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One of the things that we all get frustrated over is repeating the same mistakes over and
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over. Whenever we step on the same rake, we promise
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ourselves that this the last time and we will never do it again. The next morning you wake
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up as if nothing wrong has happened and in a few days, weeks if not hours you find yourself
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going down that road again. That doesn't happen by chance. There is
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a reasonable explanation behind it since it happens to every other person.
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In fact, we are making the same mistakes that we have made for thousands of years and for
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some weird reason we never learn. So in this video, we are going to do something revolutionary
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and try to understand that mysterious reason (hopefully).
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The problem is that we like to think of ourselves as intelligent, logical creatures, but unfortunately,
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we aren't, because our emotions are dominant when it comes to making decisions.
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When you are resentful towards your spouse, for example, you remember everything she did
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to offend you or disappoint you since the day you know each other. On the opposite side,
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you will only recall nice things about her when you feel loved. Remember the times when
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you were depressed; you tend to think of just sad things. When you are excited and happy,
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you think entirely of the good moments, because our emotions are much more powerful than we
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think. So if you have promised yourself not to use
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that credit card again, you might very much do it again to indulge yourself if you are
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feeling sad or depressed. On the other hand, you might overeat candies if you are under
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stress. Rationally, you shouldn't have ate that
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since you are overweighted. However, your emotions lead you to take an entirely different
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action. They key here is obvious, you should never
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let your emotions get in the way of your logic. It's, by all means, isn't easy especially
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when you are angry and frustrated. But believe it or not, with some practice it's entirely
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possible to keep your feelings under control.
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However, we also repeat the same mistakes because we have done them so many times so
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that they have become part of our identity and getting rid of them isn't easy.
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Don't be surprised when you promise yourself not to smoke again but then you end up having
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that cigar. By our nature we love routines. Because thinking requires much energy, so
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your brain automates a lot of your daily activities such as every time you wake up, you directly
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go and brush your teeth. So you grab that cigarette not only because
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your emotions are pushing you but also because your brain sends a trigger to smoke every
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time you get out of the house. And getting rid of bad habits or transforming
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them into good habits is something we have discussed in previews videos which links I
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will leave in the description.
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Of course, you should n't focus too much on your past mistakes, because whatever happened
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has already happened and there is no way you can change that. However, as a wise man once
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said, don't fall into the same trap twice. So it's important to look back and learn from
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your mistakes but never get obsessed about them.
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But instead, do yourself a favor and learn something new that will outshine your mistakes
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such as this course that will teach you to turn your passion into a sustainable business.
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I have partnered with Skillshare and created this course for you and guess what, not only
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that this course is practical and helpful, but rather it's also complete animated like
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this video. I don't want you to spend your entire life doing one thing and then figuring
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out that you could have been much more successful if you had followed your passion back then
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when you were younger. The first 200 people who will use the link
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in the description will get the course for free!
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So follow your passion, keep making money and never repeat the same mistakes over and
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over!
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Thanks for watching and I will catch you in the next one.