to myself or my emotions or I'm
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like kidding myself it has no built-in meaning well yes that is actually what
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is happening it's just about becoming aware of it so for example from a
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certain perspective say you lost a job you lost a job you got fired okay that's
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a negative situation - about 80 to 90 percent of the people in the world
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however from a certain perspective you could be happy because you could say you
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know what this is one job out of thousands of jobs I could have I'm gonna
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start finding out what I'm more passionate about you know what I've been
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wanting to do my own passion this is going to give me the pressure the fire
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for me to start doing that full-time you see we could start to see things in new
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points of view maybe you're like oh in that relationship this is a negative
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thing I feel that I feel sad well sad is coming from the focus of the perspective
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and maybe that person that you were in a relationship with represented to you
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some type of positive emotion you attributed your happiness with them but
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at the fundamental level you have the ability to feel the emotions that you
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want in the present moment right now it's
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simply a matter of your choice as to what focuses and perspectives you have
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that determine the kind of emotion that you feel in the vibrational resonance
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that you have so I know this sounds like a pretty new idea the idea that we can
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really choose our emotions and choose the meanings that we give things in life
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but that's when we start to take our power back because we see that nothing
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has a built-in meaning so we could start to ask ourself a new question if we were
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maybe just can out of a breakup and we're saying to ourselves okay I feel
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very sad well what would I have to believe is true to be having this kind
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of experience well maybe it's like okay from a certain
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level I could feel grateful that I had a relationship with somebody maybe it
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didn't work out but here's a good thing there's 7 billion other people in the
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world and if I can have that level of resonance with one person that it didn't
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work out with imagine the level of residents I'd have with somebody that
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really actually resonates at a deeper level you see it kind of switches the
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perspective but we can see then maybe if we're still feeling negative emotion
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about the situation of the break-up we can see that we're still giving it some
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type of meaning we're identifying with that person we're giving unhappiness to
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them and saying you were my happiness that's a dependent relationship and what
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we can do is start to be grateful for it because then we can start to take our
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power back we could say I am whole and complete we can start to see things from
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a new point of view we can expand our awareness in so many different ways so
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that's something that I think is just so powerful when we start to tap into it is
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realizing first off that any emotion that we feel is specifically because we
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have a belief or a meaning that we're giving something in our life and then
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therefore that is the effect that we get out of it so it's very powerful and we
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start to reframe the different kind of things in our life in a powerful way
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because we will literally start to feel better emotions I remember there were
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times I used to have a sales commission job there were times I was helping
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customers that were walking it's called walking when they don't they don't buy
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anything and they're kind of wasting your time but what I would do is I
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realize that anytime that would happen it would cause negative momentum because
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the next customers I would help I would that negative energy into that out that
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like situation and it would continue to create more and more resistance and get
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worse and worse normally so what I did is I switched it around I was like you
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know what these person this two people came in they didn't buy anything they
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kind of wasted my time but I was able to get myself into the state of like
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helping people I see it more from a neutral point of view I realized that's
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a neutral idea and I chose to give it a positive meaning because I'm like okay
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the next people that I help it's gonna be even better and then guess what
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happened every person would get better and better I start to sell more and more
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that was something that I found very powerful because I started to change the
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meaning therefore my state of being increased I started to feel better and
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then I started to actually help people that wanted to buy because I was
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resonating with people that wanted to buy rather than resonating with people
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that just wanted to walk me or they just wanted to just try on some nice that you
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know a thousand dollar pair of shoes because I used to work at a sales
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commission job selling like talking at our pair of Louboutins so it's a
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different perspective but give it new meaning and you will start to feel an
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elevated emotion and in that elevated emotion you'll start to attract more
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amazing things you get out of a relationship you break up with someone
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someone breaks up with you you give it a positive meaning because you know you're
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gonna find someone even better you start to increase your state of being
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then you resonate with someone that could actually resonate with you at a
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deeper level you start to become more attractive because you start to
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literally feel better and as you feel better as you smiling more as you're
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having more fun you are more attractive they've shown that they've shown that
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with scientific studies that when you smile there are more people you're
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actually releasing more serotonin first of all so you're feeling better but
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people actually perceive you as more attractive at the same time so those are
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all some things that will help with this process now a couple other things I want
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to share with you with this is understand that whatever you focus on
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you feel focus equals feeling when you become aware of what you're focusing on
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that's when you can start to take your power back in a very powerful way you
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could take your power back in a very powerful way okay yeah and that's what
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you can start to do is start to take your power back by realizing this is a
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game changer you can feel any emotion you want in the present moment right now
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you do not need something else to symbolize something to you for you to
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feel those emotions normally we external eyes are power we say when I get into
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that perfect relationship I will feel whole and complete when I am making X
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amount of money per month or per year I will feel abundant and great about
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myself but the thing is is we are externalized in our power and we are not
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giving ourselves permission to just feel that positivity feel that level of
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satisfaction right now in the present moment when if we were to go straight to
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the source and simply decide to feel the emotions right now at the present moment
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we would actually start to see more and more resonance in our life of that
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reflection of who we are being so normally we are here achieving our goals
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is here with the satisfaction and we take a lot of action and we do all of
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these things and then we give ourselves permission to feel that emotion but
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there's a lot of resistance that comes along the way instead we are here these
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emotions all right over here we can feel right now in the present moment it's
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about that awareness of you knowing that you can feel any emotion that you want
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right now if I were to tell myself you know when I make five hundred thousand
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dollars a year I can be happy then what I do is I kind of work myself really
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really hard I create a lot of resistance and when I finally get there I give
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myself permission to feel that satisfaction but what does that money
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mean to me what does that money bring me it brings me a meaning that I am giving
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it I am giving the money the meaning of saying the money equals freedom money
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equals the ability for me to travel and do what I love money equals the
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resources to help more people to build even a bigger business so you see as I
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start to change the way I view the process as I start to change those
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things I start to relate to it in a completely new way and then I'm able to
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embody more of the emotions I want so it comes with that awareness so what I want
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to encourage you to do here's the practical side of this video the
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exercise that you can begin to do is begin to visualize and imagine the best
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version of you and how you are acting in that ideal reality so maybe it's you
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owning your own art gallery maybe it's you traveling the world and speaking
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that's mine maybe it's you owning your own business owning a
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restaurant maybe it's you making videos on health and nutrition or growing on
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social media whatever it is imagine that version of you that is
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already where you want to be imagine the emotions that you would be feeling break
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it down into emotions not the things you would have but the actual emotions you'd
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be feeling and you could say okay I'm gonna be feeling connected to other
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people I'm gonna feel passionate I'm gonna feel like I'm on top of the world
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I'm gonna feel like everything in life is just synchronistically happening so
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I'm gonna feel very grateful all of those emotions that I feel in that ideal
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reality I choose to feel now in the present moment through focus whatever
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you focus on you feel focus on where those things in your life are already in
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your life so for example if you're like I'm gonna focus on the freedom I'm gonna
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have from all that money and the abundance that I want you say well where
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do I already have abundance and freedom well I already have freedom because I
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can drive wherever I want to go I already have freedom cuz I can go in the
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kitchen right now and make my food and eat what I want I already have the
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freedom right now because I call up friends and hang out I can do what I
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want so that's the level of freedom that I'm talking about so that's something
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that you can feel through your focus whatever you focus on you feel and when
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you start to become aware of what you have to believe is true so ask yourself
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that question what I have to believe is true to be having this kind of
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experience and as you see what that emotion is as you see what that belief
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is you can then choose to let go of the old belief because the moment you come
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become aware of it is the moment you bring the subconscious into the
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conscience and you can decide to then let it go and as you let it go you start
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to take your power back and from there you can start to then give things
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positive meaning in life think of positive is an integrative not positive
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as good and negative as bad positive is integrated negative as separating or
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segregative is start to connect to the events in your life start to give things
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part of the positive meaning integrated and you'll start to transform it in a
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much more powerful way so another part of this whole process is understanding
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vibration and your vibrational frequency when you raise your vibration whatever
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you focus on will happen much faster that's why I've created a free guided
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that will show you exactly how to raise your vibrational set point with when
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you're in at maybe a three or four out of ten you can start to feel at a 7 or 8
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an 8 out of 10 it'll raise you up the vibrational scale so that's something