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Hello and welcome back to English with Lucy. I'm with Anna today from English like a Native
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Hi my name is Anna and some of you might know me from English like a native which is kind
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of similar but not as glamorous as Lucy's channel.Oh it's pretty glamorous.
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Definitely check out Anna's channel she makes some fantastic videos all about the English
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language and if you like this channel I'm sure you will really like hers.
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Firstly, before we get started I would just like to remind you that if you really want
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to take your English to the next level then you should use the website called italki.
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And this is a platform where you can connect with professional qualified and native teachers
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and improve your spoken english with them. So I've got a present for you so if you click
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on the link in the description box your account will be credited with 100 italki credits which
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is around 10 dollars as soon as you make your first purchase. So check that out and let
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me know how you find it. So today we are going to be talking about
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how to give compliments. We are filming 2 videos. The first one is here on my channel
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and the second one will be on Anna's on my channel. You can go straight to her channel
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as soon as you've finished this one. Here we are going to be talking about things that
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you should say. And then we're going to be talking about things that you shouldn't say
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when you're complimenting someone. So both very important videos so stay tuned. Ok so
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firstly let's talk about some adjectives that we can use to compliment people. Compliment
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the way they look exactly. So the first one is pretty. You're very pretty. So are you.
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And pretty should be used generally towards women. If you want to compliment a man on
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the other hand you can use handsome. I know lots of handsome men. I don't know any maybe
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you can introduce me. So another word you can use to compliment a man or a woman would
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be beautiful. Yes that can go for both can't it yeah. Really nice word. And then we have
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gorgeous and gorgeous just means ah so attractive so if someone is gorgeous it means they are
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really really nice. And then we have stunning, So if someone stuns you with how beautiful
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they are then you would call them stunning. And then the last on breathtaking. so they
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take your breath away with their beauty. they are just so amazing. i can't breathe you're
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so handsome. One thing that I often hear my students use incorrectly is you look and you
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look like. I would say you look plus adjective and you look like plus noun. So I might say
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you look like Angelina Jolie. Funny you should say that! Or Anna you look beautiful or you
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look stunning. So make sure that you're very careful when differentiating between you look
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and you look like. So now we are going to give some examples of some nice ways of complimenting
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people. Something that I always think is nice is noticing a change. So if someone's made
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an extra effort with what they're wearing yeah or their hair yeah it's nice to say something
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about it. Or if they've had their teeth whitened perhaps. Wow! You have amazing teeth! Um ok
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so an example would be Anna I love what you've done with your hair. Oh, I've just had it
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cut thank you so much Lucy! I love that top is that new? Thank you it is! It really brings
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out the colour of your eyes! Ah, it's always good to compliment the eyes, when in doubt
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talk about the eyes! You could also talk about something that's not related to the way they
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look. Yeah, it's always really nice to compliment the way a person is. I appreciate compliments
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about personality more than I do about looks. So if I were to say maybe Anna I find you
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really easy to be around or I find you really funny, I think that's a much nicer compliment
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than just you look nice. Yes definitely I think I would definitely hold on to a compliment
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like that than someone just saying you look pretty. It's really nice when someone says
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something that they've obviously spent some time thinking about. Like I really like that
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little line on your face when you smile. I like things like that. I really like your
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dimples. Ok so those were some helpful tips on how to compliment people in English. Remember
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it's very important to differentiate between you look and you look like. Remember Anna
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looks beautiful and she looks like a potato! Sorry, she looks like Angelina Jolie. Make
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sure you use the correct adjective. Be careful when calling men pretty and women handsome,
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they might get offended. You should generally call women pretty and men handsome. Another
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thing is to try and be specific. People will always appreciate a specific comment more
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than a generic comment. Definitely yep. Try and make an effort to compliment things other
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than just appearance. Normally people are much more flattered by a compliment about
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something they've done or their personality rather than their appearance. Or something
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they've chosen. Something they've had an effect on. Ok so that's it for today. Now you need
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to head over to Anna's channel to watch the second part of this video. Which is very important
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it's about what not to say when you're trying to compliment someone. So if you don't want
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to offend us you need to watch that video. Don't forget to connect with me on all of
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my social media which is right above Anna here and I'll see you for another English
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lesson very very soon. Mwah! The word pretty. Ayyyy. Hansome men recent Lucy. Aaah why is
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my mouth not working? Now one thing that I often hear. Often! Very posh! Now...now one
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thing that I Um..oh...compliment me bitch!! Or I really like. Oh my god! It's like word
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vomit! It's like all the compliments I've ever wanted to hear just coming out!