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The Chakra of the Goddess
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lies behind the sternum bone in the spinal cord.
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This Chakra is placed above the Bhavasagara,
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above the Void, as we call it in Sahaja Yoga.
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And the bridge that has to be crossed
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by the bhaktas, by the seekers, is guarded by.
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She's the one, She helps Her children to come
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through that passage
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when there are negative forces trying to attack on a seeker.
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This chakra is placed at the back of the sternum bone as I told you.
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In childhood, the antibodies are formed
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in the sternum bone.
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They are the warriors or the Sainikas of the Devi.
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Until the age of 12 years they grow and multiply,
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and ultimately they all get distributed all over the body,
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and a human being is made
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able to face any outside invasion on him.
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These antibodies know how to fight.
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They are extremely confident
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and they know who are their enemies.
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They've all these messages built in themselves.
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So when the anti-God element enters into the being
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through any process,
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say, through food, through words,
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through action, through devilish people,
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or black magic,
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these antibodies combine together,
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collectively fight the invaders.
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Those who do not have their Central Heart properly developed
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suffer from tremendous insecurity all their lives.
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When they are children,
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you try to control them by frightening.
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These children later on become extremely insecure.
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They are afraid of darkness, they are afraid of night.
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Some of them are afraid of everything.
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Because the antibodies that are built in the body
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are not sufficient in number
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and being this center so weak,
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the person feels extremely insecure.
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Later on in life when the child goes to the school
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or he tries to work out something for the future,
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then also his confidence can be shaken
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by parents, teachers, and outside people.
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So it is very important to understand children who are growing.
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In the West they analyze everything
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and try to put human beings into compartments.
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First the child, is a child according to them,
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child has no innocence,
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and he's extremely selfish.
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Second part is adolescence,
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which they think is a very arbitrary, moody stuff.
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In India, we do not know that there is something like adolescence.
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Now these adolescent people form a group,
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and they start criticizing or making fun of all the elders.
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At a very young age it starts.
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First they make fun of the teachers, then of the parents,
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then of all the people who are senior to them.
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They start becoming extremely active in their brains
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because they see too many televisions and things like that,
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and then they start behaving at a very young age
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in such violent ways that one cannot imagine.
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I used to live about 25 miles away from London.
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And every time I would go to London,
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I would find some children doing some sort of a mischief, somewhere.
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One day some of them entered into my compartment,
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and they started pulling out all the covers,
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thrusting their knives into the seats,
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opening out all the upholstery.
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I was just sitting and watching.
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So I said, "Now are you tired? Please sit down.
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What's the problem?"
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They said, "We are all very angry." I said, "For what?
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Why are you angry?" Said, "We are just angry."
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I said, "But you have to be angry for something."
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They were children going to good schools definitely,
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wearing very good clothes.
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And then I had to, when the train stopped, I called the ticket collector
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and told him that these boys have been
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doing all this hooliganic, hooliganism
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in the compartment and you better look at it.
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And he came in and he said, "this is a common thing"
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and then somehow or other he took them out.
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But the only thing I felt about them is,
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that all of them had their Center Heart catching.
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On the Kundalini, they were catching their Center Heart.
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But when they saw Me, they sat down.
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They were quiet, they listened to Me.
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I settled their Center Heart.
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And most of them said, "We are angry with our mother."
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"Why?" "Because our brothers are angry."
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"But why your brothers are angry?"
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Then I discovered that Freud has given these funny ideas
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against the mother.
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Mother itself, can you imagine!
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What a anti-God activity it is.
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To an Indian, Mother is the primal thing
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any Indian.
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Because his sense of security lies in the mother.
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Even if the father is hot-tempered,
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is angry, still they depend on the mother.
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Because mother knows when to get angry
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and when not to get angry. She has the discrimination.
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And she is the one who protects them.
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The idea of Mother is completely blasted in the West,
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and this is the reason why
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the children of that country feel so insecure,
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and when they grow, they are extremely insecure.
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You won't believe
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that all the time they are polishing their brass,
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cleaning their house,
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but not even a rat enters their houses.
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And if they have to talk to someone,
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they'll make a person stand outside and talk from inside,
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specially in London,
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because they are literally frightened.
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Nobody will believe,
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the British who ruled us, are such frightened people.
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But they are.
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They are frightened of each other, they are frightened of themselves.
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The reason is, the Center Heart is absolutely weak.
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I've told you the first reason, the family insecurities.
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The child does not know when he comes back from school,
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whether his mother would be there or she would be gone.
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They don't have mothers who can bear a lot from the husbands
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and smile and show no signs of their agony to their children.
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But the mothers in that country, I've seen,
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always try to use their children
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from all kinds of emotional blackmail, you can call it.
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They try to torture the child
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by telling all the things the husband is doing to them
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and whatever is the problem they are facing with the husbands.
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So the child is not secured by the mother, but, on the contrary,
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child starts giving security to mother there.
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At a very young age it starts,
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and the child becomes extremely negative
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and left-sided. He feels that he's born in a place
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full of hatred, insecurity, and fear.
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When a person is frightened,
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this center start breathing fast,
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giving rhythmic instructions to all the antibodies.
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With that you feel you are getting a palpitation in the heart.
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This palpitation is nothing
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but a signal to all the antibodies to fight
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the emergency of an attack.
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But when somebody builds up insecurity later on in life,
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it becomes a physical problem.
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If they have insecurities earlier,
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it is an emotional problem.
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But later on in life,
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when one develops a insecurity - any kind,
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like a wife is insecure about her husband;
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husband is a loafer or a bad man,
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and carrying on with other women,
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so the motherhood of the wife is challenged.
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And when her motherhood is challenged,
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she may get the weakening of this center,
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by which she may suffer quite a lot
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and may have even breast cancer.
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These insecurities can be also self-made, imaginary.
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People can just think about it
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and build up some sort of insecurities,
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which are of no actual existence.
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But such fears are very much more in the West.
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Because the life in the West has no mooring,
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has no explanation.
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Whatever you ask them, they'll say, "What's wrong?"
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A husband will say, "What's wrong?" in having a keep.
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And the wife will also say,
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"All right, if he wants to have a keep, let him have it."
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In India, no woman would tolerate such a situation.
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She would starve, she would do everything,
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but she will never touch a man who has a keep.
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So the basis of the strength of Indian women
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is their sense of chastity.
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The sense of chastity
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in the Indian women is so great
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that nothing can deter them
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as long as they are chaste.
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But if they are not chaste,
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then fear settles in them very fast.
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Chastity is the strength of women.
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And that's why those women who have fear, mostly,
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have a problem of their chastity being challenged.
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A woman who is frightened that her chastity may be disturbed,
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also can develop a problem with the Heart Chakra.
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Such women can develop
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breast cancers, breathing troubles,
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and other kind of frightening diseases
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on the emotional level also.
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This Chakra is ruined in women
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when they lose their only child;
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because their motherhood is finished, they feel.
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And that is the worst thing that can happen to a woman,
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if she's a woman.
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But if she's not a woman, she doesn't feel much,
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and she just behaves in a very manly way.
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And that's what I've seen in the West,
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that women really don't much care when their children die.
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But it is because they are not women.
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If you are a woman
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you definitely feel for your children and their death.
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But after some time,
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such a woman comes back again
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and she accepts the life as it is, for the sake of her husband,
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or may be if she has more relations or other children.
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She becomes extremely powerful
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as a reaction to what has happened to her.
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That's only possible if your center of Heart is all right.
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Such women do not grudge, do not complain,
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are extremely serene,
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and can bear up lots of things.
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They are extremely tolerant
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and can go to any extent to help their children,
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but they are never spoiling their children.
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They never spoil their children,
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because they understand
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spoiling is much worse than beating the child.
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They never spoil the children, nor ever pamper them,
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and never get dominated by their children.
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They know, "I have to guide the child
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and have to look after the child."
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So they look after all the ideals and righteousness
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and the virtues of the child.
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And if he tries to get out of it,
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they go all out to win him over back to virtue
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and to better life.
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But those people, those women, who do not care
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for actual growth of the child,
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may just avoid it and escape it.
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In the men, this chakra is caught up
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if they have lost their mother very early,
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or if their mother by chance is a very cruel woman.
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Also this chakra can be caught up by men,
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if they have been to wars,
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and if they have seen frightful things in the war.
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Such people could be extremely emotional
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and could be easily befooled
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by people who try to win over their emotions.
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This Heart Center is caught up by various emotional problems
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in human beings.
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Husband and wife, if they all the time quarrel,
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there's always quarrelling in the house,
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especially if the mother is very dominating,
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the child develops this center.
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And if the father is very dominating,
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the child develops this - the Heart itself.
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So it is very important that
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husband and wife should never quarrel
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in the presence of their children.
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Center Heart can be developed in countries
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where there's all fear, people are frightened.