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Hi. My name is Rebecca from www.engvid.com. In life, as much as we try, we don't always
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do the right thing, right? Sometimes, we do something, and wish afterwards that we hadn't
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done it. And sometimes, we don't do something and wish afterwards that we had done it. Well,
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in English we have some expressions to express these kinds of situation and these kinds of
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feelings that we have when we do and don't do something. All right? So this lesson is
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focused on that. So what we're basically talking about in this lesson is expressing regret.
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Regret is when we feel somewhat unhappy and uncomfortable with something that we did or
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didn't do. So let's get started.
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So the expression you can use to talk about something that you didn't do that you wish
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you had done is, "I wish I had --." Now, you can use this expression to talk about personal
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situations or social situations or business situations. Okay? So you can use it in a professional
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context as well. So these are things that you wish you had done that you didn't do.
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And then on the other side, we'll come to the other part of the equation.
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So for example, you could say, "I wish I had studied harder for my test." Or, "I wish I
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had bought the house last year when it was so much cheaper." Okay? So these are some
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examples in the personal realm. You could say, in a social situation, "I wish I had
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called her last week." "I wish I had gone to the concert." Okay? This means you didn't
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go to the concert, and you're saying you heard it was really good. "I wish I had gone to
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the concert." In a professional context you might say, "I wish I had quoted a better price."
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"I wish I had booked the meeting room earlier." Okay?
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So here, you have some examples. Now, you do see another expression down here. Instead
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of saying, "I wish I had" plus whatever you need to say, you could also use the expression,
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"If only I had --." For example, "If only I had booked the conference room earlier."
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"If only I had quoted a better price." Okay? So you get the idea on this side.
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Now, we come to this side. This is when you did something, and you shouldn't have done
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it, and you wish that you had not done it. So then, you could say, "I wish I hadn't eaten
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so much. I was really trying lose weight. I'm supposed to be on a diet. Why did I eat
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so much? I wish I hadn't eaten so much." Or, "I wish I hadn't waited until now to call
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her." Okay? Another example. "I wish I hadn't trusted him/her." I wish I hadn't invited
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them." Or in a profession situation, "I wish I hadn't agreed to their proposal." "I wish
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I hadn't paid the contractor already." Or, "I wish I hadn't paid the contractor in advance."
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Okay? And again, another way of expressing the same thing is to say, "If only I hadn't
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paid the contractor in advance, we could've found another contractor." "If only I hadn't
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agreed to their proposal, I could have considered your offer." Okay? So you see that you can
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use "I wish I had", "I wish I hadn't", or you can use "if only I had" or "if only I
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hadn't". Okay? And all of these are used to express regret for something you did or something
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you didn't do. And it happens to all of us, so now you know how to express it. Okay? So
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if you'd like to do a quiz on this subject, please go to our website, www.engvid.com.
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That way, you'll have a chance to really master what we've studied here. And also, subscribe
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to my YouTube channel. I'd be happy to see you again. Bye, for now.