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Hi everybody this is Tripp from trippadvice.com and today we're
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talking about how to avoid
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the friends zone:
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part three.
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I mentioned in the previous episode how flirting and intentions will help
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you avoid the friends zone and now i want to talk about the consequences of being
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and nice guy
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and how to stop. One reason why men get put in the friend zone in the first place is
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because they have what's called "nice guy syndrome." This is where you put
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everyone else's needs before yours and a lot of guys suffer from this. In fact
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I too
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am a recovering nice guy.
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So how do you stop?
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Well, there's two things. First, you have to think about what you want and go after it.
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Literally, I want you to ask yourself what do I want?
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What do I want?
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What do I want?
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What do I want? If the answer is I want so-and-so girl then go for it and don't
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take the back road of just being her friend.
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If a girl is not willing to be with you and you're interested in her,
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do you think a friendship is gonna make this happen?
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No. It won't. Ever.
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No, I'm not telling you to be a complete asshole, not at all.
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I'm just telling you not to settle. Number two, it's time to start creating an
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edge.
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It's time to make your life
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more adventurous. The guy who gets put in the friend zone
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is the guy who listens to a girl and solves all of her problems and is there
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whenever she needs and
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he listens and helps
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and this is what he thinks will get her on a date.
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But he's wrong.
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Girls want excitement, spontaneity, romance, adventure
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and it's your job
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to bring them those things
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and then
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you'll escape the wrath
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of the friend zone.
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So let me ask you something. Have you ever been labeled the nice guy? If so, I
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want you to share a comment down below
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and share your story. And again, if you
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like this video then you can press like right here and you can also
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subscribe to my channel where you will get tons more videos
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just like this one.
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I'm also on Facebook and Twitter and if you know somebody who is in the friend
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zone or maybe they're labeled as a nice guy and you know it and they don't,
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then share this video because they will need it. All the action is happening back at
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trippadvice.com.
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Go over there
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and download my free e-book. I'm giving it away for free. It's called "Ten
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Simple
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and Unknown Dating Tips
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or on my videos,
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so go there and check it out.
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And as always
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I'll see you next time.