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  • hi there's like to go fans here's to

  • wishing you continue your journey with

  • us into 2020 we excite to go look

  • forward to your continued love and

  • support so let's begin respect is one of

  • the things in life where it must be

  • earned through our actions

  • we're also taught that in order to gain

  • respect we must first give respect

  • however at times in our lives we may

  • find ourselves doing things that may

  • affect the level of respect people have

  • for us here are eight common habits that

  • could probably make people lose respect

  • for you but fret not for after watching

  • this video you'll know the things to

  • avoid and how to handle certain

  • situations 1 allowing others to

  • interrupt you easily ever had people

  • butt into your conversation frustrating

  • right if you find yourself constantly

  • being interrupted and you let them get

  • away with it people may lose their

  • respect for you it can give off the

  • impression that you're unable to stand

  • up for yourself even if you're being

  • courteous you should know where to draw

  • the line some people may take advantage

  • of it thinking it's okay to disrespect

  • the speaker it is normal to be

  • interrupted in a conversation but you

  • should try not to flinch and carry on

  • with your sentence then get back to the

  • interrupter to interrupt when others are

  • still talking on the flip side do you

  • wait until the other person pauses

  • before you open your mouth or do you

  • have it really interrupt others when

  • they're still speaking in some

  • situations interrupting the nonstop

  • chatter is the only way you can get a

  • word in edgewise however it's generally

  • in bad form if you interrupt when it's

  • not necessary 3 pushing opinions on to

  • others like sales no one likes to be

  • pressured into buying anything it's

  • alright to just be introduced to a

  • product however pushing sales to family

  • or friends can often feel suffocating

  • and people tend to do it because it's

  • convenient the same goes for your

  • opinions and beliefs if you try to make

  • everyone align their beliefs with yours

  • they might see you as overbearing it

  • will likely cause others to distance

  • themselves from you it's hard for people

  • to respect those who don't respect their

  • right to think for themselves for not

  • following through were you rattling off

  • your new year's resolutions to all

  • present at dinner do you often make your

  • plans public even before you set them

  • into motion you might want to be careful

  • as not following through these plans can

  • often affect the respect people have for

  • you telling others about your plan sort

  • of holds you accountable for carrying

  • out those said plans if you sleep on

  • them for too long despite frequent

  • mentions people may peg you as they all

  • talk without actual action type as time

  • passes people may disregard whatever you

  • tell them as they feel there will only

  • be inaction thus their respect for you

  • will gradually be lost as well 5 being

  • inconsiderate being inconsiderate can

  • give off the impression that you are

  • selfish and unthoughtful using the point

  • above as an example allowing others to

  • interrupt you easily can make people

  • there's respect for you on the flip side

  • disregarding the interrupter in the

  • conversation can also be bad as you may

  • come off as being inconsiderate

  • thus you can include the interrupter by

  • returning to what they were saying after

  • you finished your conversation 6 being

  • dishonest and lacking integrity

  • nobody can tolerate liars when you know

  • someone has this bad habit you

  • automatically consider every word they

  • utter a lie whether it's repeatedly

  • being unable to fulfill your promises or

  • telling lies the end result is the same

  • you begin to lose respect this is

  • because it gives people the impression

  • that you're not trustworthy or

  • dependable and you have questionable

  • principles being dishonest and

  • displaying a lack of integrity will only

  • make people lose respect for you 7

  • bragging too much how do you do I just

  • graduated from Harvard Law it sure feels

  • crunchy when people begin to advertise

  • themselves to us without being asked

  • right it's normal for people to take

  • pride in their achievements and to share

  • their joy with their friends and family

  • however overdoing it can often lead to

  • people losing respect for an individual

  • talking about your achievements at the

  • very beginning when you're meeting

  • someone for the first time can make them

  • uneasy unless they have specifically

  • asked an eight you treat people based on

  • personal gain

  • everyone has the right to think about

  • self benefits right

  • however if that's the only way you view

  • your relationships not only will you

  • lose respect but you'll lose friends as

  • well it's understandable to behave

  • differently depending on who were with

  • as we're closer and more distant in

  • certain social circles but if your

  • behavior with people is based only on

  • what you can attain from them you'll

  • probably not gain any respect from

  • anyone we're often taught to treat

  • others the way we want to be treated the

  • same goes for respect as well treating

  • people based on personal gain will only

  • make people lose respect for you many

  • relationships in life are built on

  • mutual respect and Trust respect must be

  • earned through our actions in order for

  • others to respect us we must first

  • respect them and ourselves as well it's

  • a good note that we must not lose our

  • self-respect because at different times

  • in our lives we may meet people who are

  • not worthy of our respect as well do you

  • think respect is integral for

  • maintaining good relationships can you

  • relate to any of these scenarios please

  • let us know in the comments below also

  • share this video with anyone who you

  • think might benefit from it see you in

  • our next video and as always thanks for

  • watching

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