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Now I know small talk is really, really horrible.
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Even British people are kind of afraid of it, but we feel like we have to do it.
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So today we're going to really focus on some questions.
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You can ask people when you're in a small talk conversation on these are all related to the topic off work.
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Uh huh.
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One of the easiest things to talk about is your job, your work, your career, your studies.
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Along with travel.
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I think those are the most common small talk conversations.
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So today I just have some really simple questions that you can ask people in a small talk conversation.
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So hopefully make it a little bit easier for you.
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And then we get talking.
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Let's say we're talking with this person.
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We've build up a bit of a report.
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Now what we want to do is keep them talking.
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Maybe they've mentioned their career.
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Maybe you want to ask them what they do.
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Easy question.
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What do you dio?
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Let's say this person is a lady on, she says.
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She's a doctor.
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After she said that she's a doctor, she may then ask you, What about you?
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This phrase is extremely useful, and you can use it yourself in small talk.
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Essentially, what this question does is it turns the question back on the person who asked you that question.
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So they're asking you now.
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What do you do?
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Well, then you answer the question.
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Maybe then you want to ask more questions.
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So why not this one?
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How long have you been doing that for?
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So this is a way to open up the conversation.
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How long have they been doing it for?
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It shows that you're interested in what they're talking about.
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A something I always recommend during small talk is too react to everything they say.
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So, for example, if they say, Oh, I've been doing it for about 10 years, respond with her.
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Oh, wow.
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Really nice little words like this.
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Just show a reaction.
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And then maybe you can follow up with another question.
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For example, how did you get into that?
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How did you get into that?
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This essentially means How did you start that job?
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What made you want to do that job?
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Now, if they're a talkative person, this is definitely a way to get someone to talk for quite a long time.
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Do you think you'll stick with it forever?
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Do you think you'll stick with it forever?
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To stick with something means to stay with stick, like when we have glue and we stick things together.
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Stick with it.
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Well, that simply means Do you think you'll stay in this job forever?
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Really, it's a yes, no question.
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But in small talk, they might explain why a lot of the time with do you questions, we use the weak forms off do and you.
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The reason why is because do and you are what we would call function words.
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They're not really very important in this sentence.
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So we replaced the vows with a Schwab sound.
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Do you think, Do you think?
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Do you think this makes you sound a little bit more like a native?
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You'll also notice I'm dropping the T on it with it forever.
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That's just a common native thing to do.
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You could say, Do you think you'll stick with it forever?
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It's entirely up to you what you want to do, that it's just my native way off.
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Pronouncing it.
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I like to drop teas at the end of words sometimes.
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Okay.
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Have you always worked there.
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Have you always worked there?
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And that simply is a way of asking someone if they've done any other jobs in the past, maybe what?
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Their first job?
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Waas.
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Let's talk about the sound.
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What's that?
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That's what we call the Constant Cluster, the K and the T combination at the end, Off worked.
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Okay, I hear lots of different variations of this from my students taking my pronunciation course on.
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And I actually did just add a new video to my pronunciation course.
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All about these constant clusters with, you know, things like tests on things like that, right?
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All of these sounds that happen at the end there really difficult.
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Now, this one is a very common one.
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Worked.
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We need to create pressure to create that sound on.
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Then we need to very quickly release that sound to spit that.
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Okay, so now when we create the sound, our tongue is up high.
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It's kind of bent on the back, is touching the top.
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So what we quickly need to do is a soon as we create that sound, the tongue needs to flick the front to the roof of your mouth, and we create that.
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But worked, worked.
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Their response might just be No.
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Hopefully they'll say No, I actually did this job before, but if they don't do that, then say All right.
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Well, what else did you do before this job?
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Okay, so always be ready toe, ask more questions.
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If they say no, why did they say no?
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If they said yes, why did they say yes?
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On also, is there anything you can agree with or relate to that they're saying Maybe you've had a similar situation toe what they're talking about?
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We'll tell them they want to know.
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So don't be afraid to talk about things which are similar in your life to what they're saying.
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Anyway.
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That's it for today's video.
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Like I said, I do have a pronunciation course which has over 100 people.
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It's doing really well.
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I've had some great feedback.
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So if you want to join the course and also have the bonus of talking to me on WhatsApp with voice recordings, then I hope to see you soon.
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You could go to e.
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T.
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J english dot com and start learning perfect British pronunciation right now.
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You might have noticed that this video is available on a Friday.
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That's right.
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I have now changed my days.
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I release YouTube videos every Friday.
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Now, just because I like Fridays, is that okay?
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Anyway, thanks again.
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I will see you next week.
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Cheers, guys.
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Bye.