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Hello everybody! Today I am going to be doing a Q&A
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because you guys love them
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I love filming them, and I think
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that makes for a great all round video.
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Words. Use them.
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I went to Twitter
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and I asked you guys to ask me
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lots of questions using the hashtag ask Zoella,
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as I always do,
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and you gave me some lovely questions
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so I'm gonna go through and answer them for you.
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I have a twitchy eye.
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Apologies
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for the twitchy eye.
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'Will you ever grow your hair long again?
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Love you!' Love you, too!
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I don't know your name.
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Every time I watch back old vlogs
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I'm like, uhh, I hate my long hair
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Like, I haven't really seen many pictures of me with long hair
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where I've actually thought it looked nice.
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Isn't that weird?
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Because I've had it for so long
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and really liked it.
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Yeah, when I look back at it now
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I'm like, uhh, I just don't, it doesn't look good,
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you know.
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So no, I'm not planning on growing it.
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I think if I ever want a day with long hair
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or I fancy having long hair for a bit
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I think extensions work wonders because
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they're so thick and lovely.
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It doesn't have that same effect as actual natural hair
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that gets a bit thin and straggly at the bottom
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which is for sure what mine looked like.
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So I think if I ever got bored of short hair
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I can just put extensions in
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and I think that would probably look better than my hair ever did.
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But no, I don't miss my long hair
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so I'm not planning on growing it anytime soon.
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'Scroll down your camera roll 3 times
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and click on a random picture, then explain the picture.'
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Okay, scroll down 3 times.
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Do you mean scroll up?
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Oh, scroll down but the pictures go up, got it.
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1, 2, 3...
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picture!
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I'm tapping and nothing's happening.
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Oh, it's just a selfie, that's boring.
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I'll do another one.
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Okay, this is a photo, I will insert it here.
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This photo is from the other night
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when I was at Poppy and Sean's house
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with Alfie and we were having like a film night
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and we got a take-away.
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And Alfie and Poppy fell asleep on me.
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And Sean took this photo of me underneath them
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loving life,
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not being able to move.
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'Do you have any tips on how to
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get more confident in situations where you have to be social with strangers?'
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See, sometimes I'm good at this and sometimes I'm bad at this.
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It completely depends on how I feel confidence-wise.
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If I'm feeling particularly confident that day
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I don't find it as difficult.
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If I have a low self-esteem
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or I'm feeling quite insecure that day
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I shrivel up inside myself,
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keep my head down
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and I don't want to speak to anyone
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and I find everything awkward and uncomfortable.
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So I think my first point would be:
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if it's at a party or is at a meeting or is at an interview,
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or it's a place that you haven't been before
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or it's like, you know, an event situation,
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I would say, like really pumping yourself,
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take a bit longer picking out your outfit, like,
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feel good in yourself.
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I'm a well-put-together person,
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I can do this.
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I always say, like, makeup is amazing
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because it just gives people that little bit more confidence
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that they may not have had before.
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And I feel like this kind of works in the same way.
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It just boosts your confidence a little bit.
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So I think: spend a little bit longer on you
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and do the things that you know will make you feel better by yourself
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and make you feel more confident.
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I think that will make everything just a little bit easier
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because, *phone notification sound* oops, because you will
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kind of own a room a little bit more.
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Another thing that I can sometimes find quite difficult
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when meeting new people or being in a room with lots of new people in it
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and a lot of the time when I'm in that situation
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a lot of people want to actually speak to me,
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that sounds really big headed but I just mean it in a way that, like,
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if it's at an event or something
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people that I work with or they want to introduce me to people
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a lot of the time I know people are gonna want to speak to me.
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So I have had to kind of put these things into practise.
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And I think I have this thing where I start to feel uncomfortable
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when I start to, like, picture me having the conversation with somebody
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from like an outsider, it's like I'm not really there, it's like I'm watching it happen
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and it just feels awkward.
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So I think being engaged in a conversation.
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Don't necessarily worry about the fact that this is a new person.
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Don't worry about the judgement or what would they think of me
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or if I'm sure I said the right things.
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I think it's good to maybe have a couple of questions that you'd like to ask people
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or find out their interests.
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Just be a bit more involved in the conversation
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because a lot of the time if you're kind of holding back
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and it's very '- how are you? - oh, great, yeah!'
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and you're kind of already thinking about how to find your friend
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because it's more comfortable.
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You're never gonna enjoy that conversation.
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You really need to think of a couple of questions
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that you would find really interesting to find out about a new person.
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Getting to know new people is a lovely thing to do
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and I think the more you worry about it,
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the more like a bad connotation it has
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and I think trying to make the positive out of meeting new people
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is always the best way.
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Another thing I also think is quite good
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is: if you take somebody that you feel comfortable with with you
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and talk as a three to start with.
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As long as you challenge yourself a little bit
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and make sure you're asking questions too and you're not leaving it up to your friend.
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And I think that way is kind of a win-win for everyone
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because the new person is also meeting your friend, your friend is also meeting a new person
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and three of you are getting involved in a coversation and when you feel more comfortable with that
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you can then do that on your own.
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'Will you ever do a video on why you don't drink alcohol and has it ever caused you a problem?
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Or could you say now?' crying laughing face.
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I'll say now, I don't really mind.
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I don't really have a reason why I don't drink alcohol. I just don't.
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I've never really been into it, I don't really like the taste of any.
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It kind of weirds me out that something you drink can change your behaviour and
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a lot of the control you have over yourself
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and I think somewhere inside of me that's a really terrifying thing.
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And it also is quite terrifying for me to watch that happen to other people.
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I'm normally the sober one who makes sure everyone gets home okay and
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I don't know, I think for a while it was kind of intertwined with my anxiety so
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I kind of just haven't really ever done it.
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I'm not opposed to a cocktail, I'm not like super anti-alcohol.
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I just don't really drink.
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I much prefer a mocktail, to be honest.
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'Who's the last person you texted and what does the text say?'
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The last text I send was to my friend J
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and I said 'yes, of course' and then a little this face and a heart
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and I put 'sorry, I thought I'd replied to you, haha, can't wait to see you'
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I'm so bad at replying to people, literally.
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He sent me a text today and I was like, oh my god I thought I'd replied to his previous text.
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Turns out - I hadn't.
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I'm terrible with communication, I just can't do it.
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Call me up, actually no, I'm really bad at answering my phone.
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I also pretty much at the same time as that texted Mark a picture of my legs
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which I had fake tanned and I put 'oops' crying laughing face because they looked really orange.
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It's a good job you can't see my legs right now!
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'If you could speak any other language what would it be?'
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I feel like I may have answered this already.
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Or maybe not. I can't remember but I think it would either be French,
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because I just feel like it's such a beautiful language and it sounds really beautiful
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and I've also got a little bit of knowledge of French because I've done it in school and stuff,
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or Italian because, again, it just sounds amazing.
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When people speak Italian, or any language, to be honest, it just sounds so good
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and I actually really hate myself a little bit for stopping my French lessons
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because I really enjoyed them and now if I went to France
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I feel like I would be able to understand a small fraction of what someone was saying to me
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I'd probably be able to communicate back
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and I for sure would be able to fully reply which is so frustrating and sad
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because I did it from like the age of 9 to the age of 16
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and I don't know where any of that knowledge is gone, it's just gone.
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Although it is never too late to learn a language.
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I like this one: 'what is your least favourite thing in your house?'
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In terms of rooms, the kitchen is probably my least favourite room
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because I feel like it has so many design floors.
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I'm getting way too into this, I don't know.
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Hmm, the least favourite thing in my house...
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I don't know, I kind of love most of my house.
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I guess...
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The fact that it has no storage and that every single small storage room was turned into a toilet before we moved in
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Possibly, I don't really know.
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There's no items in the house that I don't particularly like because I picked them all.
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'Do you ever think that Youtube was a bad idea?'
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No, I never think it was a bad idea.
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It's enabled me to do so much, it's given me so many amazing opportunities,
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it's led me to have an amazing audience, amazing viewers and supporters and readers
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and I've never thought it was a bad idea at all. Never.
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Even though there have for sure been some things that I found pretty difficult
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and I've never thought I would get to this point in a million years.
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I've never considered the fact that I probably shouldn't have done it ever.
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'Zombies have barged into your room, the thing on your left is your weapon. What is it?'
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*dog barking*
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Wow . A plant.
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Do you think that would go down well?
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Excuse me, Nala. Stop barking.
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Yeah, make eye contact - no!
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She doesn't listen to me. She only listens to Alfie.
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When I tell her off, she's like, pff okay.
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'Can you call Mark and pretend that you accidentally lost Nala and you're afraid to tell Alfie?'
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He's not, I mean I can try but he's for sure not gonna believe me at all.
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Mark: Hello.
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Zoe: Hello!
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Uhm, slight issue.
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Can you talk or are you busy?
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Uhmmm, not really.
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Nala's like gone.
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She ran out the door.
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I know, I don't know what to do, like, I don't know.
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We've been looking for her, we waited for her to come back, like... what am I gonna tell him?
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JOKING! That's just a prank! *laughs*
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Do you not think I would be like crying my eyes out if I lost Nala?
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Oh, bless you, love.
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Okay, alright!
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Love you, bye!
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But no, seriously, if Nala actually did do that I would be sobbing,
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I would be an absolute mess if she ran out the door because that is my biggest fear
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having a dog is that she is gonna run out into the route.
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Right. That is enough of that.
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I hope you guys have enjoyed this Q&A, give it a thumbs up if you did
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and if you enjoyed it and if you're having a great week or great weekend.
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I love you very much and I will see you again very soon, bye!