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Our first guest is an Emmy and Peabody
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award winning journalist, but most importantly, he's
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a brand new daddy.
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Please welcome Anderson Cooper.
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Hey, how's it going?
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Woo!
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Yay!
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Anderson Cooper, yay!
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Good.
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How are you, Anderson?
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I am great.
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I'm sort of blissfully happy.
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Yeah, I'm great.
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I can't stop smiling.
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Yeah.
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You did, you know, a lot of people
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are rescuing, adopting puppies during this time,
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and you decided no, I'm going to get myself a baby.
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Yeah, the shelter was all out of puppies,
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so I took the extra step.
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Yeah.
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No, I knew I wanted to have a family of my own
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forever and have kids.
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I love kids, and yeah, I never thought it'd be possible,
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and it's just yeah, it's just incredible.
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I apologize, I actually, he just like burped up on me,
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and I just noticed that I have a stain of milk on my shirt,
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so sorry.
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I should've changed.
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That's all right.
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I barely see it, and everything is allowed during this time.
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There it is.
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Yep, it's Wyatt's DNA.
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There's one over here, yeah.
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So anyway.
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So this is interesting.
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Obviously that you've been planning
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this for at least nine months, but the timing
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of this that it happened during this is crazy,
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but then it's also in a way beautiful,
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because you get to be home with him all the time now.
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It is.
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Yeah, I mean, it's extraordinary.
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And you know, I actually was going into work up until about
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a week, about a couple days before he was born,
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so I was still going to my office.
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I was pretty much kind of one of the only people in the office,
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because everybody else was working from home.
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But yeah, but now I'm working from home,
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and it's just amazing.
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I mean, it's been--
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to spend, I spend hours.
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You know how sometimes like, I don't know, in the past
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I'd be on Instagram, and suddenly like hours
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would go by and be like, oh my God,
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I'm never going to get those hours of my life back.
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I don't even check that anymore.
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I just like stare at him, and I can watch him for hours,
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and hours, and hours, do nothing, and it's amazing.
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Aww, that's really sweet.
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I know.
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I bet.
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I'm sure.
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And especially when he smiles like that,
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you wonder like, what--
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they say it's gas, but it can't be.
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There must be something in that little head.
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I don't know.
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I mean, he definitely is dreaming,
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because he goes through a whole range of emotions on his face
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while he's sleeping.
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It's really, I mean, it's better than Netflix.
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It's better than, like there's no point in streaming,
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I can just sit there and stream him.
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I just watch him all the time.
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And now I have like a monitor where
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I can watch him on my phone, which is just obsessive.
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Yeah.
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I get it.
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I totally get it.
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I mean, I feel like that about my dogs and my cats,
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so I'm sure a human thing is actually
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probably more interesting.
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But--
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Well, your dogs and cats are probably doing more.
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Right now, he's just kind of sleeping, and pooping,
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and eating, but it's pretty fun.
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But then every single day, and I know Andy Cohen is your friend,
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so you probably have been watching his baby, you know,
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change every single day.
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And that's the beauty is that every single day there's
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a new little thing.
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Yeah, I mean he's, you know, he's not even a month old.
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I mean, he's just a little bit more than a week
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old or two weeks old, and yeah.
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He's already changed so much, and like
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he got a little baby acne today, and I didn't even
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know that was the thing.
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I had to Google it, and apparently it is a thing,
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and it goes away, but yeah.
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Every day is different.
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And like he's already focusing more his eyes,
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and it's yeah, so extraordinary.
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I mean, I know everybody always says this
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and how it changes everything, and I hate to be so cliche,
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but it's yeah.
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It's just astonishing.
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That's the word I keep using, astonishing.
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I'm completely astonished.
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I'm so happy for you, and I'm going
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to send you some Proactiv.
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[LAUGHTER]
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That'll clear that right up.
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I hear, I think it's a little [INAUDIBLE] maybe,
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but you know.
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Well, I don't know.
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Not really.
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[LAUGHTER]
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So this is kind of a silly question,
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because I think I know the answer,
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but bringing a baby into the world during this time.
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Well, I'll let you just say what you think.
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You know, it's scary.
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I mean, look, I certainly didn't plan, you know,
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who knew that there would be this pandemic at this time,
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and obviously, you know, I've actually
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reported about pandemics for quite a long time.
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You know, years, and years, and years ago,
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and years before this, so obviously it's
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always a possibility and something that we should've
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been better prepared for, but you know, it is what it is,
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and people throughout millennia have raised kids
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in difficult times, in difficult circumstances,
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and you know, I think life continues.
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And even when there is sadness and suffering,
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there is also joy and beauty.
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And I think it's important to be able to recognize both and live
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in a world that has both of those extremes
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and to be able to function in that world, and you know,
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my mom died this past June.
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Yeah.
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Sorry about that.
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Yeah, but in, you know, in one year
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to have this incredible juxtaposition of my mom's life
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ending and and, you know, her grandson's life beginning,
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it's just extraordinary.
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And that's what, so Wyatt the name comes from your family,
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right?
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Yeah.
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Tell me the whole--
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Yeah, so my dad's name was Wyatt Cooper,
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and he was from Mississippi, grew up poor on a farm,
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and he died when I was 10 years old,
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but he was an incredible parent and very,
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I mean, he always wanted to have kids,
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and he wrote a book actually about my family and his family
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in the south, and he wrote it as sort of a letter
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to my brother and I, because I think
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he kind of knew he might not be around,
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because he had heart disease.
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And so that letter has sort of been like a guidepost for me
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for much my life.
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I read it probably once or twice a year I read that book.
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So I always knew if I had a son, I would name from Wyatt,
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and Morgan is Wyatt's middle name,
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and that is my mom's grandmother's married name.
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My mom's mom's, my grandmother's, maiden name.
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And so I wanted something from my mom and yeah.
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And Morgan, also I found--
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I've been going through my mom's stuff
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and organizing it in boxes over this past couple months--
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and I found this list, a handwritten list in pencil
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that she and my dad had made of possible names for me
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before I was born, and Morgan was on the list,
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so I knew that they liked that name.
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So I thought, OK, let's do that.
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That's great.
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That's a great name too.
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Wyatt Morgan.
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Let's take a break.
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Andy.
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Yep.
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Take a break.
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All right.
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Andy is in the yard, and he's telling me to take a break,
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so I'll do that.
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You know, I haven't seen you.
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You have been on the show in 10 years.
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I can't believe that.
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I know.
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Was it cause I didn't dance last time?
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I think maybe that's it.
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I--
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I think we didn't invite you back because you didn't dance.
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That's exactly why.
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But you know what?
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I actually did you a favor, because it's painful.
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[LAUGHTER]
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I would like to see it one day actually.
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I bet now you will dance.
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Having a son will make you dance.
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Yeah.
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But here you are talking about your son, your brand new baby,
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and your openly gay now.
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You were not out at the time, and I
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remember having a conversation with you about that.
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I don't know if you remember that, but we did talk about it,
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and I'm really happy that because you came out,
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and it's a freeing thing.
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Yeah.
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Well, I mean, you know, I'd always been--
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you know, I came out in high school
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to my friends, and my family, and stuff,
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and was open at work, but just yes, in a public way I was not.
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I hadn't made a statement about it, and you know,
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I never said I wasn't gay or tried to hide it or pretend
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anything else.
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I just didn't want to talk about it.
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But you know, it got to the point
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my life where not saying something
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seemed like I was saying something.
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By not saying something, that seemed
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like I was indicating that I was somehow ashamed of something
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or you know, not happy being gay,
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and the complete opposite has always been the case.
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And so you know, I consider it, along with Wyatt,
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one of the great blessings of my life to be gay.
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And so I felt bad that by not saying something
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I seemed to be saying something.
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So even though I'm kind of painfully shy and introverted
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and stuff, I thought, OK, well, I want to say something,
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and so I did, and you know, I couldn't be happier.
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I mean, even though you think you're out,
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and even though you think everybody knows, and it
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doesn't matter, it does matter.
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And it makes a difference, and it's important to say.
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I think it's important for me to have said the word gay,
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that I'm gay, and I'm proud of it.
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It's fantastic, and it's--
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Well, it's important for people to see somebody
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and to be represented, you know?
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I think there are a lot of people out there
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that don't feel like they're represented enough
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on television, and so that's, to me, the reason to do it.
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But I've got to say, I remember being--
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I think it was like 1992 or maybe '93 in Los Angeles,
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and there was a big event, an event for equality,
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and you spoke at it, and I was in the audience,
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and there was like there were thousands
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people in the audience, and I just
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remember it being such this incredible thing when
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you came out on stage, and I just felt so proud of you,
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and I mean, as I still to this day
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do when I see you in all that you've achieved.
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So you know, I was late to--
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I wish I'd done it sooner, because it's just you know,