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One of the most common difficulties with getting to sleep is that people just can't turn their minds off.
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You might be tired and sluggish all day but you lay down in bed and all of a sudden your mind just starts going and won't stop.
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If you find yourself worrying at night when you would rather be sleeping, consider using one of the following strategies.
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First, distract yourself with interesting and engaging imagery.
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Involve as many of your physical senses as possible: sight, sound, smell, etc.
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The more creative and unusual the imagery, the better.
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These kinds of images can then transfer into dream content, so keep it pleasant and positive.
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Second, let the worrisome thoughts and images come and go.
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Don't try to push them out of your head; trying not to think about something never works for long.
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Not only will you start to think about these things again, now your arousal will be higher, too.
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Instead, let the negative thoughts play out all the way through.
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For example, if you think about doing a bad job at a presentation, think about what you'll be doing an hour after it's over.
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Keep going until the stressful part is over and you're back into your normal life.
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Don't just replay the worst parts over and over.
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You can also use mindfulness techniques to focus your attention on something in the present.
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Worry is about the future, so instead, gently direct your attention to something pleasant in the room.
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You can always focus on your breathing.
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But it may also be helpful to focus on a physical sensation, like how warm and soft your blankets feel, or a pleasant night sound, or a nice smell if you have candles or flowers in your room.
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Anything that helps you focus your attention on something that's happening right now, rather than something that might happen in the future, can be helpful.
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Finally, there are a number of techniques you can use that might help you feel pleasant emotion with low arousal.
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For example, rather than thinking about what might go wrong, try to focus your attention on something that you're looking forward to with joy and optimism.
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You could also think of something that happened during the last day or two that you are grateful for.
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It doesn't have to be a big thing.
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Or you could think of someone in your life who has had a positive impact on you; maybe a teacher, a coach, a friend, or mentor.
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Think about what that person meant to you, and how they have changed your life.
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Feeling fortunate or grateful for that person can reduce worry and help you sleep.
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You can even think about nice things that you have done or that you could do for people close to you.
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Try to remember how they responded, and how you felt when you were kind to them.