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  • Hey again ladies and gentlemen, Brad Browning herein this video, I’m going to list

  • off six text messages you should NEVER send to your ex. This video is specifically for

  • those who want to get back together with their ex, but most of these messages are still bad

  • news even if youre not looking to win back an ex.

  • Before I jump into these terrible text messages, I’d just like to quickly ask you to do me

  • a big favor and click thelikebutton below if you find this video helpfuland

  • of course if you have questions you’d like me to answer, please just leave a comment

  • below and I’ll get back to you as soon as I can.

  • Bad Message #1: Begging, Pleading, and Promising Change

  • After a breakup, many people feel compelled to beg their ex for another chanceafter

  • all, it’s only natural to try and change someone’s mind when theyve made a decision

  • youre not happy with. But any text message that involves begging, pleading, or promising

  • your ex that youll change your ways is doomed to fail.

  • See, no matter how logical it might seem to ask your ex for another chance and reassure

  • them that things will be different next time around, that will simply never work. The only

  • way to get your ex back is to rebuild their attraction for youyou can’t use words

  • to make your ex love you again, you need to build natural attraction so that they WANT

  • you back. After all, love is a two way street.

  • So, don’t send your ex any texts begging for another chance or promising to change….

  • it’s just a bad idea, period.

  • Bad Message #2: AskingWhyor Bringing Up SeriousRelationship Talk

  • Yes, I know, you want to know why your ex broke up with you…. maybe youre looking

  • for closure, or maybe you just think anotherserious discussionwill help you work

  • out the problems in your relationship that led to breakup.

  • Well, maybe months down the road you can ask your ex for some closure, but it’s best

  • to completely avoid all talk of your relationship, the breakup, and anything else that’s “serious”...

  • remember, you want to build your ex’s attraction, and re-hashing the same old drama is not going

  • to help with that one bit. Usually, it just reinforces your ex’s decision to break up.

  • If youre not sure why your ex broke up or you want to figure out whether youve

  • still got a chance to win them back, head over to my website (www.BreakupBrad.com) and

  • watch the free video presentation… I’ll share some in-depth advice about breakups

  • and how to repair things with your ex.

  • Bad Message #3: Resentful, Angry, or Vengeful Messages

  • Sometimes, you may wind up hating your ex’s guts, whether theyve done something wrong

  • or not. But, regardless of how intense your anger and desire for revenge might be, sending

  • your ex angry messages and trying to hurt their feelings with mean, insulting comments

  • won’t do you any good. Honestly, it probably won’t even make you feel any betterand

  • it will definitely kill your chances of ever getting back together.

  • Bad Message #4: Pointless, Uninteresting Messages

  • This is something I talk about a lot in my Ex Factor Guide program, because a lot of

  • people think that texting their ex something like, “hey whats uporhows it going

  • will help stimulate a conversation.

  • Well, actually, noit usually does the opposite. Why would your ex reply to boring

  • messages like that? If you want to get a reply, and get your ex to start thinking about you

  • again in a positive light, then you need to be interesting and funny…. at the very least,

  • make sure your messages have a purpose beyond justreconnecting”.

  • When it comes to texting, remember: be fun! If your ex enjoys texting back and forth with

  • you, then theyll continue to reply and will start to think of you asfunand

  • interestingagainwhich is what you want if youre trying to rekindle the romance

  • after a breakup.

  • Bad Message #5: Follow-up messages

  • If you send your ex a message and he or she doesn’t reply, then that conversation is

  • dead and you need to leave it in the past. The worst thing you can do is send more messages

  • askingdid you get my textorwhy didn’t you reply to my last message”...

  • that makes you look needy and desperate.

  • If you don’t get a reply, then wait a while -- don’t message your ex again a few days,

  • or in some cases, a few weeks. Then, when the time is right, try again with a different

  • message and a different approach.

  • If youve sent several messages and haven’t heard any replies at all, then youre either

  • doing something wrong or your ex simply isn’t interested in talking with you at all. Whatever

  • you do, don’t bombard your ex with messages and don’t make it look like youre desperate

  • for a reply.

  • Bad Message #6: Love notes andputting it all out there

  • A lot of my clients have, at some point after their initial breakup, tried to win their

  • ex back by telling him or her how much they love themhow badly they miss having them

  • aroundsometimes, theyll write out a lengthy love note pouring their heart out

  • and send it to their ex as a “last ditch effort”.

  • You probably know by now why this is a bad idea, but if not, I’m going to spare you

  • the in-depth reasoning and just say this: don’t tell your ex you still love them,

  • you miss them like crazy, or anything of that nature. There can be times when this is appropriate,

  • but unless youre at that point and know when the time is right, then youre best

  • just to not text your ex this sort of messageat all, ever.

  • So, that’s it for nowif youve managed to avoid sending your ex any of these six

  • messages so far, then congratulations, because most people will send at least one or two

  • of these texts in the weeks after their breakup. Don’t worry if you already have, though

  • from now on, just make sure to avoid sending these types of negative text messages, and

  • youll be doing yourself a big favor.

  • If you’d like some more text message ideas that will generate a reply and help build

  • attraction between you and your ex, you can visit www.BreakupBrad.com and sign up for

  • my Ex Factor Guide programthe program includes a bunch of sample texts that you

  • can send immediately to your ex to spark some positive conversation and get them thinking

  • about you again. Even if youre not interested in signing up for the program, you can still

  • get some more ideas by watching the free video presentation on my website. Again, the URL

  • is BreakupBrad.com.

  • Thanks for watching, hope you found this video helpfulplease leave your comments and

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  • Bye for now!

Hey again ladies and gentlemen, Brad Browning herein this video, I’m going to list

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