Subtitles section Play video
-
Honey, we can't wait to meet your girlfriend.
-
We've never seen you happier.
-
You guys gonna love her.
-
She's amazing and beautiful and such a big difference from any other girl I've ever dated.
-
Oh, here she comes.
-
- Hi. - Hey.
-
Hi.
-
Mom, dad, this is Stephanie.
-
Hi, it's so nice to finally meet you both.
-
Hi.
-
This is your girlfriend?
-
Yeah.
-
I see what you mean by a "big" difference.
-
Excuse me?
-
Wow! I would never have put you two together.
-
What do you mean?
-
I'm just used to seeing you with girls who are fit, not...not like her.
-
A young man introducing his new girlfriend to his parents.
-
They are fit and trim and they think she should be too.
-
He thinks she is beautiful just the way she is.
-
If you saw this woman being shamed simply because of her weight,
-
what would you do?
-
So... what do you guys do for fun?
-
I mean besides going out to eat.
-
Joining me today is a supermodel who knows all about this issue.
-
Sports illustrated swimsuit model: Ashley Graham.
-
Ashley Graham! Welcome to "What would you do".
-
Why did you want to take part in "What would you do"?
-
It's not okay to look at somebody
-
and think that they're unhealthy, they're ugly because a little bit extra weight on their body.
-
Let's go inside!
-
Ashley is watching with me behind the scene at the Tom Sawyer diner in Paramus, New Jersey
-
as Anthony introduces his new girlfriend to his parents.
-
You're making me so happy right now.
-
Oh, here she is.
-
Oh my gosh!
-
Hi babe.
-
Hey.
-
Mom, dad, Stephanie.
-
So nice to meet you guys.
-
I'm Stephanie.
-
Hi.
-
How are you?
-
Is this your...?
-
This is my girlfriend yeah.
-
Oh, you are his girlfriend?
-
Yeah, yeah.
-
Oh wow!
-
You are a "big" girl.
-
Right from the start, our parents make things very uncomfortable.
-
All of your other girlfriend were fit and thin, and then you bring...
-
Bethanie is fit.
-
No, she's not fit.
-
Are you worried about life expectancy?
-
She's out of shape.
-
He's pissed.
-
You clearly don't care about your body.
-
You guys need to relax now.
-
It's ridiculous.
-
You know what?
-
I'm just gonna have to say it.
-
She's fat.
-
That f word gets the attention of all of these customers.
-
Dad, I can't believe you just said that.
-
Well I...you know what, I don't think anything is going to get through.
-
Can you just have some respect?
-
I mean, this is my girlfriend.
-
I got to get out of here for a second.
-
I'll be right back, honey.
-
Ridiculous.
-
When dad steps away, this man responds to the parents' belligerent language with some of his own.
-
Shut up.
-
Don't be rude.
-
I'm not being rude.
-
Yeah, you're being rude.
-
It's pretty embarrassing.
-
Look at her.
-
So what? Look at you. Get out.
-
Don't say that to somebody.
-
That's rude.
-
We're worried about our son.
-
You know, whatever.
-
Shut up, lady!
-
And support your children.
-
Yeah, they'd probably be happy if you left.
-
Go follow your husband.
-
I'm just saying what everyone else is thinking.
-
I think she's pretty.
-
Maybe you should mind your own business.
-
No, I'm not like that.
-
Good, good.
-
Get up and go.
-
When mom takes his advice and heads out, this woman joins in.
-
You are a beautiful young lady.
-
What they did was very out of line.
-
I'm a parent.
-
I'd never...
-
ever
-
say what they said.
-
I'm sorry, I know they're your parents.
-
That was hurtful.
-
But what should I do?
-
Be yourself. Be who you are.
-
Thank God for people like this in the world.
-
Time for Ashley and I to introduce ourselves.
-
Hi there, how are you?
-
I'm John Quinones.
-
Hi, how are you, Ashley Graham.
-
She's a model.
-
Yes, we can tell.
-
Your message was pretty simple to them.
-
Just be respectful to other people.
-
Who cares if you don't like how somebody looks?
-
It doesn't matter.
-
It's not about what's on the outside,
-
it's what's on the inside that counts.
-
You know?
-
I had to boost her self image, you know?
-
Because I felt she's gonna be hurting so bad.
-
The parents' shaming of their son's girlfriend continues all day long.
-
You know, you usually date such fit girls.
-
-Like small girls. -But she's fit.
-
You know, we play sport together.
-
But she's not small.
-
This man, he just doesn't want to hear it.
-
Can I sit over here?
-
And he moves away.
-
These women can't help but move in to show their compassion.
-
I'm sorry. I'm sorry.
-
Thank you.
-
You're beautiful.
-
This couple, they share a life lesson.
-
Don't change for anybody.
-
You got to make yourself happy.
-
You're number one.
-
It's your life.
-
Nobody else's life.
-
And most likely, they would get to like her.
-
Hi there, how are you?
-
Oh my god!
-
Oh! Don't make me cry!
-
I've always wanted to meet you.
-
Good to meet you.
-
This is the happiest day of my life.
-
We roll again.
-
Oh my gosh!
-
Are you really his girlfriend?
-
Dad, I'm in love with this girl.
-
You in love with this girl?
-
Absolutely.
-
You don't even know what love is.
-
Hey, baby, come with me.
-
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
-
When we send our couple away,
-
Erica Obara doesn't hold back.
-
Just make sure she doesn't grab any donuts off the counter.
-
Can you please stop?
-
That's just so rude to talk about someone like that.
-
You are meeting her for the first time
-
and you're just judging her on her appearance and not getting to know her personality.
-
Did you see how unhealthy that is though?
-
How are you gonna judge someone by the size of their body without getting to know them personally?
-
Her values are going to rub off on our son's values.
-
You don't know that.
-
Your son picked her, and if you guys are good parents, then your son picked a lovely woman.
-
Ok, just...
-
All of his girlfriends have been thin because we've taught him...
-
What does appearance have to do with anything?
-
And that's how people get eating disorders, and hate themselves, and they're killing themselves.
-
I think she already has an eating...
-
And you judging this person right here?
-
That's horrible.
-
Utterly horrible.
-
Hi there, how are you?
-
I'm John Quinones.
-
Are you kidding me?
-
Oh my god!
-
You're in tears.
-
Tell us.
-
I hate when people judge people just on their appearance.
-
People have so much personality that like you should get to know them.
-
That's my thing.
-
Ashley has watched the reactions long enough,
-
and now she's about to experience this scenario firsthand.
-
-Mom, Ashley. -Hi, guys.
-
How are you?
-
Hi.
-
Wow!
-
Hi.
-
We were just expecting someone just a little...a little different than you.
-
Yeah, what do you mean different?
-
You are a big girl, aren't you?
-
Mom!
-
These two women are shocked by what they're hearing.
-
I'm happy and that's all that matters.
-
And now they are texting each other about what to do.
-
I mean, what do you guys have in common?
-
We have a ton of stuff in common.
-
We watch movies, we love that kind of stuff.
-
I can't get over it.
-
I can't accept it.
-
You're huge.
-
You're too big for my son.
-
Wow!
-
Let us know when you meet somebody else, all right?
-
And now they can't hold back.
-
I'm sorry that they did that to you.
-
It was mean.
-
It's really about the two of you.
-
You're a beautiful looking girl
-
and you have to look past a lot of things.
-
Have her join them, sit over there.
-
You need a hug.
-
I feel so bad for her.
-
Don't cry.
-
You're such a beautiful looking girl.
-
I would never do that to my kid.
-
They didn't even give you a chance.
-
And now it's our chance to introduce ourselves.
-
Too messed up!
-
I'm John Quinones.
-
Oh my god!
-
I'm like seriously freaking out.
-
Where are you?
-
Is it tough to speak up?
-
Not at all.
-
We're Jersey girls.
-
We do this all day.
-
We're sitting here texting each other going "Can you believe this conversation?".
-
You gave her a hug?
-
-I did because she was crying, I felt so bad for her. -You were really crying.
-
How did you do that?
-
I cried because this is a situation I've been in before and it's never okay.
-
We need more women like you guys that stand up for all kinds of women in every situations.