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We all hate getting lied to.
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Most of us wish we knew a way to tell when someone is giving us a huge pile of B.S.
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Well, wish no more.
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There are actually many ways to tell if someone is lying or not, and here are some of the
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best indicators.
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In other words, get ready to never trust another human being again.
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Awkward staring
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One huge clue that someone may be feeding you a lie is if they stare at you intensely.
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According to behavioral analyst Dr. Lillian Glass and her book, The Body Language of Liars,
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what usually happens with liars is they break eye contact.
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However, true sociopaths do their best to avoid that in an attempt to control and manipulate
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others.
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A good example of this is infamous fraudster Bernie Madoff, who notoriously stared at his
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victims for a long time while he was ripping them off.
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It could be argued that this staring is almost a form of hypnosis.
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The best way to combat it: fingers to the eyes.
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Don't feel bad about it.
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They're liars.
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They deserve it.
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Hiding
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For some reason, when people lie, they tend to cover their pie holes.
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According to Glass, when adults cover their mouths, it means they're not revealing everything
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and are literally "closing off communication."
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Or, in other words, they're trying to hide something by hiding their mouths.
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Freaky movements
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A person's head motions can be used to sniff out their lies.
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When a person shakes their head yes or no at the same time as when they speak, you can
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pretty much rely on what that person says.
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However, if the shake comes after, you might just have found yourself a liar.
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So keep an eye out for those noggin gyrations, lest you get taken for a fool.
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Honest feet
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If all that isn't enough, you might want to take a gander at a person's tootsies to tell
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if they're telling a lie.
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According to the folks at Psychology Today, liars tend to point their feet towards the
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door or closest available exit.
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This signifies a physical and psychological eagerness to make a hasty escape from their
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web of lies.
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Phlegm
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When in conversation, you may want to pay attention to what sounds the person makes
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and when they make them.
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According to Spy the Lie, written by former CIA agents, liars clear their throats before
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they spout out a big whopper for two reasons.
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One, it's a nonverbal way of saying, "I swear to God …" Two, they feel a need to lie,
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which causes a physiological reaction in them, like anxiety or mouth and throat dryness.
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T.M.I.
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Ever ask someone a question and they give you way more info than you asked for?
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It's because they're not giving you the full truth.
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In a way, they're hoping to wear you down by yammering on and on about everything except
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the answer to your question.
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By seeming completely open and giving you everything except an actual answer, liars
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hope you'll forget the question you asked in the first place.
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"I don't trust you…"
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"Well, you know what?
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I don't trust you either!"
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Same question
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If a liar is so experienced that they can keep lying over and over again, it actually
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becomes easier to spot them as the big fibbers they are.
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According to Entrepreneur, there's a secret military trick used to weed out liars: asking
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the same question three times, in three different ways.
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If you get the same rehearsed word-for-word answer each time, watch out.
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You might be dealing with a liar who thinks following a script will let them get away
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scot-free.
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If they give the same answer but it sounds more natural, and less scripted, with some
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variation, then they're probably for real.
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It's when they start to sound like a politician that you can trust them like you would a politician.
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So, not at all.
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Obsessed with appearance
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For some reason, when people are lying, they become obsessed with how they look.
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According to Spy the Lie, grooming oneself is a way to deal with the anxiety of lying.
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And if sweat is involved, forget about it.
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It should be noted that sweat itself doesn't mean a person is spreading disinformation.
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However, if that person keeps wiping the sweat away, you might have a full-blown liar on
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your hands.
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Standing still
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Although fidgeting may be a telltale sign, it turns out if a person's too stiff, you
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may want to grab the fire extinguisher, because their pants just caught ablaze.
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As Glass explains, when people start getting rigid, that's a sign they're hiding something.
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Going stiff is the body preparing for a fight, something it wouldn't need to do if there
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was nothing to hide.
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Standing super-still is overcompensating for trying not to fidget too much.
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"Because you can take it from me the truth… it's overrated."
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