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A psychologist walked into a room while teaching stress management to an audience.
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As she raised the glass of water, everyone expected that they'd be asked, "Is this glass half empty or half full?"
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But instead, with a smile on her face, she asked, "How heavy do you think this glass of water is?"
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People called out, "eight ounces, sixteen ounces, twenty ounces."
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And she replied, "The weight of this glass doesn't matter."
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It all depends on how long I hold it.
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If I hold it for just a minute, it's not a problem.
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The glass still feels light.
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If I hold it for an hour, I'll probably have an ache in my arm.
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The glass would feel heavy.
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But if I hold it for an entire day, my arm would start to feel numb and paralyzed.
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The glass would feel unbearable.
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The weight of the glass never changes, but the longer I hold it, the heavier it becomes. See...
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The stresses and worries in life are like a glass of water.
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If you think about them for just a while, nothing happens.
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If you think about them for a bit longer they begin to hurt.
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And if you think about them all day long, then you will feel paralyzed, incapable of doing anything.
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"So remember to put the glass down." -- Jimmy Harmon.
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This is a very powerful story with a very important lesson.
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See, most of the personal issues that you're facing, such as anxiety, depression, low self-esteem come about because of the types of thoughts that you have in your head.
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If you're someone who thinks to themselves, "I'm not good enough" over and over again throughout the day without even noticing it, that's when you start to develop problems like low self-esteem and anxiety.
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And it's not that these thoughts appear just a couple dozen times throughout the day.
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The truth of the matter is you're probably thinking these thoughts hundreds of times over and over again, all day long without even noticing it.
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You need to learn to control how long you think about these thoughts.
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You need to learn to put the glass of water down.
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And this is a skill set that can be largely acquired by meditating, which I highly suggest you really consider doing because it's actually going to help out a lot.
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I will link to a playlist in the description box below that will teach you more about how to meditate and its other benefits.