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So when I was younger, my friend and I had a dream that we would open up our very own pie shop.
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We knew what pies we will serve; we knew where we wanted our shop to be located;
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we even knew the name we wanted to call our shop.
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And I was thinking about all of this because I'm currently in my fifth year.
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In my last semester, I have one month left to school and I have no idea what I'm gonna do when I graduate.
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I was complaining to a friend of mine, a very dear friend of mine
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that I was so annoyed because all of these people that were asking me “Eunice, what are you gonna do when you graduate?”
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In my first week here at school, 29 people asked me what are you gonna do when you graduate.
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And I was complaining to my friend of mine, and she showed me this photo.
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(ASK ME WHAT I'M DOING AFTER GRADUATION ONE MORE TIME)
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Needless to say, I was really tempted to run home and change my Facebook profile picture, but I didn't.
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But I did have some big questions that I wanted answered,
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and I wanted some career advice, some solid career advice that would guide me.
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So I did a quick Google search of top career advice that's out there,
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and let me tell you, there's a lot of advice that you do not wanna go through.
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But I wanna share some of that with you here today.
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One entrepreneur said that you should just do what caters to your strength. If you're good at it, just go do it.
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But then she ended her article by saying just do anything, really, so I was kinda confused.
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One artist said: “Just move to New York.”
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Another writer said: “Don't move to New York if you want to be happy.”
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And one CEO said: “Whatever you do, just listen to your dad.”
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I can see some Dads nodding today.
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But the top advice that I found, this theme that came over and over again was the theme of
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“Do what you love. Follow you passion.”
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And Steve Jobs even went so far to say in his commencement address to the Stanford Graduating class of 2005.
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He said “Don't settle for anything less than work that you love.”
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And this is the theme that I see when I looked to role models of mine:
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Mother Teresa, who devoted herself to helping others,
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Muhammad Yunus, who I love not just because his name sounds like mine,
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but because he eradicated poverty in many areas,
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and by basically, developing this concept to microfinance when he started the Grameen Bank
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and empowering women to become the breadwinners in their family.
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And Nora Ephron, who was able to turn every tragedy in her life into a comedic masterpiece.
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She wrote movies like When Harry Met Sally.
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And I looked at these people and whether you admire them or not,
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the point is that you could substitute any of your role models into these slots.
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And I guarantee you that they would be passionate about the work they do, too.
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And it seems to me that it's this big question that graduates have.
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It's this question of choice. Do I go down this road where I choose what I love,
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this passion of mine, where there's probably more uncertainty?
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Or do I go down this other road, and get a job, find some financial security,
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and maybe worry about loving life later on?
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Which one do I choose? Or maybe I find a road in the middle if I'm lucky.
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For the past three years, I've actually erred on the side of telling students to choose their passions.
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In my second year of university, I co-founded an amazing project called “The Passion Project.”
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And with a dear friend of mine and my roommate at the time, Tarini Fernando.
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And Tarini and I had these two big frustrations.
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It was the middle of December, 2009,
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and if you are a student, too, you know this is a very bleak time, it's the middle of the exams.
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Um, and we just got to talking one night, we had these two big frustrations.
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We had, on the one hand, this frustration that we weren't doing what we love anymore because we were too busy studying,
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and we saw our fellow students in the same predicament.
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And on the other hand, um, all of these students wanted to make a difference in their communities, but they didn't necessarily know how.
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And we are wrestling with these two questions of how do we do more what we love and how do we make a difference in our community.
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And so we thought can we answer these two questions in one project.
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And so “Passion Project” was formed. We had no resources, no funding.
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We didn't even really know how to explain this concept that we had in our minds to our peers, but nevertheless, we went ahead with that.
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And we've had some amazing successes.
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The first event that we put on was a concert at the Pit Pub,
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and we got just under a hundred students to come out.
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We raised just under a thousand dollars for charities that all the musicians chose.
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Another event that we had was a photography exhibition, which you can see in the bottom corner.
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And again all the money that we raised went to charities that the photographers chose.
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And over the years, we wanted to move away from this financial model of doing things where we solely donated money to charities that the artist chose.
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And we wanted to take a more hands-on approach and how we made a difference in our community.
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And so we partnered with the UBC community learning initiative in February of this year,
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and we put on a three-day reading week project in areas of slam poetry and photography, and music.
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And we worked with great successes in seveners, I don't know if that's a word, seveners.
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Um, in a local inner-city elementary school here in Vancouver,
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and one of my favorite stories that came from those three days was
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there was a little guy named Sam, and Sam….
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didn't want to share anything that he wrote in his slam poetry workshops
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Um, the poets that were in the project -- Mike and Frances and Alberto -- they worked with him every day.
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“Sam, you know it's okay, you can get up and share what you've written.”
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Um, and we came to this last day, and he still, was reluctant to share, he's really shy.
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But we had the assembly that contained the whole school,
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and Sam gets up in front of the whole school,
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and shares not just the poem, but a full-on rap.
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And I thought that it was a huge testament the courage that can be born if you are really passionate about something.
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So we've had these successes. It's been three years. The project is still running now,
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and two amazing women, Rigica and Efron now run it. And that's still going on in BBC.
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And all this time, I was looking at it, and I thought that we weren't doing anything wrong. I thought we were doing a great thing here.
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I thought that we were the leading students on the right track.
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And then I read this article in the Harvard Business Review.
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And I can only compare this article to torrential rain on a beautiful summer's day.
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It was the type of article that I needed to take deep breaths while reading.
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It was the type of article that I needed to put down and go for a long walk, and then come back to.
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And it was the type of article that really made me question if we are doing the right thing with the Passion Project.
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And, yeah, we're just doing the right thing and leading students on a good path.
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So by now, you're probably wondering if you haven't read this article, what the authors of this article said.
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Cal Newport, a professor who wrote this article. He said three main things.
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The first is that our generation, generation Y,
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so that's everyone born from 1983 to 2007, so before and after that, you're in the clear.
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Um, he said that our generation is known as lazy, as pampered, as high maintenance,
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actually one critic said that we're the hardest generation to maintain when we come into the workforce.
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And the New York Post called us the worst generation ever.
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Cal Newport then went on to say that it all boils down to the fact that our generation is entitled,
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and that entitlement actually comes from the fact that we've been told over and over again to follow our passions.
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In fact, he showed this graph from Google Analytics that shows
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the rise in the amount of time that the phrase “follow your passion” has been published in English language.
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And as you can see, there is a dramatic increase in the years when generation Y, or generation within our childhood years,
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when we were young and impressionable, and didn't know any better and took this advice.
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Cal then concludes that the only solution to this problem, this problem of us being the worst generation in history,
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is to completely throw out this advice, “follow your passion”.
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I heard a gasp, haha.
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So it was a little devastating, but that was the end of it.
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But the first thing that really struck me was the fact that we are called the worst generation. I had no idea
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when critic said that we're probably too busy at home on Facebook to really notice.
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So, I wanted to see; I wanted to understand if we're really the worst generation.
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And I wanted to kind of study the generations before us to see are we really the worst generation.
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So I wanna invite you on this tour that I took. We're gonna call it the Generation History Tour.
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So I want you to imagine that you're in an art gallery.
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But instead of art on the walls, each piece of art is actually a generation.
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So I want you to walk with me down this long hallway that's in the art gallery.
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And the first piece that we come to is the “silent generation”
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that's the generation of our great grandparents and our grandparents.
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They were children that grew up in tons of war and depression.
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They were children that grew up to build great institutions and bureaucracies.
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And they didn't like risk. They were much more adapters.
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If we walk to this next picture, we see the “boom generation”
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that's the generation of our parents, the baby boomers.
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They took more risks. One critic said that they were self-absorbed yuppies.
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And they were the age of Flower Power, Flower Power, and really rebelled and questioned authority.
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If we walk to the next generation, we see “Generation X”, those just above us.
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Those are the ones who many say are children of divorce, so they have much resilience in them.
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Uh, they were big risk takers.
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And then we come to our generation.
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I've chose this mosaic, which I will come back to later to represent our generation.
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A technically-savage generation, we invented Facebook and Twitter.
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We demand work-life balance.
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And the title of this generation is the worst generation.
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So even after taking that huge tour of all these generations before us,
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I still had no clear answers as to whether we are the worst generation.
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And I thought to myself, maybe I really do have to accept all of these critics saying we are the worst generation.
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And maybe I really do have to accept that this advice “Follow your passion” was really to blame.
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But we're completely refused to accept Cal Newport's article,
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was the work he says the only solution is to throw out this advice.
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I refuse to believe that, we can't become, we can't become a better generation and follow our passion.
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I don't think the two are mutual exclusive.
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And so I think that we can become a better generation and follow our passion at the same time.
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But maybe we just have to remember a couple of things along the way while we're following our passions.
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So the first is, we can follow our passions, but remember to work hard.
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Uh, where generations before us, grew up in times of wars and depressions,
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I would argue that our generation has probably grown up in a much easier time, and so,
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for me, myself personally, I don't know if I really know the meaning of “hard work”.
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We can follow our passions, but not expected to necessarily be our jobs.
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I went to this talk from this furniture designer, named Martha Sturdy,
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she designs amazing furniture and art.
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And I went to her talk, expecting her to talk about her work.
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But instead, she spent the entire talk talking about courses, which is her true passion.
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And it just made me realize that here is this woman who is incredibly passionate,
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but it wasn't necessarily her work.
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We can follow our passions even if we don't necessarily know what it is yet.
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Juliet Child, this legendary woman who is known for bringing French cuisine to America.
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She didn't know that she'd love to cook. She didn't even know how to cook until while into her mid-40s.
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And we can follow our passions, but we have to remember that passion is a privilege.
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About a year ago, Tarini Fernando, the other co-founder of “Passion Project”, she wrote a blog post about how passion is a privilege.
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And it's something that I've taken with me all of this time. It's a photo from our latest events.
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Uh, so many of us can only follow our passions because maybe our parents worked very hard and
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gave us opportunities that they themselves never had.
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And so we can follow our passions with gratitude.
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Some of you in the room may be wondering what about student loans.
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I have so many bills to pay. Passion is the last thing I'm thinking about.
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I would actually have to argue with you that you've living in one of the best times to follow your passion.
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There's so many examples out there of men and women who were following their passions without even leaving their responsibilities.
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If we look at sites like Etsy, you can sell anything that you make at home online.
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If we look at other websites like Kickstarter,
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men and women start businesses without any money. They just post the idea online,
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and people from around the world donate money to their idea.
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I actually also read an article about a woman who landed her dream internship just by tweeting an executive from a major corporation.
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So there's so many ways and which you can reach out to communities.
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Just from where you are, you don't need to, to fly to New York.
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The biggest lesson I've learnt didn't come from any of my role models.
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They actually came from looking at our project passion framework.
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This um, diagram, was designed by a woman named Jacky Chang. She's an amazing designer,
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and she designed this diagram for us just to explain better to people what we do with the Passion Project.
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And the biggest lesson I've learnt, about following our passions, is that
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it doesn't mean anything to follow passions if it isn't in the service of others.
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And so we need to spend just as much time discovering what our passions are
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as we do understanding the needs in which the communities that we live in.
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And that's where the true potential lies.
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There's a quote by a theologian named Frederic Buechner, who said that
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your vocation is where your passion meets the world's greatest need.
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Your vocation is where your passion meets the world's greatest need.
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I'd like to think of it as simple economics, where your passion is the supply and the world' greatest need is the demand.
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And we need to find that sweet spot, that intersection between the two.
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It's not about choosing our passions or choosing to not follow our passions.
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It's really about marrying our passions to a greater purpose in the communities that we live in.
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As I was writing this talk, I was losing a lot of confidence in what I was saying
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because when I look to all of the people who write amazing career advice out there,
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there are really successful people in this world; there are people who have made it so to speak.
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And who am I to be giving this advice to you when I haven't even made a dent in what I'm supposed to do when I graduate.
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And out of nowhere, I heard Nelson Mandela say
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that quote about how our greatest fear is not that we are inadequate, but that we are powerful beyond measure.
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And then he goes on to say who are you not to be, who are you not to be bold and beautiful.
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And so I turn this question back to you if we go back to the mosaic that I've chosen to represent our generation,
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I want you to imagine that you are one piece in that mosaic,
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one tiny piece and you have the power to change what critics are saying about our generation that's currently called the worst generation for now.
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And I ask you, you little piece of mosaic, you,
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I ask you, who are you not to be, who are you not to choose passionate and purposeful lives.
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And to all of those people who still ask me “Eunice, what are you gonna do when you graduate”,
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I have to tell you that I still have no idea.
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But I do know that I'm going to be passionate about it. Thank you very much.