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Have you ever helped set a table?
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And found yourself wondering...
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Where to place the forks?
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Or sat down to eat at a restaurant...
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And wondered which utensils to use?
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Well, here's some simple, traditional etiquette tips.
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On how to set a table.
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What would happen if you set a table like this?
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It doesn't look good.
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And you have to clean up the mess.
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Before you can even start.
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Let's try another way.
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To start, use a placemat or tablecloth.
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But not both.
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So the dishes aren't directly on the table.
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This is more about looks than etiquette.
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But it's rare to see nothing under a plate.
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Unless you're eating at a picnic table.
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Set out any flowers.
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Candlesticks.
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Or other decorations you like.
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Candles are usually only lit at night.
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Start with utensils for the main course.
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Putting your dinner fork on the left.
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And your dinner knife on the right-hand side.
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Since these are the hands we use them with.
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Here's a helpful tip.
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You always eat outside-in.
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So to set for salad...
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We'll put the salad fork...
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To the outside of the dinner fork.
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And the salad knife to the outside of the dinner knife.
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We'll have salad first.
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Then our main course.
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Notice, too, that the knife blades...
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Are both pointed toward the plate.
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This is an old tradition.
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From a time when dinner knives were quite sharp.
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And it was a sign of politeness and nonaggression.
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To keep them pointed away from other diners.
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We might have some soup.
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And since soup usually comes first...
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The soup spoon goes outside the knives.
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Since we use our right hand to hold it.
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Here's another tip.
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Only set the table with what you'll need.
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If you're not eating soup...
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Don't set a soup spoon.
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Now, for dessert, we'll have ice cream.
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So we'll place the dessert up top.
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Since we don't need it for a little while.
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Notice that the bowl of the spoon.
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Is pointing to the left.
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This way, when it's time to eat...
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You just slide it down.
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And it's in the right spot.
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If you were having cake.
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You'd set a fork and flip it 180 degrees.
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So it would be right side-up on the left instead.
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Next we'll anchor our setting with the plate.
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You can also serve from the kitchen.
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Then bring them to the table.
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The bread plate goes up and to the left of the setting.
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And the butter knife goes on the plate at an angle.
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Again, with the blade pointing in.
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There's only one spot left.
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And that's for the drinks.
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Set the wine glass to the upper right.
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And then place the water glass to the left of it at an angle.
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If you're like me.
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And can never remember which goes where.
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Think water, wine.
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w-a, w-i.
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a, i.
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They go left to right in alphabetical order.
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Another tip.
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To remember left and right with the bread and the drinks...
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Think B-M-W like the car.
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B, your bread plate, is on the left.
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M, your meal, is in the middle.
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And W, your water, is on the right.
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Lastly, the napkin traditionally goes to the left of the forks.
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Though it's okay to put it underneath them, too.
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For a fancier meal like this one.
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That takes up a lot of space.
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We'll put it in the middle.
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Now we're ready to eat.
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Hopefully these tips will be helpful.
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The next time you're asked to help set the table.
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Or sit down at a fancy meal.
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Enjoy!