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Translator: Leonardo Silva Reviewer: Mile Živković
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"Girl, kill yourself."
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"Why are you still alive?"
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"You are so ugly."
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Rebecca Sedwick,
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an eleven-year-old girl from Florida,
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received those mean, hurtful,
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tormenting and embarrassing messages on her social media.
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They would ultimately lead her
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to jump off of her town's water tower
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to her death.
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In the fall of 2013,
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I would come home from school to read that story.
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I was stunned, shocked,
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and I was heart-broken.
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How could a girl younger than myself
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be pushed to take her own life?
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That's when I knew I had to do something
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to stop this from ever happening again.
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But the pain and the misery that Rebecca endured
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had already happened.
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The damage was done.
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My name is Trisha Prabhu,
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I'm fourteen years old,
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and I'm from the great city of Naperville,
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in Illionois, in the United States.
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I'm passionate to stop cyberbullying
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at the source, before the damage is done.
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I'm a big dreamer, and I believe that everyone
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should have the right to dream, persist in their dream,
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and see that become a reality.
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So, when I read Rebecca's story,
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I immediately wondered,
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"Were there any others like her out there,
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that were suffering as well?"
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I'd soon learn that she was one of a countless many.
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Megan Meier died three weeks before her fourteenth birthday.
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She hung herself in her bedroom closet
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where her mother would find her
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when coming up to get her for dinner.
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She'd received messages like,
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"The world would be a better place without you",
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on her Myspace account.
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The damage was done,
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and Megan suffered the consequences.
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Tyler Clementi was an eighteen-year-old student
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at Rutgers University.
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He was just getting used to college life
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and his new gay identity.
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One day, his roommate and a friend
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decided to use a webcam and a laptop
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to stream some of Tyler's most intimate moments with his boyfriend
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all over social media.
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The damage was done.
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Humiliated, Tyler took his life,
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jumping off of the George Washington bridge.
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I wish more than anything
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that I could rewrite those stories.
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I wish I could make every perpetrator
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rethink what they did.
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But what if I could do that?
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What if I could stop the damage before it was done?
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Would Megan, Tyler and Rebecca still be alive today?
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Cyberbullying is a huge problem.
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52% of adolescents in the United States alone
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have been cyberbullied.
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And 38% of them
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suffered suicidal tendencies.
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Let's look at it from a global perspective.
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A quarter of the world's population are adolescents.
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We're talking 1.8 billion teens.
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Imagine that in the social media revolution;
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how more and more of them are getting on social media,
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and more and more of them are being cyberbullied.
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So, why do you get cyberbullied?
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Look, I might be biased, but I'm pretty sure
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that kids are not mean devils that run around with cruel intentions.
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I don't know about you, but that's what I think.
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And what about adults? Are they nice or mean on social media?
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Now, when it comes to adults, I wasn't really sure.
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So, I had to do some research to figure that out.
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So, that year, for my science experiment at school,
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I decided to look at how age affected the willingness
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to post offensive messages on social media sites.
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What did I find?
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This younger age group, ages twelve to eighteen,
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was 40% more willing to post an offensive message
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than an older age group.
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OK. The number didn't surprise me.
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But why?
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Why was that younger age group
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so much more willing to post an offensive message?
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I started to do a lot of research,
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and, one day, I came across an article,
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and it had one sentence that would forever change
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my view on this problem.
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They said, "The adolescent brain
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is likened to a car with no breaks."
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High speed. No pausing.
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No thinking. No considering.
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We just act. So why is it like that?
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Our brains are kind of weird.
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They develop from the back to the front,
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which means that our front part of the brain
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is not fully developed until age 25.
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Why is that a problem?
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Well, prefrontal cortex
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controls decision-making skills,
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rash, impulsive decisions,
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spur-of-the-moment feelings.
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So, that's why adolescents don't think before they act.
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They just go ahead and do something,
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whether it's downing fifteen Red Bulls on a dare,
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skipping an English final,
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doing something crazy.
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We don't really think before we do it.
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Well, then I was venting about this to a friend.
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I was like, "Gosh, you know, this is horrible."
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And she said, "You know, Trisha, I really admire your passion,
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but you've been talking about this for the last 15 minutes,
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as if you had just discovered it.
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It's a huge problem, but social media sites
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are already doing stuff to stop this."
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And I went, "Oh, yeah. You're right."
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But I'd soon find that what social media sites are doing
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is really nothing.
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Their mechanism is a "stop, block, tell" method.
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You stop what you're doing, through the victim,
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you block the cyberbully
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and you immediately go tell a parent or guardian.
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It sounds pretty reasonable.
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But here's what actually happens:
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adolescents, we're kind of afraid to tell people
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that we're being cyberbullied.
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Research shows that nine out of ten times
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victims don't tell anyone that they're being cyberbullied.
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What's more, why are we putting the burden
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on the victim to block the cyberbully?
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Why aren't we changing the behavior in the actual cyberbully?
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And it angered me.
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There wasn't a single effective way to stop cyberbullying,
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and it was a silent pandemic
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that was affecting so many people around the world.
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That's when I had an idea.
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I know from my research that adolescents don't think
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before they do things, right?
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So, what if they didn't think before they type?
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What if I gave them a chance
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to think about what they were doing?
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If an adolescent tried to post an offensive message on social media,
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if I went, "Whoa! Hold on.
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You're about to post an offensive message to someone.
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That can really hurt them.
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Are you sure you want to post this message?",
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would they still be as willing to do it?
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I had no idea, but I was ready to find out.
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So that year, using my science and technology skills,
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I created two software systems.
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And basically, they were able to compare
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whether an alert that prompted adolescents
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to think about what they were doing
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actually decreased their willingness to post offensive messages.
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So, for four to six weeks, I basically lived at my local library.
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All the kids were always giving me weird looks,
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but, you know, in the end, it was totally worth it.
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I was able to get 1,500 valid trials of data.
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And what did I find?
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93% of the time when adolescents receive an alert that says,
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"Whoa! You're about to post an offensive message",
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they changed their mind.
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I was able to decrease the willingness to post offensive messages
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from 71.4% to 4.6%.
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(Cheers) (Applause)
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Think about that.
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My research proved that rethink before you type,
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rethink before you post,
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rethink before the damage is done
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is an effective long-term method to stop cyberbullying,
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at the source, before the damage is done.
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So Rethink has become insanely popular -- I'm glad to say.
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Just a few weeks ago, I was at the Google Science Fair
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for my research. I'm a global finalist.
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And I also currently --
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(Applause)
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Thank you.
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(Applause)
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And I also currently hold a United States provisional patent for this idea.
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So now, my main goal
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is getting this out there as a product,
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and stopping cyberbullying.
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I'm currently working tirelessly
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to create a Chrome extension browser
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and a mobile add-on for mobile platforms.
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That way, Rethink can go global
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and stop cyberbullying before the damage is done.
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Steve Jobs once said,
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"Simple can be harder than complex.
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Original, much harder than derived.
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But when you get there, it's worth it,
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because you can move mountains."
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He is so right.
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Rethink has proven that, in those few seconds,
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when you decide whether or not you're going to hit "post",
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those few seconds mean so much in the future.
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So, whether you're about to post an offensive message
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about the fat girl that sits ahead of you in your class,
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or your annoying boss,
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that can mean the fat girl's life,
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or your job.
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So, I encourage all of you:
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rethink before the damage is done.
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Very rarely in this connected world
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do we remember, we need to slow down,
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pause, think about what we're doing.
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We're posting a message
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and that has significance.
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So, choose to rethink.
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Rethink before you type,
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before the damage is done.
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Thank you.
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(Cheers) (Applause)