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  • Where in the world is Superwoman today, eh?

  • Chicago. Chi-town.

  • Windy City. Deep dish pizza. Mm.

  • What up eveyone? It's your girl, Superwoman,

  • and I'm losing my voice, but that's not the point.

  • Today's video is gonna be a little bit different.

  • It's probably not gonna be funny, but I can guarantee you,

  • it's gonna be straight from my heart.

  • Now, I'm gonna be honest with you,

  • I've been having a really tough time recently.

  • I'm in the middle of my world tour, and it's been

  • mentally, emotionally, and physically overwhelming.

  • As a result, I'm finding myself unhappy sometimes,

  • aka, right now.

  • And because I'm a pretty spiritual person,

  • I've decided to analyze my feelings,

  • not only in hopes of making you maybe feel better,

  • but kinda to make myself feel better too,

  • and hopefully by the end of this video

  • we can both smile together.

  • Now, everything I'm about to say is based

  • off my own experiences and things I've learned,

  • and I feel like I'm making this video

  • just to kinda remind myself.

  • So, welcome to five things we do to make ourselves unhappy.

  • I think that's the title. Was that the title?

  • It's something like that. Are you ready?

  • Because it's honesty hour.

  • Number one: Expect to control people and situations.

  • Now, I'm gonna be real with you,

  • I'll be the first to say, I'm a huge control freak.

  • Like, I'm on tour right now, and every time I'm on stage,

  • I want to control everything that's happening.

  • And even in my personal life, I find myself

  • expecting people to do certain things.

  • But what we need to remember, even though

  • it's really hard to accept, is that

  • we will never control people and certain situations.

  • For example, if I'm on stage and the microphone

  • stops working, nothing I do can fix that.

  • The only thing I can control in that situation

  • is how I react, so I can either

  • a, get pissed off and throw the microphone

  • at someone's head, or b, make a joke about it

  • and hope people laugh.

  • And the same goes with people.

  • If we could control people, let's be real,

  • you would be dating your celebrity

  • crush and be living on a yacht.

  • Are you living on a yacht? I don't think so.

  • And if you's living on a yacht, then god damn it.

  • Now, the reality is you will never control people

  • and what they do, no matter how hard you try,

  • and it's okay to have expectations of people,

  • but understand that if you have expectations,

  • people will not always fulfill them,

  • and there's nothing you can do about it.

  • The only thing you'll ever be able to control

  • in this world is how you react,

  • so the key is to react like an effing boss.

  • Number two: compare yourself to others.

  • Now, i feel like in today's day and age

  • this is mostly the fault of social media,

  • because it's so easy to go through Facebook

  • and envy everybody else, but what you need to remember

  • is that we as humans have the tendency

  • to compare people's highlight reel to our blooper reel,

  • because no one's life is as wonderful

  • as it seems on social media, and how do I know this?

  • Because my life is not nearly as wonderful

  • as my Instagram makes it seem, okay?

  • I know I put seven filters on every picture,

  • and so do you, and so does everybody else.

  • Everyone has their own path because everyone is different,

  • and in a world where there's seven billion people,

  • it's stupid to think that everyone's going to

  • get from A to B while using the same road.

  • It's just not gonna happen, not to mention,

  • a lot of people aren't even trying to get to B,

  • they're over there chilling on Q.

  • Look how many people are on this planet,

  • everyone is so different, where it doesn't even

  • make sense to compare each other.

  • I suck at some things, and I'm good at some things.

  • You suck at some things, and you're good at some things.

  • This is everyone's story.

  • Number 3: View mistakes and hard times negatively.

  • This gon' be some real talk.

  • How do you know not to touch the stove when it's on?

  • Chances are when you were younger you burnt

  • yourself a few times and now you know

  • if you touch it, it's gonna hurt.

  • But how would you know that if

  • you didn't burn yourself in the first place?

  • As humans we learn through mistakes.

  • How do you know how to walk?

  • Because when you were a toddler

  • you fell on your butt a couple hundred times.

  • Now that concept doesn't change over time.

  • From the moment you were born,

  • to the moment you die, you will always

  • learn things because you f**k things up.

  • Or because someone hurt you.

  • Look back, honestly take a second

  • and look back at every lesson you've ever learned

  • and I can guarantee you that lesson

  • is founded on strong mistakes, heartache,

  • tears, and a whole lot of other sad things.

  • If you've learned who to trust

  • it's probably because someone has lied to you.

  • And if you've learned how to be positive,

  • it's probably because you've been negative.

  • And if you have the app find my iphone on your iphone

  • it's probably because you've lost your iphone.

  • So when you make a mistake or you fail

  • or you're heartbroken, yeah, cry.

  • Be sad about it, that's ok, but also

  • be 10% happy because yo this is

  • going to teach you something amazing

  • that will help you in the future.

  • There is a huge silver lining to everything.

  • Picture it as exercise for your soul.

  • Number four: Ignore your closest friend.

  • We're so busy idolizing celebrities

  • daydreaming about our crushes

  • prioritizing our besties and consuming

  • ourselves with media that we ignore

  • our closest friend, ourselves.

  • Now the way I see it, people are wonderful.

  • People are like the cherries on top

  • of an already delicious sundae. They're bonus.

  • But the person you should be relying on

  • most in this life, is you. Why?

  • Simply because no one knows you

  • as well as you know yourself.

  • No one can read your mind, no one

  • knows your greatest fears, no one can

  • hear all of the little voices inside your head.

  • And for that reason no one can

  • be a better friend to you, than you.

  • It's important to talk to yourself,

  • love yourself, be your own friend.

  • Be on the same page as yourself.

  • Have your own back because I promise

  • you no matter how popular you are

  • at some point in your life, you'll find

  • yourself alone in a room feeling super lonely.

  • It's in your best interest to be friends

  • with the only person in that room.

  • Number five: Surround yourself with negativity.

  • Negativity is like a contagious disease

  • if you hang around it, chances are you'll experience it.

  • It's really really simple if you don't want

  • to experience negative feelings don't

  • hang around negative people who talk negative crap.

  • Don't hang around people that gossip.

  • Don't hang around people that put you down.

  • Don't hang around people who hate other groups of people.

  • And you yourself don't speak ill about anyone else.

  • If the people around you don't make you smile

  • and inspire you then you are around the wrong people.

  • If you don't want to smell like crap,

  • then stop hanging around crap.

  • If you don't wanna be wet, then get outta the rain.

  • It's a very simple concept. If you wanna be happy

  • surround yourself with happy people and things.

  • Well that's all, I don't know if this video

  • was helpful or if you hated it or if ya loved it but

  • I'm feeling a little bit better and we all need

  • that reminder once in a while.

  • Let's smile, ready, one, two, three.

  • We're gonna be okay. We're always okay.

  • We, we're gonna be okay.

  • Comment down below and let me know

  • if I missed anything or if you just wanna

  • drop something positive maybe someone

  • will read it and it'll really make their day.

  • So go ahead and spread the joy.

  • If you liked this video and liked the stuff I said

  • I do a lot of this during my show.

  • I am on tour I got four shows left in North America.

  • The link is in the description

  • www.lillysinghtour.com, tomorrow I'm

  • headed to Vancouver BC, I've got Seattle

  • I got San Francisco and I've got Anaheim.

  • Other than that give the video a big thumbs up

  • you can check out my last video right there

  • it's called types of girls in relationships

  • my second vlog channel is right there

  • so make sure you check that out and subscribe to that.

  • And make sure that you subscribe

  • to this channel my main channel

  • because I make new videos every Monday

  • and Thursday and I'd love for you to be here.

  • I sincerely hope in some way, shape or form

  • this video has positively impacted your life.

  • Until next time, one love, Superwoman

  • that is a wrap and zoop!

  • We're gonna be okay.

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