Subtitles section Play video Print subtitles Listen up, ladies. I am tired of hearing certain things coming out of your beautiful mouth, and I need you to shut up about them forever. One stop saying self deprecating things about yourself. I don't tolerate other people talking shit about my friends. So that includes you talking shit about my friend. So the next time you find yourself saying I am so stupid, I'm just so ugly. I'm just like a horrible person. You better shut that beautiful face and start treating yourself with the same courtesy and respect that you treat everyone else with or else we're going to have a problem. Stop dissing your appearance and your intelligence. Stop dismissing your talents and your achievements and stop putting down and doubting in who you are is a human being because at this point is starting to insult the people who love you. A k a. Me to stop defending the person who hurt you when you are tempted to make excuses for someone else's poor behavior. He was just really stressed. I know, but she doesn't mean it. They were just in a really tough spot. Keep your amazing mouth shut. If someone else treated you badly that's on them. Look, I know you're a compassionate goddess with really emotional intelligence and therefore understand that this person hurting you is just attempt for that person to dissolve their own her and our projection of their pain on to you as a human being. But that doesn't excuse the fact that they hurt you. Everyone gets to make their own choices, and it's time to stop bending over backwards to accommodate those who have made the choice that you're not worth it to them. Because at this point it's insulting to people who love you, aka you three stopping judgmental about other women for the sake of your egos, love of drama and chaos. We do not need women policing, putting down or punishing other women. As long as the woman in question is not harming others or herself, we should not be passing judgment on her actions. So put your perfectly glossed lips together and keep them that way unless you're going to give this woman. Ah, yes, I'm Anaconda. Thank you for coming to my Ted talk and thank you to square space for sponsoring today's video. Squarespace is an all in one platform to build a beautiful online presence and run your business, complete with marketing tools and analytics to have your website or online store be the best she can be. For those of you who love to create audio content, you can use audio blocks, which allows you to embed audio on your site and tag the audio for iTunes. When your audio block is placed in a blogged plus, you can have multiple contributors receive selective access to your sites. Website manager. And don't worry, you own all the content that you put on the square space platform. They offer one click data portability. You could go to squarespace. Com for a free trial. Whenever you're ready to launch, just go to squarespace dot com slash anna to save 10% off your first purchase of a website or domain Squarespace. They're not British.