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  • If you could teach guys like one thing or two things about women, what would it be?

  • What would you tell them?

  • Don't chase, Don't chase.

  • And don't be afraid of rejection.

  • You know, don't be afraid of rejection.

  • Um, my, I guess like my strategy in college would be every time I would see a cockerel just go up and talk to her.

  • I didn't care within a fuck grocery store if it was in a library.

  • Like if I saw a girl that I found attractive, I would just go talk to her and I wouldn't go up and say, Oh, I think you're beautiful in all that cheesy bullshit, I would just go talk to her about whatever.

  • Like, didn't matter.

  • Just have a conversation with her.

  • See where we went.

  • You know something?

  • I didn't go anywhere.

  • Somebody wouldn't want to give you the time of day.

  • Sometimes you have a casual conversation lead nowhere, but at the end of the day, because I did that, it would just make me more comfortable talking to girls.

  • And it was just kind of a numbers game.

  • So I had, you know, pretty great success.

  • And, you know, I always use the example of my one buddy was like, real conservative, who on Lee talked to a girl that he knew, like, really liked him and, you know, So maybe he would, like, talk to two girls, and I would sleep with both of those girls and I would talk to 100 girls and maybe I'd sleep with four of them, but at the end of the day, like he's batting 1000.

  • But I'm still fucking twice a many girls.

  • So is like one of those things where, um I just, you know, just put in the time and I would just interact with sons of girls And, um, now I realize that a better strategy, if you can do it.

  • A lot of guys don't have their life set up to do.

  • It is set up your life to where the girls have to come to you, and so you don't have to pursue them when you don't have to pursue them.

  • Like I said earlier, you know, just the dynamic is different when they're chasing you as opposed to you chasing them.

  • And everyone has more fun.

  • Yeah, I mean, it's, you know, it's better for the girl, cause then when she finally sees you, she feels she accomplished something.

  • Um and you know, she's, like, kind of work for us to shoot a little bit invested.

  • And if you hook up with her, it's because you know, you've chosen there, go with her and not because you were chasing something s So I think it's better for both people.

  • Actually, Do you think we'll see more like Dan Bilzerian type scenarios in the future where you know there's a guy and lots of women?

  • Yeah.

  • I mean, I think there's a lot of people that are, like trying to, like, copy what I'm doing.

  • I don't know how effective they're gonna be at it, but, um, you know, there's, what, eight million people in the world I'm sure somebody will to put off at some point.

  • Um, it's not easy.

  • Um, I mean, I'm in a very lucky situation.

  • Um, I said lucky not because, like, I didn't work hard to get where I'm at because there's just definitely a degree in luck in super successful people.

  • I mean, you have to be at the right type, right time, the right place and then figure out a way to capitalize on that.

  • A lot of people are given opportunity, and they squander it.

  • Um, but, you know, poker, for instance.

  • Like, I got in in the poker at the right time, the right time, the right place.

  • And I put in the fucking hours, and you know that 10,000 hours theory I log might tend out than ours.

  • I've paid my dues playing 18 hours a day fucking 67 days a week, pissing on the laptop, one playing 10 fucking table at this time and, you know, doing all that.

  • And Ah, and it paid off, you know, you know, is there is a grind, and it sucks.

  • But then I made a bunch of money and, you know, I used that money to, you know, higher bunch of staff.

  • And now I've got no, I think I would 90 something people working for me.

  • So, you know, I don't have to spend any time going grocery shopping.

  • I don't make my bed and wash my clothes.

  • I don't do any of that stuff.

  • So all the time that I spend is on business or hanging out with girls, your hand with friends or traveling or doing things that I want to do.

  • So I really don't spend any time doing things that I don't want to dio.

  • And so I would say that I've lived like 10 lifetimes at least like a normal person.

  • Just because I haven't like if you look at a known person, they spend 40 hours a week working plus the commute and this and that, and so of their usable time.

  • You subtract out the eight hours a day that they sleep, take a shower and take a shit and brush your teeth like all this stuff that, like they have to dio, right?

  • Like how much of their day is actually usable?

  • And then of that day, like, how much of that are they spending going toe work, doing something that isn't anything they really want to do, Like they're sorting mail they're in.

  • TPS reports that they're fucking flipping burgers or whatever it is, but it's like something that's not contributing to the life.

  • It all and everything that I'm doing is something that, like I want to dio, is interesting to me and that's contributing my life and, you know, and, uh and then learning something from it or whatever, even even with girls.

  • And then every time you interact with girl, you learn something.

  • You figure out more psychology, understand why they do.

  • Because like, it makes sense that girls just want to do what they're not supposed to do.

  • Like, I feel like they kind of like, get off on that.

  • So if you understand that premise and then like the whole competitive piece of it, like the stuff they do, it makes sense if you like, understand all that stuff, um, still surprising somebody have you keep them all happy.

  • You must have.

  • That's hard.

  • Actually, that that is actually probably like the most difficult piece of this because yeah, I mean, it's yeah.

  • I mean, you gotta, like, sleep with all these girls.

  • If you don't, then, like, they get, you know, like upset.

  • So there's like, a definitely a big sexual obligation.

  • I would say, Um but you have, like, if if it is, I don't know, it's like, scary.

  • We go off on the standard for a while, but you know, the girls, I guess I think it's like 2 to 3 months, and then they usually just like all get too attached.

  • They can't deal with the situation.

  • But up into that point, you know, you have to kind of like, you can't spend too much time with a girl, because then that will accelerate that situation.

  • Then she'll get to the point where you know, she's just too invested, and she can't deal with the other girls.

  • So you have to spend, like, a somewhat limited amount of time with them.

  • But enough time that they're, like, happy, right?

  • And then you have to keep the rotation so that if you know some of them leave, it doesn't matter.

  • And because you're okay with letting them leave and they can date other guys and they could do whatever they want, it makes them not necessarily want to do that as much as if you told them not to.

  • And you tried to control them.

  • Um, so it's a whole crazy dynamic.

  • I know.

  • It's pretty much like uncharted territory.

  • As is talking to this girl about this last night.

  • Um, you should write a book about this.

  • Yeah.

  • Yeah, other rules.

  • The rule is honesty.

  • That's my one rule.

  • It's like you have to be honest with me, and I'll be honest that you can lie to your boyfriend Egalite, whoever the fuck you want, your friends, I don't care.

  • But you have to be honest with me, And I will be honesty.

  • That's pretty much my one rule.

  • So if she asked me a question, I'm just gonna tell her the answer.

  • And, you know, tell her, you know, you know what's scary answers?

  • Don't ask any questions, but I'm gonna tell you the truth.

  • So and I think because of that, um, it's it's weird.

  • I mean, I think they're so unused to that, that when they asked you a question, you know, like, Oh, like, how many girls have you hooked up with this week and you tell them the truth?

  • Like at first it just like what the flock, and then a part of them is kind of like a little bit relieved because of, like, fuck, because guys like gonna be honest with me like Aiken, ask him.

  • Any question is gonna tell me the truth.

  • And I think I was like, really rare like, I don't think there's many people that are being honest, like in L.

  • A Now they have this whole sugar daddy thing.

  • We're like the guys got five girlfriends and the girls get like, multiple boyfriends.

  • She's got, like, four dudes paying the same bills.

  • So it's like if she gets a more expensive apartment just being that she just made three times more income because four guys were paying for that same apartment energy needs is like a whole crazy thing.

  • And they're all lying to each other.

  • And it's this whole nutty situation.

  • Um, but yeah, I think the rarest thing is the honesty.

  • And I would I think the reason the girls were okay with it because a lot of people ask that, like, Why the girls were okay with it is because of the honesty because and I would choose it.

  • Two.

  • I would choose honesty over the, you know, possible illusion or the you know, the the hope of monogamy.

  • And I mean because they asked me a question.

  • They know I'm gonna tell him the truth.

  • So I think there's more value in that than in the pretense of like, you know, I think this guy's monogamous, but I don't know.

  • I'm going to try and catch him cheating, and I always have in the back of my mind, like, you know, is he doing that?

  • And then two years down the line, they find out that the guy has been cheating on the whole time, and then they end up like an emotional wreck and, you know, they've been deceived.

  • And they have all this animosity I never really have, like any bad breakup or any, like, you know, negative fallouts of girls like yeah, sometimes.

  • Like they'll implode and they get upset like I never lied to them and they never, like, got swindled or, like, sold a bill of goods.

  • So there's never usually, like, any animosity at all.

  • I think that's kind of a cool thing way.

If you could teach guys like one thing or two things about women, what would it be?

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"LET THEM COME TO YOU": Why Dan Bilzerian's Number One Rule Is To Not Chase The Women In His Life

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    林宜悉 posted on 2020/08/23
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