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  • I've always been the type of lady to go after what I want.

  • Aye boy, you wanna, you wanna, I got you a present.

  • You good looking boy you wanna come home with me?

  • Can I be your mom?

  • Look, if, if I were you mom, I'd shower you with gifts.

  • Come on! Hey, hey, come here!

  • I was talking to a friend the other day,

  • who told me,

  • I have been trying to send him signals,

  • but I just don't think he's picking up on them.

  • Why don't you just ask him out?

  • Good one.

  • Oh, you're serious.

  • Oh, no, no. I can't do that.

  • Why?

  • Well, I mean...

  • Now, I've always aggressively chased the boys that I've liked.

  • When I was a kid,

  • I would make it abundantly clear if I like-liked you.

  • (To Devin)

  • (I like-like you. If you like-like me back buy me a pizza.)

  • As an adult, my habits haven't really changed.

  • That's a cute picture of me huh.

  • I was a kid, yeah. Good-looker.

  • But I've been surprised to find out that

  • a lot of my female friends are very reluctant to ask guys out.

  • When I ask them about it, they have all kinds of excuses.

  • I don' know. Guys love to chase.

  • I'm not aggro like you, Anna.

  • I don't think I can handle that kind of rejection.

  • So ladies, I have three very good reasons why you should ask the next guy out.

  • One. What's the worst that could happen?

  • He says no.

  • So What? Rejection is not the end of the world.

  • And that kind of pressure is something that

  • guys face every single time they wanna ask a woman out.

  • Two. Time.

  • I don't know about you,

  • but when I'm crushing on someone

  • I waste so much time fantasizing about what their butts looks like.

  • Just ask them out. Get some answers. Get that butt.

  • Three. Missed opportunities.

  • Look, putting yourself out there and putting your feelings out there

  • is very vulnerable, and scary. It's a hard thing to do.

  • But some guys are maybe too shy to ever do that.

  • So imagine, all of the missed loves that you never had because you're both too afraid to approach each other.

  • Plus, think about how much easier this would make the whole dating process.

  • If you aren't asking people out, you're basically sitting around, waiting for someone to come find you.

  • You wanna know how Brad and I started dating?

  • I asked him out.

  • I hit him up on Facebook.

  • and I said, "Hey, I think you're cute and I'd like to take you out to dinner."

  • And we ended up chatting about his childhood ferrets til 4 a.m.

  • But, I've also been rejected, a lot,

  • throughout the years by guys who, either didn't like how

  • aggressive I was or didn't like me as a person

  • or didn't find me attractive or, I don't know.

  • They don't always tell me.

  • So, who knows?

  • Go out there, lady friends.

  • I implore you.

  • And the next time you see a cutie,

  • hit him up.

  • I'd like to ask you out, um, with this, here.

  • That's present for you, cause I think you're real cute,

  • and I wanna show you that I like you,

  • and I want to cuddle.

  • Thanks so much for Loot Crate for sponsoring today's video.

  • For those of you who don't know, Loot Crate creates cool subscription boxes

  • and have a new theme every month.

  • It's like a surprise present to yourself, or to your kitties.

  • You have until the 19th of the month to order

  • because they all ship out at the end of the month.

  • and you can order just one crate,

  • or subscribe to the gift that keeps on giving.

  • So I got December's galaxy theme to Loot Pets box,

  • which, I've never unboxed anything before,

  • so this is exciting.

  • Aw that's cute!

  • Uh, that came with galactic snaps. Freeze-dried beef liver snacks for dogs.

  • I've got four cats, so maybe they can eat that even though they're not dogs.

  • Oh, they got a pet collar.

  • That looks kinda futuristic.

  • We got a new bowl.

  • That's perfect cause we have broke a bowl the other day.

  • It's a Firefly Troublemaker ceramic pet bowl. Very cool.

  • Oh my god, this is a sweater. Is this a sweater?

  • It's a tank top. Oh my god!

  • They have their own magazine, and it's a Pug.

  • January's theme is invasion.

  • You can sign up by clicking on the link below in my video description.

  • And don't forget to sign up by the 19th at 9pm Pacific to get January's crate.

I've always been the type of lady to go after what I want.

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