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This is the Audi R8;
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it's a highly efficient and compelling car;
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its engine produces an astonishing 199 kW at 6,500 rpm, and a torque of 330 Nm at 4000 rpm.
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Now part of the reason that it's so sufficient, and part of what makes us human beings comparatively inefficient,
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is that this car has only one goal, and that goal is exceptionally clear: it has to go very fast down tarmac roads.
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As a general principle, no machine can be optimally efficient at more than one thing.
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A robot that has to both climb stairs, and make pancakes will be far less efficient
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than two distinct machines, each of which can focus exclusively on a single task.
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The more limited the goals, the higher once chances efficiency.
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Now, unlike the Audi sports car, our brains are not designed
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or evolved to be maximally efficient at any one thing.
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This amazing cognitive and emotional machine is a profound generalist
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it comes moderately well equipped for a huge range of possible activities:
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to write a novel, spearfish, bring up a child, drive very fast Fifth Avenue, sit in a high-rise office writing reports,
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lie in a hut in New Guinea, marry, plot an assassination, live in an ice cave, go into politics, stay single,
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or expand a small business into the Asia market.
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Now the price we pay for being generalists is that we'll be less good at any one of the many activities we perform
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than someone who did only one thing their whole life long.
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We might not be the very best at inflating party balloons, the house will be a bit dirty,
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we might be a bit late for the meeting, we'll not be perfect, patient, and interesting dinner companions,
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we'll mess up the public presentation again, someone will probably be better and we are at helping a child to paint.
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This might be quite depressing moments, perhaps late at night as we look back across the day,
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but before we get too sad, we should realize that our less than completely optimal performance
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is down to one very understandable thing:
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that we've chosen and breadth and variety over total focus and narrow perfection,
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and that's a very wise choice.
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Focusing on one thing to the exclusion all others has its costs as anyone who's ever spoken to an athlete who trains 10 hours a day tends to find out.
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There's a cost to being the human equivalent to the sports car.
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Unfortunately, our society has set up an absurd idea:
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that it will be possible to do many things and do them all completely well.
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That's why we hear so much talk about an elusive thing called: "work-life balance".
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Perfectly optimal career and a perfectly optimal home life.
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This is a mad idea!
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Work-life balance is impossible because everything worth fighting for unbalances your life.
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We're not going to be a once the ideal domestic chef, child carer, and CEO.
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If we're strung out across multiple roles, all will suffer, but that's okay.
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That you're doing too much and none of it without mistakes isn't a sign that your life is gone wrong,
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it's a sign of a very wise and understandable position:
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that you've opted for imperfect variety over flawless focus.