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I'm often asked,
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"What surprised you about the book?"
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And I say, "That I got to write it."
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I would have never imagined that.
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Not in my wildest dreams did I think --
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I don't even consider myself to be an author.
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And I'm often asked,
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"Why do you think so many people have read this?
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This thing's selling still about a million copies a month."
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And I think it's because spiritual emptiness
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is a universal disease.
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I think inside at some point, we put our heads down on the pillow and we go,
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"There's got to be more to life than this."
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Get up in the morning, go to work, come home and watch TV,
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go to bed, get up in the morning, go to work, come home, watch TV, go to bed,
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go to parties on weekends.
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A lot of people say, "I'm living." No, you're not living -- that's just existing.
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Just existing.
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I really think that there's this inner desire.
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I do believe what Chris said; I believe that you're not an accident.
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Your parents may not have planned you, but I believe God did.
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I think there are accidental parents; there's no doubt about that.
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I don't think there are accidental kids.
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And I think you matter.
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I think you matter to God; I think you matter to history;
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I think you matter to this universe.
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And I think that the difference
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between what I call the survival level of living, the success level of living,
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and the significance level of living is:
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Do you figure out, "What on Earth am I here for?"
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I meet a lot of people who are very smart,
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and say, "But why can't I figure out my problems?"
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And I meet a lot of people who are very successful,
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who say, "Why don't I feel more fulfilled?
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Why do I feel like a fake?
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Why do I feel like I've got to pretend that I'm more than I really am?"
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I think that comes down to this issue of meaning, of significance, of purpose.
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I think it comes down to this issue of:
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"Why am I here? What am I here for? Where am I going?"
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These are not religious issues.
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They're human issues.
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I wanted to tell Michael before he spoke that I really appreciate what he does,
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because it makes my life work a whole lot easier.
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As a pastor, I do see a lot of kooks.
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And I have learned that there are kooks in every area of life.
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Religion doesn't have a monopoly on that,
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but there are plenty of religious kooks.
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There are secular kooks; there are smart kooks, dumb kooks.
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There are people -- a lady came up to me the other day,
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and she had a white piece of paper -- Michael, you'll like this one --
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and she said, "What do you see in it?"
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And I looked at it and I said, "Oh, I don't see anything."
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And she goes, "Well, I see Jesus," and started crying and left.
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I'm going, "OK," you know? "Fine."
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(Laughter)
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Good for you.
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When the book became the best-selling book in the world for the last three years,
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I kind of had my little crisis.
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And that was: What is the purpose of this?
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Because it brought in enormous amounts of money.
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When you write the best-selling book in the world,
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it's tons and tons of money.
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And it brought in a lot of attention, neither of which I wanted.
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When I started Saddleback Church, I was 25 years old.
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I started it with one other family in 1980.
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And I decided that I was never going to go on TV,
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because I didn't want to be a celebrity.
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I didn't want to be a, quote, "evangelist, televangelist" --
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that's not my thing.
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And all of the sudden, it brought a lot of money and a lot of attention.
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I don't think --
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now, this is a worldview,
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and I will tell you, everybody's got a worldview.
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Everybody's betting their life on something.
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You're betting your life on something,
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you just better know why you're betting what you're betting on.
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So, everybody's betting their life on something.
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And when I, you know, made a bet,
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I happened to believe that Jesus was who he said he was.
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And I believe in a pluralistic society,
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everybody's betting on something.
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And when I started the church,
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you know, I had no plans to do what it's doing now.
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And then when I wrote this book,
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and all of a sudden, it just took off,
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and I started saying, now, what's the purpose of this?
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Because as I started to say,
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I don't think you're given money or fame
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for your own ego, ever.
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I just don't believe that.
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And when you write a book that the first sentence of the book is,
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"It's not about you,"
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then, when all of a sudden it becomes the best-selling book in history,
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you've got to figure, well, I guess it's not about me.
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That's kind of a no-brainer.
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So, what is it for?
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And I began to think about what I call the "stewardship of affluence"
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and the "stewardship of influence."
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So I believe, essentially, leadership is stewardship.
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That if you are a leader in any area --
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in business, in politics, in sports, in art,
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in academics, in any area --
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you don't own it.
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You are a steward of it.
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For instance, that's why I believe in protecting the environment.
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This is not my planet.
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It wasn't mine before I was born, it's not going to be mine after I die,
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I'm just here for 80 years and then that's it.
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I was debating the other day on a talk show,
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and the guy was challenging me and he'd go,
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"What's a pastor doing on protecting the environment?"
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And I asked this guy, I said, "Well, do you believe
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that human beings are responsible
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to make the world a little bit better place for the next generation?
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Do you think we have a stewardship here, to take the environment seriously?"
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And he said, "No."
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I said, "Oh, you don't?"
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I said, "Let me make this clear again:
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Do you believe that as human beings -- I'm not talking about religion --
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do you believe that as human beings, it is our responsibility
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to take care of this planet,
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and make it just a little bit better for the next generation?"
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And he said, "No. Not any more than any other species."
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When he said the word "species," he was revealing his worldview.
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And he was saying,
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"I'm no more responsible to take care of this environment than a duck is."
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Well now, I know a lot of times we act like ducks,
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but you're not a duck.
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You're not a duck.
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And you are responsible -- that's my worldview.
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And so, you need to understand what your worldview is.
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The problem is most people never really think it through.
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They never really ...
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codify it or qualify it or quantify it,
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and say, "This is what I believe in. This is why I believe what I believe."
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I don't personally have enough faith to be an atheist.
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But you may, you may.
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Your worldview, though, does determine everything else in your life,
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because it determines your decisions;
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it determines your relationships;
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it determines your level of confidence.
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It determines, really, everything in your life.
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What we believe, obviously --
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and you know this -- determines our behavior,
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and our behavior determines what we become in life.
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So all of this money started pouring in,
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and all of this fame started pouring in.
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And I'm going, what do I do with this?
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My wife and I first made five decisions on what to do with the money.
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We said, "First, we're not going to use it on ourselves."
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I didn't go out and buy a bigger house.
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I don't own a guesthouse.
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I still drive the same four year-old Ford that I've driven.
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We just said, we're not going to use it on us.
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The second thing was,
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I stopped taking a salary from the church that I pastor.
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Third thing is, I added up all that the church had paid me
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over the last 25 years, and I gave it back.
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And I gave it back because I didn't want anybody thinking
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that I do what I do for money -- I don't.
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In fact, personally, I've never met
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a priest or a pastor or a minister who does it for money.
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I know that's the stereotype; I've never met one of them.
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Believe me, there's a whole lot easier ways to make money.
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Pastors are like on 24 hours-a-day call, they're like doctors.
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I left late today -- I'd hoped to be here yesterday --
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because my father-in-law is in his last, probably, 48 hours
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before he dies of cancer.
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And I'm watching a guy who's lived his life --
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he's now in his mid-80s -- and he's dying with peace.
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You know, the test of your worldview is not how you act in the good times.
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The test of your worldview is how you act at the funeral.
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And having been through literally hundreds if not thousands of funerals,
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it makes a difference.
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It makes a difference what you believe.
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So, we gave it all back,
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and then we set up three foundations,
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working on some of the major problems of the world:
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illiteracy, poverty, pandemic diseases -- particularly HIV/AIDS --
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and set up these three foundations, and put the money into that.
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The last thing we did is we became what I call "reverse tithers."
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And that is, when my wife and I got married 30 years ago,
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we started tithing.
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Now, that's a principle in the Bible
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that says give 10 percent of what you get back to charity,
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give it away to help other people.
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So, we started doing that, and each year we would raise our tithe one percent.
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So, our first year of marriage we went to 11 percent,
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second year we went to 12 percent,
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and the third year we went to 13 percent,
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and on and on and on.
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Why did I do that?
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Because every time I give,
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it breaks the grip of materialism in my life.
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Materialism is all about getting -- get, get, get, get all you can,
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can all you get, sit on the can and spoil the rest.
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It's all about more, having more.
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And we think that the good life is actually looking good --
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that's most important of all --
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looking good, feeling good and having the goods.
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But that's not the good life.
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I meet people all the time who have those, and they're not necessarily happy.
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If money actually made you happy,
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then the wealthiest people in the world would be the happiest.
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And that I know, personally, I know, is not true.
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It's just not true.
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So, the good life is not about looking good, feeling good or having the goods,
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it's about being good and doing good.
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Giving your life away.
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Significance in life doesn't come from status,
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because you can always find somebody who's got more than you.
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It doesn't come from sex.
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It doesn't come from salary.
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It comes from serving.
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It is in giving our lives away that we find meaning,
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we find significance.
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That's the way we were wired, I believe, by God.
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And so we began to give away,
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and now after 30 years,
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my wife and I are reverse tithers -- we give away 90 percent and live on 10.
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That, actually, was the easy part.
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The hard part is, what do I do with all this attention?
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Because I started getting all kinds of invitations.
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I just came off a nearly month-long speaking tour
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on three different continents,
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and I won't go into that,
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but it was an amazing thing.
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And I'm going, what do I do with this notoriety
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that the book has brought?
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And, being a pastor, I started reading the Bible.
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There's a chapter in the Bible called Psalm 72,
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and it's Solomon's prayer for more influence.
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When you read this prayer,
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it sounds incredibly selfish, self-centered.
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He says, "God, I want you to make me famous."
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That's what he prays.
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He said, "I want you to make me famous.
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I want you to spread the fame of my name through every land,
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I want you to give me power.
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I want you to make me famous, I want you to give me influence."
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And it just sounds like the most egotistical request you could make,
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if you were going to pray.
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Until you read the whole psalm, the whole chapter.
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And then he says, "So that the king ..." --
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he was the king of Israel at that time, at its apex in power --
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"... so that the king may care for the widow and orphan,