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On a normal day
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I'm usually getting up,
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and getting the kids ready
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for school,
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heading to work…
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I work in marketing:
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the kids are getting a bit older:
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I've decided to do more
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hours so I've taken on
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a new job at work which
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is an events manager job,
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but at the moment
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I'm doing two jobs.
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It's almost like I'm
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being three people in one day:
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I'm the employee
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one minute, I'm the Mum when
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I get home
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and I'm a student in the evening.
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I'm studying English language
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and literature degree.
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I was 24
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when I decided to do distance learning,
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I was pregnant and
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I'd been made redundant.
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I've been studying for nearly six
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years now.
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I'm really lucky to have
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an incredibly supportive husband.
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He comes home in the evening,
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he knows that I'm studying,
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so he'll go in the kitchen
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and clean up.
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He's always tried
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to say to me, you know,
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'Keep going. Keep doing it.
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You're doing the right thing.
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During my - what
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would have been my second or third year -
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I was pregnant, and I just
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found that I was falling asleep
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a lot while I was trying to study
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in the evenings.
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I had one day
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where my dad
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would take Josie, the eldest,
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just for a walk for me
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and I would
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sit there and read, so I had
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that time then during the day
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as well.
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Around two years ago,
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my kids were obviously
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one and three years old,
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my husband was working
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nights.
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It was a really difficult time
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just to find the time to study.
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When I was struggling,
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I had to ask for some extensions
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and I contacted my tutor,
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who was really good at just saying
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I can have an extra week here,
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an extra week there where I needed
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and you know, they were
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really good at supporting that
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I think the first year,
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in terms of motivation,
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was easy but then as it's gone harder,
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it's been harder to stay motivated.
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One of the best things to do
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I've found to turn it around
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is to focus on aspects
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that you can find interesting.
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My advice to somebody
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who's maybe struggling
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with motivation would be that,
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you know, the end is in sight.
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Think about what - how good
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it'll feel when you finish, because
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that's certainly what drives me through.
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One of the key drivers for me
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when I started the degree was that
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I wanted to be a role
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model to my children.
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You know, I wanted to be able
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to kind of come out at the end of
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it and say "Mummy's got a degree,
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look what I've done and
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look at how I've achieved it."
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My advice to a busy mum
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who's thinking about distance learning
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would be that, if you want
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to do it, you can find the time for it.
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Often at big birthdays
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I suppose there's a sense of reflection
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of kind of what you've
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achieved, and there's a huge sense
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of achievement for me turning 30.
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So much has happened in
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those six years that I've
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been doing it, but it's been great:
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I've not regretted one moment of it now.
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I feel like I'm a different person
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now than I was then.
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Things have been constantly changing,
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constantly moving, and I just hope that,
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you know, over the next six years,
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even though I'm not going to do
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another degree, I hope that
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I can achieve as much over the next period
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as what I've done in this period.
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Go the distance.