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  • Sometimes you just outgrow people.

  • Sometimes you outgrow yourself.

  • Sometimes you outgrow your environment.

  • Sometimes you outgrow who you wanted to be, and sometimes you outgrow who you became.

  • It might have all been positive.

  • You may have come a long way, but sometimes you have toe move on.

  • Sometimes you just outgrow people.

  • You don't need to hate them.

  • You don't need to cut them off.

  • But you do need to distance yourself from them.

  • If you want to live your best life.

  • Maybe that is what is best for them to.

  • That person may have had only good intentions for you.

  • They may have given you everything they could, but sometimes you have to move on.

  • Not in a negative way in a positive way for your growth and for theirs.

  • You should surround yourself with people who are good for your mental health, people who give you energy, not drain it from you.

  • People who like you up, not those who dim your life.

  • People who make you smile when you hear their name or see their call coming in.

  • Those friends who could go days, weeks, months without seeing you.

  • But when they do the bond is still strong because you care for each other, Warren Buffett said.

  • Surround yourself with people who push you to do better.

  • No drama or negativity, just higher goals and higher motivation, good times and positive energy.

  • No jealousy or hate simply bringing out the absolute best in each other.

  • One of the greatest realizations any human can have is the effect people around you have on your life.

  • They say you're the average of the five people you spend the most time with.

  • That doesn't just count in financial terms.

  • It also means energy.

  • You're the average of the positivity or negativity of the five people you spend the most time with.

  • You're the average of the happiness or lack of it.

  • Of the five people you spend the most time with, your the average of the kindness or lack of it.

  • Of the five people you spend the most time with, people can really bless you or mess you up with their energy.

  • You have to be so careful who you allow in your energy space on a consistent basis.

  • So many people think they don't have a choice.

  • You do your energy is your choice you decide who you let in your space, and if you let negative people in, it's always your choice.

  • If you're going to let their negative energy, you have to remember to take care of yourself.

  • Sometimes we get so caught up and worrying about other people that we forget to look after ourselves first.

  • You cannot show up as the best version of you if you're not taking care of you first.

  • And the first step to taking care of you was giving yourself time by yourself.

  • Toe work on yourself.

  • If you're really going to take care of yourself, it's also very important you evaluate your circle.

  • Who are you spending the majority of your time with?

  • Are they making you feel better about yourself or worse?

  • Are they supporting you and the direction you want to go in life or taking you down a path you don't want to travel?

  • Is their behavior aligned with yours?

  • Does it feel better with them or without them?

  • If you've outgrown these people, maybe it's timeto limit your interactions with them and explore what life might be like in a more positive space On Lee, you can decide that and take those steps if you believe it is right for you.

  • But most people don't take that step.

  • The fear of the unknown keeps them locked in a prison of negativity.

  • A gated community of misery and toxic energy.

  • You have to find the courage to free yourself from this prison.

  • You deserve better.

  • But you only get better if you're brave enough to explore life with people who are in alignment with your values.

  • Choose people who choose You.

  • Choose to be the one who lifts others up.

  • Aziz.

  • Well, choose to be the friend, the partner, the person you want most in your own life.

  • Pay attention to the people who care those who are always there.

  • Those who want better for you.

  • Those who share the same values, those air your people.

  • If someone is treating you bad, you have to remember there is something wrong with them, not you.

  • They are the one who needs the work, not you.

  • Good people don't go around putting others down.

  • People who feel good about themselves don't go around putting others down.

  • They just don't, as the saying goes.

  • Life.

  • It's so much simpler when you stop explaining yourself to others and just do what is right for you.

  • Do what is right for you.

  • Because that is what is right for everyone.

  • Trust that when you get to that place where you have no need to impress others or seek validation and just be yourself.

  • That is when your freedom will begin.

  • Yeah.

  • Oh, yeah.

  • Mhm, yeah.

  • Mhm, yeah.

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Sometimes You Outgrow People (Surround Yourself With The Right People)

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    林宜悉 posted on 2020/12/15
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