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  • Human interpersonal touch is crucial. It's social glue.

  • I think we underestimate how important touch actually is

  • in our social interaction.

  • Human touch is key to our survival. It's in our DNA.

  • Touch is deeply under-researched.

  • There are probably 100 papers on vision for every one on touch.

  • We tend to take touch for granted.

  • Touch relies literally on the whole of our skin.

  • It's the organ of touch.

  • But what happens when we touch other people?

  • And why is that special?

  • Touching other people is processed by the brain with different mechanisms.

  • We discovered very late - only in the 1990s -

  • that in humans we have a specialised set of cells in the skin,

  • which then travel with specialised pathways

  • to particular parts of the brain.

  • And this system is called the C-Tactile System.

  • The hand strokes parting the fur

  • sends this signal to the brain saying,

  • "You're in close physical contact with your best friend here."

  • And what that does in the brain is trigger the endorphin system.

  • We feel very relaxed, and - particularly important -

  • trusting in the person we're doing this activity with.

  • And that creates this sense of friendship.

  • Light, slow, stroking at exactly 2.5cm a second.

  • This is the caress that we are hard-wired to like.

  • It's comforting!

  • What happens here then?

  • So the cuddle sessions take place at one of the pods.

  • Cuddle therapy involves hugs, stroking, squeezes -

  • all sorts of forms of platonic touch.

  • It's a very simple practice.

  • Yet it can actually have rather powerful effects on people.

  • It can stabilise their heart rate. It can improve their weight gain.

  • And some studies for low birth weight babies

  • even suggest that the time they stay in hospital

  • can be reduced if they have lots of touch stimulation.

  • It's really forming the first part of social bonding.

  • Which is why I say if you really want to know how somebody feels about you,

  • don't listen to what they tell you, just feel how they touch you.

  • If we have a situation where we're not able to touch the people

  • in our daily lives that we normally touch,

  • it's not like everything is going to fall apart instantly.

  • But our feelings of connection, of empathy, of trust

  • will slowly degrade.

  • Anybody who I care about, you get a hug.

  • So my biggest struggle is not being able to hug my mum, to wash her hair,

  • to do all the things that we do bonding - paint her nails,

  • I do her feet for her. That one broke my heart.

  • Still when I think about it, I could cry.

  • If you deprive an animal of touch, the animals become literally sick

  • both in the mind - they develop a lot of anxiety -

  • and also they live less, and they're less healthy in the long term.

  • The whole social concept of touch is really changing in society.

  • Does it feel like the pupils are learning not to touch?

  • It does feel a little bit like that,

  • which is sad.

  • When people during lockdown were exposed to films

  • where there was natural touch, people had a jump.

  • They started talking to the TV, "No, you can't do that!"

  • So that's a good sign of how quickly we learn to inhibit ourselves.

  • I don't think you'll see people interacting in the same way

  • that we did before the pandemic.

  • I find it very unlikely that we would ever lose

  • the sense of importance of touch.

  • You should never say never, when it comes to evolution.

  • But it will all depend on whether other forms of behaviour

  • that allow us to trigger the endorphin system in the brain

  • to create friendships, really start to work better

  • or more efficiently than physical touch.

  • And I suspect that's unlikely

  • unless we give up all notion of having romantic relationships.

  • I think the future should be hugs - all day.

  • All day, every day.

Human interpersonal touch is crucial. It's social glue.

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What happens to humans when we can't touch? | BBC Ideas

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    Summer   posted on 2020/10/13

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