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Wayne Dyer once said, You cannot be lonely if you like the person you are alone with.
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If you love who you are, if you are at peace with who you are.
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If you know that you are not in this world to live upto others expectations and societies judgments, then you don't need others to fill a void because there is no void to feel they might say, You need friends to be complete, you need to get out more.
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You need to be more social.
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People who say this are almost always the same people who cannot sit alone by themselves for even one minute without feeling lonely because they can't stand their own company.
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The same people who can't sit alone for one minute without being bored without picking up their phone and doing something to get a dopamine hit of attention.
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Sending a message, posted something on social media checking their inbox or how Maney likes they have.
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I don't know about you, but I'd prefer to live in peace with who I am, rather than be addicted to needed attention, to feel a sense of self worth.
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Let's be clear.
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There is nothing wrong with being around Others are spending time with friends.
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The more time you can spend with people you love being around the better people who get you.
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People who are in sync with you, people that are easy to be around, people who make conversation easy, effortless, fun.
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What I am saying here is that the goal is getting where you don't need to be around others.
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For your completion, you enjoy the company of others.
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But you enjoy being alone Justus much.
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When you get to that place, that is magic.
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Those who can fly alone have the strongest wings.
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Those who can walk along have the strongest direction.
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Those who can be alone and remain in peace are those who will always be okay with or without company, with or without attention.
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So love.
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Others enjoy great people and great company.