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Hello everyone, my name is Tripp from trippadvice.com and today we're
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talking about kissing on the first date.
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I know you want to do it but
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should you?
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When is the best time
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and how do you know if it's right?
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Well i'll tell you
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on this episode of:
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Ah
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kissing on the first date, the age old question.
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Should you do it?
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The answer is maybe.
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Why maybe?
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Because there's a few factors involved before you pull the trigger. Going for
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a kiss on the first date can be deal-breaker so you have to know the
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proper time when to do it. So how do you know?
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Well I use a little acronym called "BITE."
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B-I-T-E.
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B is for body language.
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Are they moving closer to you, are they
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touching you,
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are they facing you in conversation?
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These are great signs to know if she's into you.
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Body language never lives. I is for interest. Are they interested, are they
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asking you questions, do they seem intrigued in the things you are saying,
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is conversation flowing smoothly,
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have you already sealed the second date?
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If they're not engaging with you
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then something's off and you're
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not making a solid connection.
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You need that connection
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before you can pursue a kiss. T is for tonality. Does the tone of their voice
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sound excited, angry, bored, monotone? This is another great way to gauge interest.
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Listen to the way they are talking to you.
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Sure they might be asking you questions but are they just desperately trying to
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get through the date
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or are they genuinely interested?
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Pay attention.
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E is for eye contact.
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Are they keeping eye contact with you? This means they're interested.
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Are they staring off into the distance?
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This means they're bored. Gauge the level of eye contact being used throughout the
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conversation.
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Is she just looking down at her food? Is she staring around the room or is she
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on the edge of her seat as you talk to her? If you're getting positive reactions
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from three out of four of these
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then all signs
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are a go. But if it's not looking so good
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then you may want refrain from any big moves
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and just play it cool until your potential second date. Moving along,
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if you see the signs
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and she's ready for the kiss
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then you just want to remember a few more things. First,
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do it in a private area,
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like right before you drop her off
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or at least in a place away from a crowd.
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You see your girl might not like PDA and you don't want that small detail to
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get you rejected. Second, you've got to have the balls to do it
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because she won't do it.
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Girls generally won't make the first move
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so man up,
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pucker up
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and make it happen.
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There's one more super, super important problem
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and if you don't solve it
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then this could mean the and
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with you and this girl.
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If you want to know what I'm talking about that you can find that
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and the solution on page 15
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of my ebook,
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"Ten Simple and Unknown Dating Tips to Increase Attraction."
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All you got to do is go to trippadvice.com.
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Just click right here it will take you to page
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where you can download it and get your free copy. And don't forget, the answer is
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on page 15. I put out videos every single week so click subscribe
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I'll see you next time.