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What are you thinking right now?
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And how about... now?
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Our brains are incredibly active, but sometimes, you just want that big ball of grey meat to shut the hell up, right?
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Thinking is good - it's what makes humans special.
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Without thinking we'd have no farms, no books, no jobs.
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It would just be reality TV, no thinking required there.
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But often, we over-think, and cause ourselves a lot of unnecessary anxiety.
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So, today we're going to look at how we can tune out those annoying thoughts and make things quieter inside our heads.
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This is todays episode — How to not overthink by Health Chronicle
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Like most problems, the first step is seeing that there is one.
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You need to learn to recognise when you are feeling anxious because of your internal problems, not external.
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For example, being anxious that you might crash when your friend is driving fast — that's fine.
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That is a sensible thing to worry about, tell them to slow down.
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But if you feel the same when you have a presentation tomorrow, then the problem is coming from within.
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You're overthinking and stressing yourself out.
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And, let's be honest, you're not thinking about how well it's going to go.
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No, you are telling yourself you will fail, you'll forget what to say, your boss will hate it, and you'll forget to wear pants.
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When you realize you're doing this, start picturing all the ways it can go right.
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You'll charm them like Barack Obama.
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Your boss will love it and promote you.
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You'll wear pants!
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Once you've pictured all these things, write them down.
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In fact, write down all the worries too.
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It's a well established idea in psychology: writing things down helps you to combat stress.
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It's especially useful before bed, as a way to help you get to sleep.
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But the important thing with this type of journal is to focus on what you need to do, not what you have done.
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It's a to-do-list, not a diary.
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A study published in 2017 in the Journal of Experimental Psychology, showed that writing a list of tasks for the next day helped people fall asleep 9 minutes faster.
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That may not sound a lot but it's a similar result to a lot of pharmaceutical trials for sleeping aid drugs.
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The reason you focus on a to-do-list is that these are the type of thoughts that normally keep us awake.
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Sure, sometimes you will sit there embarrassed about some stupid things you did like missing a meeting or calling your partner someone else's name.
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But normally it's about things in the future: tests, bills, work, the apocalypse, you know, that stuff.
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Our mind pays more attention to uncompleted tasks.
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For example, most of us have one person we were attracted to but we never did anything about it.
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That memory can stay with you for a lifetime.
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If you had asked them out and you had dated a while and then broke up, you're much more likely to forget them, the task was completed.
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So, the process of writing things down will help you to stop overthinking.
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It's like you have taken some of the weight out of your mind.
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You're saying “hey Brain - I know this is important, I promise I will do something about it”.
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Another method is to try to distract your mind.
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But not just any distraction, something peaceful that requires concentration.
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If you just watch TV, it's still easy for your mind to wander.
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So, meditation is an excellent option but if that doesn't appeal, try practising a new skill.
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Maybe you learn to paint or draw.
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How about learning a new instrument or teaching yourself to cook.
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Not only will these skills bring you happiness on their own, they will act as an excellent distraction because you need to concentrate.
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And our final message is — give yourself a break.
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All you can do is your best, so stop trying to make every part of your life perfect.
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Because, here's a secret: we're all just making it up as we go along.
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Make sure to check out our other videos here.
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